neither actions nor words mean n e thing if your intuition is telling you something different...love is the intuitive knowledge of our hearts
I'm not here to save people, just love them for who they are and where they are
Honesty and trust go along way, even when being honest "hurts", it always strengthens the bond in the long run
Loving to love feels way better than loving to get...loving to love means the love is already in you now all you have to do is share it....and this way of loving always ensures love is what you get back....what you put out you get back...
all loving relationships start with the self first
men are just as emotionally jacked up as we think women are
men have just as many insecurities as we think most women do, especially about their physical looks
men have just as many hang ups and issues over sex and sexuality as we think women do
some relationships are soley meant to prepare you to becoming a more loving person know when to let go and release, get the lesson and open yourself up to invite in the deeper relationship of love
hurt people hurt others and a relationship of taking jabs at each other will ensure you create a nice unhealthy bond of negative energy that keeps you together but not happy
true heart connections aren't determined by a legal contract....if you don't have the heart connection before you get married, there is a good chance you won't have it after you get married....sacred marriage is the union of two souls on mind/body/spirit levels...unite your souls to each other in love to really feel what a sacred union really feels like
conditional love doesn't make people feel secure in their relationship....EVER...whether married, together for years, or anything else...unconditional love does
what bothers you in others is what you have an issue with within yourself
men really do like women who like themselves
the "nice guy" is the equivalent to the "nice girl".....nothing but sugar coated terms for doormats and people who don't think they deserve n e thing more than to get ran over...some "nice" people lay down and try to grab your feet to stomp all over them and then get upset about it
resisting temptation doesn't make one strong, just makes them more neurotic within and more cause more internal fighting, conflict and anger....getting to the core issue of why the temptation exists or experiencing the temptation is what gets them over it
Overpowering another in a relationship is only satisfying for a short period of time and does neither party any good
there is a difference between sharing of yourself with another as a gift in love and completely giving away yourself to another where they have all the power over you
compromising yourself for "love" gives you no different feeling than if you compromised yourself in any other circumstance.....there is a difference between wanting to be open and make conscious efforts to start enjoying what you do and engage in if you don't vs doing what doesn't bring you joy and settling for the discontent feeling you have with yourself simply to appease another
Being in tune with yourself makes it that much easier to be in tune with others...when you stop dilluding yourself and remove your own masks and fronts you will clearly be able to see others
If you experience a great love and it ends it doesn't mean you go out and settle for less than what you just experienced it means something greater is possible for you to experience...the end of a great love isn't a punishment, its a blessing to let you know that there is greater for all involved....when you do find a great love enjoy it whether it last for a month or 10 years....most people are so concerned over whats gonna happen tomorrow or in the future with this love that all they focus on is the thought of losing it and never enjoy what they have in the present moment...
waiting on somebody else to change will only leave you frustrated and unhappy...be the change you want to see in a relationship..either the one you are in will change for the better or it will end to bring you in one that will bring you what you are wanting to experience
there is a difference in targeting a man's heart vs targeting his ego....
if a man is chasing me, it means I haven't chosen him and most likely never will...
there is no need to chase a man, if a woman is chasing he is running....
mutual connections and acting on real feelings lead to healthy relationships...anybody who isn't keeping it real when you are won't be a vibrating match to you and vice versa
the spirit thrives off of expression, wilts on repression....expressing love when one feels it makes the heart sing...repressing it because another isn't responding to you a certain way means that other person has power over your expressions and note there is a difference between loving somebody and being okay with how things are and being obsessed trying to force things to be a certain way by any means necessary (ie emotional manipulation, playing games, using things against them, punishing them, etc) those aren't actions out of love
no time is ever wasted in a relationship...and the "bad" ones provide the most opportunity for growth, strength and ability to become more loving