I'll entertain your theory. Drop him like he never happened. I'm always about self preservation and I detach easily. Life is short and I'm beautiful. We can be friends for the kids
Oh and as far as money and connects, I don't need to be a mistress to get that.
I like how you think.
I love Barbie so much. Only she can get away with saying certain things. Here I am a long-time married woman not bothered in the least by her admission of an affair with a married man and not gaf about the wife. Like really? But Barbie can say and do almost anything. IDK whyerplexed.
She really is .
Lol thanks. Funny thing is the mistress still wouldn't win, he'd spend the rest of his days trying to get me back
My mom has my dad wrapped around her finger, 36 years and 5 kids later, he'll even go against ME, his own first baby girl for her so I know I've learned from the best
Lol thanks. Funny thing is the mistress still wouldn't win, he'd spend the rest of his days trying to get me back
My mom has my dad wrapped around her finger, 36 years and 5 kids later, he'll even go against ME, his own first baby girl for her so I know I've learned from the best
YO but that's all the more reason you're likely to end up with a cheating man. you've already been used to coming in second. After all, you are not your mother to be able to enjoy such privileges. It's like first nature to you from birth. You're dad conditioned you to understanding you are not important and there is some woman, any woman, that can come before you. My father chooses me. every time. over my mom. over everyone else. even when I hate him. I would never tolerate anything less. Which is probably why I didnt notice when I didnt talk to married man anymore. I also never need to save phone numbers because I will always come first to other people. I dont need to call them, they want to call me.
YO
but that's all the more reason you're likely to end up with a cheating man. you've already been used to coming in second. After all, you are not your mother to be able to enjoy such privileges. It's like first nature to you from birth. You're dad conditioned you to understanding you are not important and there is some woman, any woman, that can come before you.
My father chooses me. every time. over my mom. over everyone else. even when I hate him. I would never tolerate anything less. Which is probably why I didnt notice when I didnt talk to married man anymore. I also never need to save phone numbers because I will always come first to other people. I dont need to call them, they want to call me.
YO
but that's all the more reason you're likely to end up with a cheating man. you've already been used to coming in second. After all, you are not your mother to be able to enjoy such privileges. It's like first nature to you from birth. You're dad conditioned you to understanding you are not important and there is some woman, any woman, that can come before you.
My father chooses me. every time. over my mom. over everyone else. even when I hate him. I would never tolerate anything less. Which is probably why I didnt notice when I didnt talk to married man anymore. I also never need to save phone numbers because I will always come first to other people. I dont need to call them, they want to call me.
She is a hot mess! but she is telling the truth. She kind of reminds me of my younger self. The stories I could tell ........although I have calmed down over the years, don't cross me....I am a true Scorpio.....I love Barbie so much. Only she can get away with saying certain things. Here I am a long-time married woman not bothered in the least by her admission of an affair with a married man and not gaf about the wife. Like really? But Barbie can say and do almost anything. IDK whyerplexed.
I wonder if there's any male forum on the web where men are saying they don't care if their gfs/wives **** around sometimes
I find men much more sexually possessive on average than women. Especially the ones that cheat
Thats why I can't be about that life. I remember a time when my bffs cheating husband sped home from work and kicked the door down because she didn't see her phone ringing. What is that about? If I'm forgiving then you will need to be too boo lol. The way it usually plays is the man is able to act on a whim but the woman risks a beating, or being cut off if she does.
I disagree with you here Barbie. You learn about your value by how both parents treat you and by how they treat each other. Her father didn't treat her badly, in fact sounds like he was a great dad. But he put his wife first which showed her that her husband should do the same when she grew up. A dad putting a child before the wife may feel good to the child at the time (and make her feel special) but how her mother felt and was treated will come into play when she becomes an adult and a wife. It would be different if he made his daughter second to the other children, his job, his hobbies, etc. but knowing mommy came first is a treasured memory IMO, and a beautiful example.
YO but that's all the more reason you're likely to end up with a cheating man. you've already been used to coming in second. After all, you are not your mother to be able to enjoy such privileges. It's like first nature to you from birth. You're dad conditioned you to understanding you are not important and there is some woman, any woman, that can come before you. My father chooses me. every time. over my mom. over everyone else. even when I hate him. I would never tolerate anything less. Which is probably why I didnt notice when I didnt talk to married man anymore. I also never need to save phone numbers because I will always come first to other people. I dont need to call them, they want to call me.
YO
but that's all the more reason you're likely to end up with a cheating man. you've already been used to coming in second. After all, you are not your mother to be able to enjoy such privileges. It's like first nature to you from birth. You're dad conditioned you to understanding you are not important and there is some woman, any woman, that can come before you.
My father chooses me. every time. over my mom. over everyone else. even when I hate him. I would never tolerate anything less. Which is probably why I didnt notice when I didnt talk to married man anymore. I also never need to save phone numbers because I will always come first to other people. I dont need to call them, they want to call me.
that's not true.
