To this I say, people are different.. different environments, differnt states, differnt social standards for different people. Who/what is consideered marrying well doesnt mean the same thing everywhere.
Frozen eggs and fertility treatments undesirable failures to some folks but common place and borderline a status symbol in others. But for most women that want children the babies usually come regardless. Harder or requires more effort for some but produces the same quality children. I *personally* can only think of maybe one or two women chidlessness wasnt a choince. They wanted children but for whatever reason could never have them. But for both age and time of marriage had nothing to do with it.
What some folks consider married well or ideal where they are from makes me happy for them. bless your heart.
That's' all I got.
Fertility treatments don't improve your chances by that much anyway. But this article is talking about the average black woman which by definition includes most black women. I doubt these black women are all imagining that they are unicorns and acting accordingly. They are just older and single middle and upper middle class black women.
. But I agree with her age 24-28 is a good prime marrying age. I personally believe unless you are pursuing a high profile job and/or pursuing a degree like your masters or phd marrying before your 30s is good family planning. An exception does not negate the entire rule and I don't know why everyone tries to become the exception.
