2013 Whats happening Relationship Folks
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Briabiggles
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Hello ladies!
So, I'm about to get kicked out of the single ladies thread.Coming here on my own is a pre-emptive strike. lol
I guess I got a budding SO in the works the last three months, so I'm here now, if no one minds
Welcome DarkJoy!
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crlsweetie912
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Hello ladies!
So, I'm about to get kicked out of the single ladies thread.
I guess I got a budding SO in the works the last three months, so I'm here now, if no one minds
Whoo Hooo! Doing the dougie!!!!!!
We had a great weekend....not sure if it was the hot tub...the massage...the kiddie bday party...the casino...or the grey goose In any event it was a good weekend.
I'm jelly he's off today getting the needed rest...I literally rolled out of bed...my body aches something horrible.
In any event it was a good weekend. I'm jelly he's off today getting the needed rest...I literally rolled out of bed...my body aches something horrible.
crlsweetie912
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I have a brain dump I want to make but I'm not sure how to say it........
Lucie
Dancin' on sunshine!
@hopeful I hope it works. 
I got it in white. http://www.bebe.com/Dresses/Bodycon...ro?refinementValueIds=1674,&selectedColor=gie
For some reason the link is not working properly. But if you look up cutout dress or whatever it is called you will see it.
I got it in white. http://www.bebe.com/Dresses/Bodycon...ro?refinementValueIds=1674,&selectedColor=gieFor some reason the link is not working properly. But if you look up cutout dress or whatever it is called you will see it.
MzLady78
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@hopeful I hope it works.
For some reason the link is not working properly. But if you look up cutout dress or whatever it is called you will see it.
Awww, shoot...Lucie. I know you were KILLIN' EM in that dress, you have the perfect shape for it.
DarkJoy
Bent. Not Broken.
Hey ladies, think I'll make a little introduction because I'm obviously confused.
This is the first relationship I'm starting in my adult life, having met my exH in HS over 20 years ago now. No clue what I'm doing. Both he and I are used to being 'secure' as his marriage lasted most of his adult life as well, for 13 years too.
Neither of us have real experience starting anything new and laying foundation, boundaries and all that stuff. I find myself doing that quite a bit, but I suppose this is normal? Testing each other and all that to a certain extent?
The good news is, neither one of us are slouches to longevity, hold on to delusions of perfection and understand some of what it takes to make something long-term.
Crossing my fingers we can get it together. And yea, I admit it finally crlsweetie912--I really do care about him! Dont laugh!
Congrats on 6 months btw!!!! YAY!!!! Goes by fast, huh?!
This is the first relationship I'm starting in my adult life, having met my exH in HS over 20 years ago now. No clue what I'm doing. Both he and I are used to being 'secure' as his marriage lasted most of his adult life as well, for 13 years too.
Neither of us have real experience starting anything new and laying foundation, boundaries and all that stuff. I find myself doing that quite a bit, but I suppose this is normal? Testing each other and all that to a certain extent?
The good news is, neither one of us are slouches to longevity, hold on to delusions of perfection and understand some of what it takes to make something long-term.
Crossing my fingers we can get it together. And yea, I admit it finally crlsweetie912--I really do care about him! Dont laugh!
Congrats on 6 months btw!!!! YAY!!!! Goes by fast, huh?!
crlsweetie912
Well-Known Member
Hey ladies, think I'll make a little introduction because I'm obviously confused.
This is the first relationship I'm starting in my adult life, having met my exH in HS over 20 years ago now. No clue what I'm doing. Both he and I are used to being 'secure' as his marriage lasted most of his adult life as well, for 13 years too.
Neither of us have real experience starting anything new and laying foundation, boundaries and all that stuff. I find myself doing that quite a bit, but I suppose this is normal? Testing each other and all that to a certain extent?
The good news is, neither one of us are slouches to longevity, hold on to delusions of perfection and understand some of what it takes to make something long-term.
Crossing my fingers we can get it together. And yea, I admit it finally crlsweetie912--I really do care about him! Dont laugh!
Congrats on 6 months btw!!!! YAY!!!! Goes by fast, huh?!
Lol......yes it sure does.....when I mentioned it to him in that way, like can you believe it. He said nope because I've been waiting for you my whole life....
DarkJoy
Bent. Not Broken.
He makes little comments about my lack of time.
I know im on lhcf all day but that's while im working usually 
. Been working damn near around the clock for a month with only 3 days off in the last 20 days or so 
plus juggling my 7yo and my weekends with her conflict with his free weekends.
Then he's going on vacay overseas on my bday next month :-( for 2 whole weeks! Gone miss that fool.
Will workout switching up weekends with her dad so we can be together more than once or twice a week when he gets back.
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I know im on lhcf all day
but that's while im working usually . Been working damn near around the clock for a month with only 3 days off in the last 20 days or so plus juggling my 7yo and my weekends with her conflict with his free weekends.Then he's going on vacay overseas on my bday next month :-( for 2 whole weeks! Gone miss that fool.
Will workout switching up weekends with her dad so we can be together more than once or twice a week when he gets back.
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*.~.*Sent from a distant Galaxy in the Unicorn-verse*.~.*
crlsweetie912
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He makes little comments about my lack of time.
I know im on lhcf all day
Then he's going on vacay overseas on my bday next month :-( for 2 whole weeks! Gone miss that fool.