Everyone I treat like ****. Lover of friend, comes from a good two parent home. Theyve been treated so well all of their lives they are ripe for the picking. So forgiving. Want to believe the best in ff because that's what they want to do. I dont like people from disturbed homes or b ackgrounds. They fight back. Will give you a taste of your own medicine. I'd rather have someone that doesnt know whats going on, never lived life and naively clueless. loves it! you can get away with bloody effin murder with those women. again, friend or lover.
To me, marriage is not necessarily about sex. Maybe that's why I'm not understanding the concept of 'coming second' the way it's being used in this thread. Emotional affairs? No. Tricking on heaux? No. A one time only slip up? Meh. Just don't bring back no std's or no babies.
I don't get worked up by men. The last time I got my heart broken was seventh grade. Hit it right and regular, pay the bills, and fund our retirement, that's all I need him to do. It would take a lot more than that to make me cash out. Fortunately, my man thinks I'm a goddess from the sea born on a half-shell and puts loyalty to family above anything, so I'm not expecting to deal with this particular issue.
He goes when I'm done with him.I would never worry about a woman stealing my man from me. So all of this outrage is mind blowing,
that's not true. Everyone I treat like ****. Lover of friend, comes from a good two parent home. Theyve been treated so well all of their lives they are ripe for the picking. So forgiving. Want to believe the best in ff because that's what they want to do. I dont like people from disturbed homes or b ackgrounds. They fight back. Will give you a taste of your own medicine. I'd rather have someone that doesnt know whats going on, never lived life and naively clueless. loves it! you can get away with bloody effin murder with those women. again, friend or lover.
Some of them really are thirsty. I see so many dudes out, often with their SOs right there, eyes just darting to and fro, looking at any and every chick, hoping that one will lock in on their stares and give a go ahead stare back or nod. I hate having to dodge eyes from some unavailable dude staring holes in my head. Meanwhile single guys looking at the sky, their phones, lint on their jacket, etc. I find it all quite ironic.
that's not true.
Everyone I treat like ****. Lover of friend, comes from a good two parent home. Theyve been treated so well all of their lives they are ripe for the picking. So forgiving. Want to believe the best in ff because that's what they want to do. I dont like people from disturbed homes or b ackgrounds. They fight back. Will give you a taste of your own medicine. I'd rather have someone that doesnt know whats going on, never lived life and naively clueless. loves it! you can get away with bloody effin murder with those women. again, friend or lover.
I gotta disagree as well. My Dad ALWAYS chose my mom first, and my Mom ALWAYS chose my dad first. It sucked as a kid because they were such a united front that I couldn't get anything past them. Now as an adult, I know that I should come first in my husband's life...no questions asked.
Crazy as a bed bug, but remarkably insightful.Barbie, Barbie, Barbie
No shade, have you ever watched the movie Girl, Interrupted? You're like Angelina Jolie's character. Magnetic, unapologetic. Either a GENIUS or the next feature on Criminal Minds. I'm still deciding. I change my mind a lot But I rocks with you.
that's not true.
Everyone I treat like ****. Lover of friend, comes from a good two parent home. Theyve been treated so well all of their lives they are ripe for the picking. So forgiving. Want to believe the best in ff because that's what they want to do. I dont like people from disturbed homes or b ackgrounds. They fight back. Will give you a taste of your own medicine. I'd rather have someone that doesnt know whats going on, never lived life and naively clueless. loves it! you can get away with bloody effin murder with those women. again, friend or lover.
That's the thing, my mom taught me how to be the queen of the castle as a woman. Yeah you may give your husband a couple of kids that he'll love to death but you're still his queen. Once the babies age out and leave, it's just you and your husband. My folks are just about at the phase now and they love it.
When I get married, I'll essentially belong to my husband, I'll have his name, no longer my daddy's so I get it..[/QUOTE]
lol…seee, nah…Homie belongs to meeeee. Haha.
Damn. have you ever sent someone into therapy?
that's the type of stuff that creates some bitter broken people
That's the thing, my mom taught me how to be the queen of the castle as a woman. Yeah you may give your husband a couple of kids that he'll love to death but you're still his queen. Once the babies age out and leave, it's just you and your husband. My folks are just about at the phase now and they love it.
When I get married, I'll essentially belong to my husband, I'll have his name, no longer my daddy's so I get it..[/QUOTE]
lol…seee, nah…Homie belongs to meeeee. Haha.
Lol, I like the idea of being submissive and belonging to my husband, but of course on the low you own and run that arse
To me, marriage is not necessarily about sex. Maybe that's why I'm not understanding the concept of 'coming second' the way it's being used in this thread. Emotional affairs? No. Tricking on heaux? No. A one time only slip up? Meh. Just don't bring back no std's or no babies.
I don't get worked up by men. The last time I got my heart broken was seventh grade. Hit it right and regular, pay the bills, and fund our retirement, that's all I need him to do. It would take a lot more than that to make me cash out. Fortunately, my man thinks I'm a goddess from the sea born on a half-shell and puts loyalty to family above anything, so I'm not expecting to deal with this particular issue.