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Speaking/Body Language: I never/rarely speak first, but if I'm interested I will hold you hostage. I also touch when I talk when I'm interested, the shoulder, the knee, the waist when I hug. I also talk with my hands: Vanna White
I try to be conscious of hands on hips or crossed arms that is negative body language. This is a hair board:
DON'T FORGET THE HAIR TOSS if yours is short DON'T FORGET TO RUN YOUR FINGERS THROUGH YOUR HAIR even if I'm not interested if I make eye contact with a person male or female I say hello it is good manners and a nice practice if you are a quiet person.
Eye contact: I used to be scared to look people in the eye now I look people right in the eye then look away then look back at them. If i walk past I look them in the eye and then turn all the way back around and look at them so they know I was looking at the. Men need an in they don't like rejection the long look let's them feel comfy to approach.
I don't smile 25/8 but I do smize when I think about it. I too have a stern serious look but when a man says smile I show all 40 of my teeth! I also use that as an opportunity to start a conversation if I'm interested.
Dress: The girls are rarely on display but the night at the sports bar they were and that was my highest quantity of numbers in a day. I was also walking through the crowd so they could see my lady lumps
A few I met while I was sitting at my table. I'm not the type to dress up every day or be in heels or even wear earrings but a simple thing that I am starting to do is to make sure my eyebrows are always drawn on
I have posted many times that mine naturally resemble Whoopi, and large dangly earrings. Even the simplest .99 beauty supply earrings make you look like you care even if you don't and I usually don't (quit clutching ya pearls you know you got some cheap beauty supply "jury")
Scent of a woman: I don't bathe in the stuff but I have noticed lately I'm getting that my hair smells nice. I use a particular activator in my hair and I do 1 spray of the Dove mist in my hair. I spray my wrist once and rub together, the back of my knees, the front of my neck, the back of my neck and my hair. I might not even do a full spray. I also use vanilla scented lotion but I think it is mostly the spray that gets them. My BVLGARI Au The Vert (Green Tea) body lotion gets a similar reaction but for some reason only the small travel size. When I bought the large one from the store I got almost no reaction. I'm going to put it on today and see.
ETA: confidence I forgot that one it is the most important second to smizing Pick something to feel good about and roll with it:
-I might look a mess but if my eyebrows are on point I'm like yeah I see you peeping my brows they are the business I know
-Ooh my butt looks good in these jeans then proceed to walk around like I don't pay rent
-Yeah my dangly earrings are cute you want some proceeds to toss them over my shoulder
Yes I am a bit touched. I have music constantly playing in my head, I'm constantly having conversations with myself, and I laugh at my own personal jokes sometimes out loud. That's just me. I have a case of ADD but I've figured out a way to make it work for me. If you are quiet make that mystery. Just work what ya got!