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There is a current thread on dating between darker-skinned Black women and men of another race. My topic is a little different in that I wish to expound upon one I happened across on another thread in the political forum. Please find the excerpt below after this question. In red is my response:
QUESTIONIs it easier for you to date outside your culture or do you prefer to stay within your cultural heritage and if so or if not, why?
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I just have a problem with those who choose White or other cultures over Blacks; seeing Blacks as the lower or the lessor. I've heard some Black men prefer hispanics over a Black woman. That's wrong. Women do it too.
I tend to agree with this statement but for different reasons. I'm Black but I'm not African American, I am First Nations. Many people do not comprehend that well but our "countries" were here before the United States. Truly, the U.S. was a new country to my ggrandfather and he was born on this land. But for a variety of reasons, I am seeing things differently. Red,Black or White, I would only wish to be with an Indian man. I married an East African and that was sheer hell. Not only dealing with the culture and its expectations, but with the lack of respect for me and my culture that reared its ugly head AFTER marriage. I want someone who takes First Nations seriously and supports our way of life. Someone who is not afraid of traditional religion or our ways. Someone who wishes to learn them and devote his life to them.
As for color, we come in 3, even Yellow. But I would never again marry "outside" my race. That includes non-Native Black men. I won't make that mistake again. BTW, I have lovely 1/2 Ethiopian kids but I sold out on his culture and am now backtracking. I'm sure there's some lady on here who fully comprehends what I'm talking about...maybe someone who married a Muslim or another religion?
This should be a different thread, I know. Anybody willing to join me in another forum with this topic? It's been on my mind for awhile and there are few fora where I can engage in this type of issue.
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QUESTIONIs it easier for you to date outside your culture or do you prefer to stay within your cultural heritage and if so or if not, why?
.
I just have a problem with those who choose White or other cultures over Blacks; seeing Blacks as the lower or the lessor. I've heard some Black men prefer hispanics over a Black woman. That's wrong. Women do it too.
I tend to agree with this statement but for different reasons. I'm Black but I'm not African American, I am First Nations. Many people do not comprehend that well but our "countries" were here before the United States. Truly, the U.S. was a new country to my ggrandfather and he was born on this land. But for a variety of reasons, I am seeing things differently. Red,Black or White, I would only wish to be with an Indian man. I married an East African and that was sheer hell. Not only dealing with the culture and its expectations, but with the lack of respect for me and my culture that reared its ugly head AFTER marriage. I want someone who takes First Nations seriously and supports our way of life. Someone who is not afraid of traditional religion or our ways. Someone who wishes to learn them and devote his life to them.
As for color, we come in 3, even Yellow. But I would never again marry "outside" my race. That includes non-Native Black men. I won't make that mistake again. BTW, I have lovely 1/2 Ethiopian kids but I sold out on his culture and am now backtracking. I'm sure there's some lady on here who fully comprehends what I'm talking about...maybe someone who married a Muslim or another religion?
This should be a different thread, I know. Anybody willing to join me in another forum with this topic? It's been on my mind for awhile and there are few fora where I can engage in this type of issue.
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