Naveah2050
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Because some people cant help moralizing or judging...how did this go from looking for just sex to abortions and pro choice/pro life?
Because some people cant help moralizing or judging...how did this go from looking for just sex to abortions and pro choice/pro life?
Pushing what argument? Hit dogs will holler...I guess.Common sense would argue that this is 2015 and there is no reason for a woman to be pregnant unless she wants to, especially a woman of a certain age so your dogged insistence on pushing this argument forward makes no sense in this particular thread. If OP aint wanna commit to a man what makes you think she wants to be tied down with a child?
No hollering here - but I suspect some major projection on your side. Your whole argument doesnt even make sense -what epidemic exactly are you referring to and what's it got to do with OP's thread?Pushing what argument? Hit dogs will holler...I guess.
Clearly you are blind to the epidemic.
Carry on.
No hollering here - but I suspect some major projection on your side. Your whole argument doesnt even make sense -what epidemic exactly are you referring to and what's it got to do with OP's thread?
Remember your audience here is not solely 30-something and 40-something ...or even 20-somethings. There are people as young as 18 (even younger) on this board. Therefore don't assume only a "woman of a certain age" is reading.
Are we pretending that unwanted pregnancies is not a thing? Is that the narrative that we're going with? Are we assuming that these interactions do not increase likelihood of a "oops" babies with someone who'd probably not be the best choice of a father to a child?
So @Naveah2050 if you (not you ) want to drop it low and spread it wide for any Tom Dick and Harry just because you want the sex. Fine by me. Even if this promiscuity increases your chances of STD's (even with the use of condoms) and unwanted pregnancy. If it bothers you that I'm not a proponent of that, then God bless your heart and loins, and I hope you'll never give advice to any impressionable young women that are looking for that "okay" to just do it for the sex. I'm not on that band wagon and I will not advocate for it. I'm not a casual sex type of lady.
I should hope not.I'm not here to get anyone's rocks off.
OP (wherever she is) asked a question and I answered it, just like everyone else did. I'm not here to be a "YES" woman to anyone. What's the point in asking a question?No one on here was advocating for unhealthy sexual practices. You could've just said be careful op and kept it pushing, but instead you're dropping stats in favor of your agenda and using fear tactics. Most of us are grown. I can't help it if there are 12 years olds on here. But if they are, they now know people have sex outside of marriage, without getting knocked up and actually enjoy it.
Invest in sex toys.
I would've totally agreed with you before I started having sex...when masturbating would have always sufficed. But sometimes you just want a big strong man to knock it out and put you to sleep
You right tho, lol. I was just tryna keep it cute.
I would've totally agreed with you before I started having sex...when masturbating would have always sufficed. But sometimes you just want a big strong man to knock it out and put you to sleep
I swear some of y'all would ***k up a wet dream. I was all set to come in here and read and kee kee about fwb stories.
Not everything is for everybody.
My best friend got married then had a baby. They've been divorced for a few months now and he barely sees or speaks to their son and doesn't give her any money. She's basically a BM.
Technically, in my opinion at least, she's not a BM... she is an ex-wife. She is not in the same category as BM.
BUT to answer the OP's question. People do it all the time! If you can do so without catching feelings or diseases... do what you wanna do... You gonna do just that anyways, soooo... lol!
I absolutely agree, she's still a single mom... But she's been married and divorced. I understand "baby muva" to mean never married to the child's father, just as "baby daddy" would imply that he fathered a child and the couple were never wed.But she's still a single mom with no help from the dad.
That's how I understood it tooI absolutely agree, she's still a single mom... But she's been married and divorced. I understand "baby muva" to mean never married to the child's father, just as "baby daddy" would imply that he fathered a child and the couple were never wed.
Welp. Im a fan of a properly understood FWB situation. My best situations have been with guys ive physically lusted after big time, but emotionally wasnt checking for. That way im able to truly be happy for them when they start dating other people, and still be friends afterwards
YAAASSS FWB with clear distinct boundaries are a life send! I don't associate em otion with sex though, and I'm very clear about what I want. At one glorious point in my life I had a man who would eat the kitty like it was his last meal(he was in a relationship and sex was "cheating" but not eating) , and another man with his curved jumbo sized paynus (he couldn't eat kitty for ****). None of us spoke unless we wanted sex.
I had a stressful day at work and my kitty-eater came by on my lunch AND after work to service my pompom and later that night I got dicked down for two 30 min sessions and still made it home in time to drink some tequila and watch Worst Cooks.
FWB are where it's at. Get one, get two, hell get one for everyday of the week. You'll never have such a low mantinance and yet high reward relationship any other time.