I would second the sloppy head. Sometimes its so simple that people forget: Just ask. Men are to varied for there to be some full-proof answer.
Almost every time a guy has gone crazy or cum super quick its because I say "Tell me how you'd like this pompom daddy/baby/sugar/his name.." I usually say it right after sucking his dyck into oblivion.
Sometimes when I know all I want is that dyck I'll tell a man exactly how we gonna **** and when he's gonna cum
I'm crazy
so we'll just be walking in a grocery store, driving to an event, dancing in a club, whatever and I'll just calmly say "You know when we get back to your place you're gonna throw me against the closest wall, rip off my clothes, and then make me gag on that dyck. **** me *position * style, rub my/touch my/suck on my *body part*, repeat with *position B*, repeat with *position C* if applicable. You're gonna cum all over this *body part*, then you're gonna eat me until that face of yours is all wet"
He'll be all
"what'd you say.."
nikka you heard me LOUD and clear.
If thats to much for LHCF let a gal know