I Just Want The Sex

a. i have a fwb
b. im getting old

we use condoms but if i get knocked up, whatever :look:

im not trying to. but im getting lax.

hmmmm. maybe i should go back on the pill. ive gotten too comfortable with "knowing my cycle" :lol:
 
vani said:
Yasss! That is *precisely* what I need right now. I need some good and steady D. I just got out of à 4 year relationship. He was my first everytging and the whole duration of our relationship, the sex was BOMB.

I miss good sex, but I don't feel like being in a relationship right now. :-/
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Go on ahead girl!! FWB in all the times I had them are not usually consistent. At minimum you have to have your star player and always 1-2 on the bench. Now finding men wit delicious dyck, that know how to use it is the struggle. But men almost freely give up a dyck pic now a days lol
 
Naveah2050 said:
If OP aint wanna commit to a man what makes you think she wants to be tied down with a child?
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Same question I have for women who allegedly don't want to get married but live with a dude for 10 years, have joint bank accounts with him, and kids with him.

it still shocks me that people are so casual about sex. If you want to get married next year, do you have a prospect? Are you just planning to sleep with a bunch of different men?
 
frogkisses said:
Go on ahead girl!! FWB in all the times I had them are not usually consistent. At minimum you have to have your star player and always 1-2 on the bench. Now finding men wit delicious dyck, that know how to use it is the struggle. But men almost freely give up a dyck pic now a days lol
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Thank you for the tips.

Star player, 1-2 on the bench..got it! :lol:

There's this security guard at the mall close to where I work. He is fione. Like David from Being Mary Jane fione. My body is ready.
 
frogkisses said:
Go on ahead girl!! FWB in all the times I had them are not usually consistent. At minimum you have to have your star player and always 1-2 on the bench. Now finding men wit delicious dyck, that know how to use it is the struggle. But men almost freely give up a dyck pic now a days lol
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Lmao about the d*ck pic. These men sure do give it up with no hesitation! And yes my FWB isn't always consistent either. I don't feel comfortable sleeping with too many men so I do have my star player and 1 more on the side PRN lol

Personally I don't like wasting a sexual experience. If I'm going to sleep with you again it's only because I know you know how to put it down.
 
*SkolarStar* said:
How do you find a fwb? What's the interview process like?

I want one. :look:
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Very easy. Its like dating without any restrictions at all. My only prerequisites is that he is FIONE, his dyck game is TIGHT, and he still treats me with respect (not to be confused with he has high respect for you)
It will work out longer if he has a fatal flaw you know you couldn't live with.
For example:
I had a FWB that was in and out of jail for dealing drugs. His kingpin dyck was SO bomb.
I had a FWB who supported Trump :spinning:
I've had several FWB who were in "serious" relationships :rolleyes:

Its usually one date to figure out I'm not compatible enough to like them, and before the second date I should have a dyck pic, and I ask if they eat pompom :hungry: if the dyck pic looks good and he give it up quickly* AND he eats pompom then we are in service. :callme:

I don't like having my body count tooo high so I try and re-duse -> re-use -> and recycle when I can.


* I once asked for a dyck pic and the guy got very offended and started talking to most shyt. We were texting for over an hour about this stupid pic. I ended with "I was just curious about what you're working with. I was in no way intending to offend, just wanted to unwrap my present before Christmas I suppose..." :laugh: 10 minutes later I had the most scrumptious looking dyck on my screen. My body was ready. Maybe a week later we finally set it up and he pulls down his pants and :ohsnap::pullhair: I speak without thinking sometimes so I said "Where is your dyck at?!" :nono: He was P I S S E D :rofl:his lyin *** wouldn't send me a dyck pic because his paynus was smaller than my thumb. :pyro: I left with the quickness :roadrunner:
 
my FWBs function as boyfriends but without the monogamy. we hang out and go places and they pay and then we have sex and dont bother each other until next time.

this hasnt worked out well on occasions when a.) we texted frequently everyday (i caught feelings) and b.) he wanted to hang out with me all the time (he caught feelings). so basically limited contact is a must.

i have never had a date-gone-badly turn into a fwb. mine are usually guys i meet friday/saturday nights who hit me up the next day on ********, or guys online where we discuss the boundaries very frankly. the former category tends to be FWBs the latter category more often FBs. so its better to meet someone IRL due to non-specific circumstances if you want a more consistent relationship IME. i have had guys i met online for FWB purposes hang around long term (which for me is a yearish and longer) but that tends to be out of the ordinary.

