My-ex gf is in a greencard marriage. She's been married for like 5 or 6. She's gay!
Got it @leona2025
The reasons for which the divorce process has neither started nor has been completed would be key then?
whoa........There are married mistresses on this board. Some man's wife still some other person's mistress. I think of one or two that are another married person's mistress. guess they have nothing to say, huh......
The only truth is what can be proved. Everything else is hearsay.
Divorce is actively disloyal. Unless you are getting your arse beat, your spouse makes an unthinkable decision that endangers your life or that of your children---there is no excuse for divorce. Divorce is also being a quitter. You should be able to handle whatever challenges life throws your way.
Jesus loves winners.
It's called AIDS.
Bring me home an STD and see what happens.
There is always the small but still real possibility that you get mixed up with "Fatal Attraction" type who will kill your wife and kids so you can have a clean slate with them.
I dated someone for a few months who I thought was divorced . They both lived in separate states and had a child together. Then I had a dream about him not being divorced legally. I asked to see his papers just to calm my fears but he always gave me excuse after excuse several times. Such as his mother is holding his papers or he has it in another state.. Finally I left him because I felt that it was morally wrong among other reasons and he would not show me the papers . After the fact, he told me they never filed because they had both moved on with their lives and too lazy and broke to file .
That's all I needed to confirm why I needed to end it.
Here's how I see it, everything happens for a reason
Since folks brought god into this thread. God makes no mistakes. That means your spouse cheated on you a reason. If he gave you AIDS, you were blessed with AIDS ifor a reason..
Now when you find out he infected you with HIV or an STD. chile go on and file for that divorce....
Here's how I see it, everything happens for a reason
Since folks brought god into this thread. God makes no mistakes. That means your spouse cheated on you a reason. If he gave you AIDS, you were blessed with AIDS ifor a reason..
Now when you find out he infected you with HIV or an STD. chile go on and file for that divorce....
I don't think its completely wrong to be a mistress. I do think that cheating is wrong and the person cheating should be held accountable though. I don't like that the slut label is automatically thrown onto a women who is a mistress yet the man who has cheated doesn't reap as many repercussions. If its a bit of fun for the mistress then no problem but the man should 100% be held accountable and the women shouldn't feel guilty for wanting it. It is useful to know that women who constantly go for married/unavailable men do it because of (sometimes) personal self esteem issues. There's an interesting article on psychologytoday.
I just hope the mistress feels the same when she is in a relationship and she is the one cheated on. In my experience women who cheat with married men/men who have GF are the first ones ready to dog out the other woman when it's their turn to deal with a cheating man.
Well if she is being cheated on then she should blame the man. Who she in love with? the mistress?I just hope the mistress feels the same when she is in a relationship and she is the one cheated on. In my experience women who cheat with married men/men who have GF are the first ones ready to dog out the other woman when it's their turn to deal with a cheating man.
Well if she is being cheated on then she should blame the man. Who she in love with? the mistress? That's their choice if they wanna do that I'm just saying that the mistress at that time shouldn't be made to feel guilty while the man get's to continue with his life. Just double standards and one of the side-effects of women hating on eachother imo.
The man shouldn't be let off the hook at all, but neither should she. Unless she didn't know he was married. This whole if she wants a little fun is abhorrent to me. They are both skanky in my book.
Well if she is being cheated on then she should blame the man. Who she in love with? the mistress? That's their choice if they wanna do that I'm just saying that the mistress at that time shouldn't be made to feel guilty while the man get's to continue with his life. Just double standards and one of the side-effects of women hating on eachother imo.
yes and I would do it again
I hope no young impressionable (or old and lost) poster takes this thread seriously.
There is nothing for anyone to be concerned about that is, unless some women are scared a mistress will steal their man. Then in that case, it's in a woman's best interest to be super mad at him----but then again he's gone, so she'd just have to file for divorce.: look;
yes and I would do it again