2013 Whats happening Relationship Folks
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Briabiggles
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I'm finally with him. I've been so busy working everything is a blur. It feels good to see him when I get off of work versus on FaceTime. Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
So, so happy for you!!
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hopeful
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DarkJoy
Bent. Not Broken.
Pffft. I was right. He's a birthday blues kinda guy 
. Apparently, he's never been much of a celebrator.
Well F..K HIM and his maudlin ways!!!! I called and sang horrendously out of tune in his vm first thing this morning. And next I see him, he's gonna get DINNER, a fancy artisan CAKE. And ice cream! With a damn CANDLE. And gonna get him drunk and take total advantage!! Hell, he might even get a little PRESENT! Imagine that. Muahaha!!!
bday blues my black arse...hmph
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. Apparently, he's never been much of a celebrator. Well F..K HIM and his maudlin ways!!!! I called and sang horrendously out of tune in his vm first thing this morning. And next I see him, he's gonna get DINNER, a fancy artisan CAKE. And ice cream! With a damn CANDLE. And gonna get him drunk and take total advantage!! Hell, he might even get a little PRESENT! Imagine that. Muahaha!!!
bday blues my black arse...hmph
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Pffft. I was right. He's a birthday blues kinda guy
Well F..K HIM and his maudlin ways!!!! I called and sang horrendously out of tune in his vm first thing this morning. And next I see him, he's gonna get DINNER, a fancy artisan CAKE. And ice cream! With a damn CANDLE. And gonna get him drunk and take total advantage!! Hell, he might even get a little PRESENT! Imagine that. Muahaha!!!
bday blues my black arse...hmph
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Lol. Im a birthday blues kind of person. But when someone (ie a significant other) does something like that I secretly, (very secretly) like it, lol.
SincerelyJane
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Lol I bet you do. People like you get on my nerves. My last bf was like that, had to twist his arm to celebrate his own life. But I know he loved the attention
TwoSnapsUp
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My guesses and from what I have been told when this topic comes up:
Drama: "Baby mothers" more likely to cause trouble for new relationships than the "Baby fathers"
Money: All their money is tied up in child support.
Now, MY reason for not dating a man with multiple BMs: You created life with multiple women you had no desire to marry, why the heck would I date you...
Fine 4s
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TwoSnapsUp
How do you know they had no desire to marry them?
How do you know they had no desire to marry them?
Foxglove
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DarkJoy
Bent. Not Broken.
Well from men, and me having a young child, I find some men enjoy playing Captain Save Em. Swoop in, help a helpless woman and child out. I made a couple benefactors this way. In the past
Never had a man turn me away for having a child. They seem to get especially on it when they realize she is a girl and still young and needs things
Other platonic men friends have told me that mothers tend to be less wild, have more family oriented goals, etc. they don't consider the baby daddy, only to inquire and maybe fret the momma may still be sleeping with him.
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futureapl
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I'm going to meet her at the restaurant.
TwoSnapsUp
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That was the wrong choice of words.
If a man has children with multiple women and did not marry any of them, I don't care what his reasons are, I don't want him.
Topsido
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Bring flowers. Elegant flower like lily or tulip that hadn't bloomed yet. These usually takes 10 days to two weeks to bloom. As it blooms in her house, hopefully she looks at it, smiles and remembers what a thoughtful lovely "girl" you are.
sky_blu
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So my birthday weekend getaway has turned into a somewhat disaster. I really wanted to go to Puerto Rico, but my cousin set her wedding date for the same weekend. So we decided to turn that day into a nice weekend getaway. What I didn't expect is for a close family friend - who's just like family to pass away. So I'll be going to a wedding and funeral on the same day 
My SO was a little bummed about it but bc I'll be leaving him alone for a few hours to attend the funeral but we're just going to have to make the best of it. A real vacation will hopefully come next year.
My SO was a little bummed about it but bc I'll be leaving him alone for a few hours to attend the funeral but we're just going to have to make the best of it. A real vacation will hopefully come next year.
Briabiggles
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Had another pregnancy dream last night. The baby was due on our anniversary in May. I've lost count of how many baby dreams I've had. Even SO mentioned having one once. 
every time i have an odd craving I get worried!! Ahh!
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every time i have an odd craving I get worried!! Ahh!Sent from my iPad mini mini.
curlcomplexity
formerly qtslim83
...a friend told me that if it always feels like a break up then you should break up. Starting to understand what that friend meant.
First time I've heard this but it makes total sense.
crlsweetie912
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Spent time with the mister today. I think we are starting to act like an old couple. We were talking today and our anniversary came up. He was like oh I didn't forget!!!! I know. Somebody told us we are starting to look alike.....that tickled me. Wow almost a whole year. Who would have though!
tinkat
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Yes! Me too
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Thanks ladies! I am slowly settling in. I have been here barely a week and it is snowing. I am a southern girl, I am jealous bc family and friends are experiencing 60-80 degree weather!
Fine 4s
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If he's a heat machine, get a comforter and snuggle up at night! Focus on the benefits of the of cold
Yes! A benefit of the relationship...he has equity in his home and guess who's going to borrow from that equity for home improvements???! Meee! He'll take it out in his name, I'll be a co-signer and repay the loan. I'm glad he's willing cuz I sure as heck wouldn't do it LOL
Yes! A benefit of the relationship...he has equity in his home and guess who's going to borrow from that equity for home improvements???! Meee! He'll take it out in his name, I'll be a co-signer and repay the loan. I'm glad he's willing cuz I sure as heck wouldn't do it LOL
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DarkJoy
Bent. Not Broken.
He was trying to swerve up on me n dd this week end. Naw son. it's cute he's trying to move things along but there's some things I gotta put the brakes on.
But then again, it HAS been 7 months. Not like we just met yesterday.
That thought got me reflecting. Besides his vacay snafu, he's been in constant daily contact many times a day since day 1, sometimes to my annoyance. Lol. And recently, he's started calling me asking advice on how to resolve random stuff with varying degrees of severity in his life, from kids to work issues...
I guess that means he's trying to let me in. Has been for a while.
My turn, I guess.
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But then again, it HAS been 7 months. Not like we just met yesterday.
That thought got me reflecting. Besides his vacay snafu, he's been in constant daily contact many times a day since day 1, sometimes to my annoyance. Lol. And recently, he's started calling me asking advice on how to resolve random stuff with varying degrees of severity in his life, from kids to work issues...
I guess that means he's trying to let me in. Has been for a while.
My turn, I guess.
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MissMariee
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We talked marriage and babies tonight. Im sure it won't be for a while as our relationship is still fairly new, but I love that that's where his minds at.
Curly Lee
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What do you do when you get a gift you're throughly unimpressed with and the man asks to see you in it? No really. plus the gift symbolizes commitment yet we're not committed so the mixed signals are not cool and I don't appreciate them. It's a choker necklace by the way. I'm not wearing a your choker boy. Get your life. That's like some Rihanna and Chris Brown type mess. I don't even feel like explaining to him why I'm disappointed, I have finals to study for.
plus the gift symbolizes commitment yet we're not committed so the mixed signals are not cool and I don't appreciate them. It's a choker necklace by the way. I'm not wearing a your choker boy. Get your life. That's like some Rihanna and Chris Brown type mess. I don't even feel like explaining to him why I'm disappointed, I have finals to study for.SO is not a gift/holiday person. He asked me today to send him some suggestions on what I want. We've been together for about a year and a half and I have no idea what to tell him without sounding greedy. He's the type that needs a list of exactly what to get otherwise he will get frustrated and upset. Help!
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