ive never asked for a dick pic, but i am not super particular about penis size. im fine as long as he is at least average, which is generally the case.

if you are on the fence about having a FWB what i would advise is going the online route but only looking for a guy that will go down on you with nothing in return for him. then you can negotiate from there where you feel comfortable because you already got yourself a malleable one. for me when it comes to FWBs i tend to prefer guys i can walk over a little just because if it's going to work i need to not ever feel like i'm being taken advantage of. the time i mentioned up there where i caught feelings it was coincidentally with a guy who didnt let me call the shots, so everything ended up getting ****ed up :sad:
 
*SkolarStar* said:
How do you find a fwb? What's the interview process like?

I want one. :look:
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Do you specifically want an Fwb or an FB?

If you're fine with having an FB it is ridiculously easy. Pick a guy who you can deal with that you are least likely to catch feelings for. As frogkisses mentioned, him having a serious flaw helps :yep:. You basically just hint that you want to sex them. Most of the time a man will agree to it.

I'm dealing with an fwb right now, and honestly I prefer the FB set up better. There are no blurred lines when dealing with an FB and there is wayyy less energy expended. At least this is the case for me. So right now I am part of my very own social experiment :lol:
 
@qchelle, post: 21918231, member: 191686"]I would have an abortion wayyyyy before I kept on being pregnant with some random dicks' baby :lol: That is a no brainer :lol:

Are people who are open to fwb situations not open to abortion? That is so dumb. That is really dumb :lol:[/QUOTE]

LMBAO at 'random dicks' baby'
 
frogkisses said:
:look: I hear that a lot in person too. Just re-telling my Scorpio ways :lachen:
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Of course you would be a Scorpio!! I am too but I like how open and explicit you are. I'm usually like that in my head or with my FB's

Do you have any advice on making a man go wild in bed. Giving good head of course is one and like the men like to say having a tight ****y is key but any tips in general?:look:
 
I guess I can share a good sex tip before frogkisses responds. My sister taught me to go with a mans stroke. For example when he inserts you squeeze your vaginal muscles as in the Kegal exercise and when he is pulling out release. It drives them crazy because you are griping the ***** on insertion, that real tight feeling.

A lot of women don't know how to ride the ****. Don't just sit on it (which is fine too because men Love that but it gets old quick ) you are the star when on top. Get in a squat position, put your hands on his chest for support and start squatting on him.make sure you are literally going up and down in and out movement. Or get close to his chest, lay on his chest and bounce on the peen with your butt motioning up and down. A good porno will demonstrate this move.

Men usually love sloppy head. Get it as wet as you can, occasionally deep threat and look him in the eyes as if it's your best meal better yet your last meal. For those not opposed to swallowing you can always leave him with the "thank you for breakfast, lunch, dinner (whatever time of day it is)" wipe your mouth and lick your finger. That drives men nuts and keep on sucking after he ***s.

Ok that's all I have for now. I will add anything else I can think of lol
 
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strenght81 said:
I guess I can share a good sex tip before frogkisses responds. My sister taught me to go with a mans stroke. For example when he inserts you squeeze your vaginal muscles as in the Kegal exercise and when he is pulling out release. It drives them crazy because you are griping the ***** on insertion, that real tight feeling.

A lot of women don't know how to ride the ****. Don't just sit on it (which is fine too because men Love that but it gets old quick ) you are the star when on top. Get in a squat position, put your hands on his chest for support and start squatting on him.make sure you are literally going up and down in and out movement. Or get close to his chest, lay on his chest and bounce on the peen with your butt motioning up and down. A good porno will demonstrate this move.

Men usually love sloppy head. Get it as wet as you can, occasionally deep threat and look him in the eyes as if it's your best meal better yet your last meal. For those not opposed to swallowing you can always leave him with the "thank you for breakfast, lunch, dinner (whatever time of day it is)" wipe your mouth and lick your finger. That drives men nuts and keep on sucking after he ***s.

Ok that's all I have for now. I will add anything else I can think of lol
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I would second the sloppy head. Sometimes its so simple that people forget: Just ask. Men are to varied for there to be some full-proof answer.
Almost every time a guy has gone crazy or cum super quick its because I say "Tell me how you'd like this pompom daddy/baby/sugar/his name.." I usually say it right after sucking his dyck into oblivion.

