mallysmommy
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i agree with everyone else and because i am in a "female dog" mood i say drop his stanking behind #thatisall =)
RS1976 said:He didn't tell me upfront because he was trying to pull a fast one on me, but it didn't work.
So who else brought their girlfriend to this "all guys trip"?
Well according to the pics I saw there were other couples.
I hope you've dumped, because I'll bet he's not telling you the real story of what happened. Were his "boys" really even there? Are you really his girlfriend or just the girl on the side or his rebound? You just never know with some men these days.
I don't even too much believe his story about not cancelling. I can't think of an amount of money that would make me go on a trip and be in photos with any of my ex's.
I don't even too much believe his story about not cancelling. I can't think of an amount of money that would make me go on a trip and be in photos with any of my ex's.
Yes I have let him go, I don't like sneaky people, they are dangerous. Thanks ladies for all your advice, even though my gut was telling me to leave.
RS1976 said:Yes I have let him go, I don't like sneaky people, they are dangerous. Thanks ladies for all your advice, even though my gut was telling me to leave.
Fine 4s said:Did new information surface? What did he say? I brought this scenario up to some folks who actually didn't see it as an end all.
Just curious, were u able to reach him at all when he was away on this trip? I.E. the hotel room phone number and room details etc?
How did he take it? Was he salty?
SaNyjh said:I asked my SO about this scenario. Once I was able to keep his attention on the specifics of the scenario, he said it sounds like ol boy may still have feelings for the ex and may be thinking of reconciling with her. He said the OP has 3 options:
1. Cut her losses and leave dude alone
2. Let it go and continue dating him, since the relationship is new
3. Have a serious discussion with him on the future and expectations of their relationship. That's if nothing has already been discussed
My vote was #1. He knew what he was doing was wrong, that's why he lied.