first of all i never accused anyone of being upset or thinking too much. i said, why does anyone care? because the reactions to me, specifically in your posts, come across as outsized to the actual opinions being expressed, and this is a good example of why. who is all this shade being directed to? why are people in here talking about "true love exists even if everyone wants to fake like its not" and "you gone learn one day" and all of this? like, honestly, i dont understand this reaction. and maybe you dont mean to sound as extreme as it's coming off, the same way im sitting here puzzled over why these posts sound so strong and wounded. me sitting here trying to figure out what you are talking about and to whom all these dire warnings are being directed = wth is the outrage here? its like, i understand why mistresses are mistresses. i understand why husbands have mistresses. and i also understand how a wife's world can get turned upside down about a mistress. i understand and can empathize with every POV in that love triangle, but it's just that they all carry the same weight to me. none is more important or meaningful or noble than the other. so it's a wash for me. me wondering why anyone would get up in arms over anyone's role in the scenario is probably the same as people who come into race based threads and whine about how they don't get it and don't understand why anyone cares. your posts are coming off as if you have a bone to pick with someone and nobody really knows who you are referring to or why
unless im just out of the loop on it. you may not mean to sound that way, but thats how it sounds and thats why im going
at what comes across as unwarranted force. i want to tell you to chill out but i dont like it when people tone police not knowing whether or not a person is really upset irl either
its the internet it's hard to tell. but fyi, your posts are coming off as if you are personally offended.