Sometimes when I know all I want is that dyck I'll tell a man exactly how we gonna **** and when he's gonna cum :lachen:
I'm crazy :look: so we'll just be walking in a grocery store, driving to an event, dancing in a club, whatever and I'll just calmly say "You know when we get back to your place you're gonna throw me against the closest wall, rip off my clothes, and then make me gag on that dyck. **** me *position * style, rub my/touch my/suck on my *body part*, repeat with *position B*, repeat with *position C* if applicable. You're gonna cum all over this *body part*, then you're gonna eat me until that face of yours is all wet" ;)
He'll be all :oops::oops: "what'd you say.."
nikka you heard me LOUD and clear. :angel:
If thats to much for LHCF let a gal know :lachen:
 
strenght81 said:
I guess I can share a good sex tip before frogkisses responds. My sister taught me to go with a mans stroke. For example when he inserts you squeeze your vaginal muscles as in the Kegal exercise and when he is pulling out release. It drives them crazy because you are griping the ***** on insertion, that real tight feeling.

A lot of women don't know how to ride the ****. Don't just sit on it (which is fine too because men Love that but it gets old quick ) you are the star when on top. Get in a squat position, put your hands on his chest for support and start squatting on him.make sure you are literally going up and down in and out movement. Or get close to his chest, lay on his chest and bounce on the peen with your butt motioning up and down. A good porno will demonstrate this move.

Men usually love sloppy head. Get it as wet as you can, occasionally deep threat and look him in the eyes as if it's your best meal better yet your last meal. For those not opposed to swallowing you can always leave him with the "thank you for breakfast, lunch, dinner (whatever time of day it is)" wipe your mouth and lick your finger. That drives men nuts and keep on sucking after he ***s.

Ok that's all I have for now. I will add anything else I can think of lol
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frogkisses said:
I would second the sloppy head. Sometimes its so simple that people forget: Just ask. Men are to varied for there to be some full-proof answer.
Almost every time a guy has gone crazy or cum super quick its because I say "Tell me how you'd like this pompom daddy/baby/sugar/his name.." I usually say it right after sucking his dyck into oblivion.

Sometimes when I know all I want is that dyck I'll tell a man exactly how we gonna **** and when he's gonna cum :lachen:
I'm crazy :look: so we'll just be walking in a grocery store, driving to an event, dancing in a club, whatever and I'll just calmly say "You know when we get back to your place you're gonna throw me against the closest wall, rip off my clothes, and then make me gag on that dyck. **** me *position * style, rub my/touch my/suck on my *body part*, repeat with *position B*, repeat with *position C* if applicable. You're gonna cum all over this *body part*, then you're gonna eat me until that face of yours is all wet" ;)
He'll be all :oops::oops: "what'd you say.."
nikka you heard me LOUD and clear. :angel:
If thats to much for LHCF let a gal know :lachen:
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:notworthy::notworthy: Now THAT'S what I'm talking 'bout!
 
frogkisses said:
:blush:YAAASSS FWB with clear distinct boundaries are a life send! I don't associate em otion with sex though, and I'm very clear about what I want. At one glorious point in my life I had a man who would eat the kitty like it was his last meal(he was in a relationship and sex was "cheating" but not eating:lachen:) , and another man with his curved jumbo sized paynus (he couldn't eat kitty for ****). None of us spoke unless we wanted sex.

I had a stressful day at work and my kitty-eater came by on my lunch AND after work to service my pompom :amen: :dinnertime: and later that night I got dicked down for two 30 min sessions and still made it home in time to drink some tequila and watch Worst Cooks. :blondboob:
FWB are where it's at. Get one, get two, hell get one for everyday of the week. You'll never have such a low mantinance and yet high reward relationship any other time.
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frogkisses said:
Sometimes its so simple that people forget: Just ask.
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Very true. Whenever I ask a man for their favorite position they usually tell me. And the number one answer is always face down *** up.

Tip: I did learn that it's all in the arch. Lay real flat on the bed and arch your back as much as you can. Never fails! The only problem is the sore lower back the next day but it's worth it lol
 
okange76 said:
Couldn't do it. I get way too attached too quick. My biggest fear is getting strung out by someone who has no intention of ever thinking of a commitment or someone who has perfected the art of slinging D coz he has nothing else to offer me or any other woman.
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This was almost my reality. My sister talked some sense to me. I couldn't see the forest for the trees. Sadly 3 years later he is still doing the same thing, because that is all that he knows.
 
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