SuchaLady
I would. I have advised women to wait until late-20s to 30 at the earliest to consider settling down, many many many times. I was so happy when Justin Beiber told Oprah he wanted to marry by 25 and she responded verbatim
"wait. 25 is too young." She's right, you just don't think it when you are under 25.
When my baby cousin recently married at 24, I was not pleased and told her not to do it. His parents werent pleased. My grandparents werent pleased either. The only one happy was her silly arse divorced single mama (only divorced woman on both sides of my bio family), a woman known for piss-poor decision making and had to raise her daughter most of her life alone. Anyway, my cousin is not ready for marriage despite what she thinks. I know her. She is not. She also has never lived in a married household to truly have a thorough understanding how marriage usually really works behind closed doors. This wont be good in a few.
Her DH is a good guy too (2 ivy degrees) but I already know how this will likely end.
Your twenties should be for YOU. The twenties truly are a whirlwind for everyone. Get life experience and wisdom under your belt so that you are able to make wise decision for your family later. Trust me, that "growing together" concept is often a romantic notion, rarely works out like that. It's best to be confident in who you TRULY are, something I've found only comes with age. Lately have been seeing A LOT of divorce announcements everywhere. Chicks on their second husband and father of their child already. It's crazy. We arent even 30 yet!
I have been dating since 14, I've been engaged 3 times. If I never took the opportunity to take time for myself to have my just by myself, I would never get it for the rest of my life once I decide to become a wife or mother. If I ever decide to marry, be it 30 or 40, I still have about 40-50 years of my life to devote to other people. I'm extremely glad that I waited, I'm much different now. I was not capable of being a good wife or mother before as I can do now. So happy I broke my last engagement off.
If you ever get the time, you should browse the Married Ladies Random thoughts threads. You'd be surprised how many people that caped for young marriage and were so in love with their DH 6 or 7 years ago are now divorced, in the process of getting one, or want one.
Not all but more than the opposite. Their advice is totally different now than it was during their twenties.