Femmefatal1981
Well-Known Member
Long thread, so I may have missed a post or two, but are there any married women here who have actually gone through this (learned their husband had a mistress) and had this "well that is life" attitude about it or even better, indeed felt it saved their marriage? Seeing lots of folks hypothesize/speculate (especially when deep down, you don't really believe this will happen to you anyway), but would love to read some stories from those who have lived it and come out the other side in happier, healthier marriages.
I can't see any benefit to someone sharing that info on this site....