Will workout switching up weekends with her dad so we can be together more than once or twice a week when he gets back.
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*.~.*Sent from a distant Galaxy in the Unicorn-verse*.~.*
Awwwwwwwwwww
crlsweetie912
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Me and Mr. Haven't seen each other in a week......yesterday I had a Dr. appointment so I got home late. And he was supposed to work till six so I figured we still wouldn't see each other.
I'm on my way home at 515 an I get a text "I'm at your house where is my baby"
Lol....he begged his lieutenant to let him off early so we could see each other.....my baby
For the first time in my LIFE I can say with a certainty that I have a man that truly loves me.
I feel so blessed and loved by him.
I'm over the moon happy
I'm on my way home at 515 an I get a text "I'm at your house where is my baby"
Lol....he begged his lieutenant to let him off early so we could see each other.....my baby
For the first time in my LIFE I can say with a certainty that I have a man that truly loves me.
I feel so blessed and loved by him.
I'm over the moon happy
DarkJoy
Bent. Not Broken.
Sounds like you have a real sweet dude crlsweetie912.
Haven't heard from mine since yesterday afternoon :-( I know we not joined at the hip, but still... Im insecure
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*.~.*Sent from a distant Galaxy in the Unicorn-verse*.~.*
Haven't heard from mine since yesterday afternoon :-( I know we not joined at the hip, but still... Im insecure
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*.~.*Sent from a distant Galaxy in the Unicorn-verse*.~.*
Briabiggles
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Can't wait to see him on Sunday. It's been a week already. He better get some rest...
AHeadOfCoils
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I just threw him into the friend zone. I actually get disgusted at the thought of him ever touching me again.
Phoenix14
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what happened?
AHeadOfCoils
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Nothing really. I broke up with him because I just don't think we're on the same life plan. No sense in wasting my time, hugs, kisses or crayon sharpener on his lame butt. Since I won't go there with him again, we might as well be text friends only.
DarkJoy
Bent. Not Broken.
AHeadOfCoils...?
I realize anytime I think of dumping him, I'm days away from my time of the month
Typical.
He bought me some tech I desperately needed but had no time to get. It feels weird to have him do that nice gesture. He's a super geek so was in heaven at the store anyway It's very practical as he is too. He says I need to school him in some stuff... romance. He hasnt dated before...so it eager to learn how to be romantic...
in this modern world, buying your new gf tech, is step 1.
I realize anytime I think of dumping him, I'm days away from my time of the month
Typical.He bought me some tech I desperately needed but had no time to get. It feels weird to have him do that nice gesture. He's a super geek so was in heaven at the store anyway
It's very practical as he is too. He says I need to school him in some stuff... romance. He hasnt dated before...so it eager to learn how to be romantic...in this modern world, buying your new gf tech, is step 1.
tinkat
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I had a great birthday. This year has been a wonderful year and I have had alot of growth on many levels. After my baby surprised me on last friday, he went to the kitchen and fixed us something to eat while I finished washing my hair. We didn't leave the house for the rest of the day .
On Saturday we did not do anything but lounge around and watched a movie. His aunt lives in charlotte too and his grandmother is visiting so we went over there that evening. His family is always so warm and welcoming. This was my first time meeting his grandmother. We have spoken but we finally meet after a year. She is so cute and lively. She actually texts lol! I also met Twin's uncle, another aunt, and his cousins. They were stopping through Charlotte on the way to Alabama. It was good to meet his uncle because I knew he saw him as another father figure and his uncle is not doing as well health wise. He seem to be doing better than how they described his health earlier this year.
I had to go to work on Sunday but I was happy regardless. On Monday which was my birthday I did not have to go to work. I woke up to a sweet text from my mom at midnight. My birthday is also our 1 year anniversary and I got us each a copy of The five love languages book that we can read together. Twin got me some nice hand made earrings. I like them because no one else would have them. We went to see the Butler and ate at my favorite vegan restaurant. I had a nice simple birthday. Plus I got happy birthday wishes from everyone I love and care about.
On Tuesday when I got back to work my coworkers decorated my desk and had a "pot luck" for me. My coworker said I had to wear my Tiara and bday pin all day lol. They know I am vegan so they just order my food from a vegan place and ate pizza LOL. I know it is not easy to prepare a meal when you are use to eating all animal products. They also had a vegan bday cake for me. Overall I can say this was a very memorable bday full of love.
My SO is still here. He told me he was going back on Tuesday but said he will leave this Sunday. I am glad he stayed longer.
. On Saturday we did not do anything but lounge around and watched a movie. His aunt lives in charlotte too and his grandmother is visiting so we went over there that evening. His family is always so warm and welcoming. This was my first time meeting his grandmother. We have spoken but we finally meet after a year. She is so cute and lively. She actually texts lol! I also met Twin's uncle, another aunt, and his cousins. They were stopping through Charlotte on the way to Alabama. It was good to meet his uncle because I knew he saw him as another father figure and his uncle is not doing as well health wise. He seem to be doing better than how they described his health earlier this year.
I had to go to work on Sunday but I was happy regardless. On Monday which was my birthday I did not have to go to work. I woke up to a sweet text from my mom at midnight. My birthday is also our 1 year anniversary and I got us each a copy of The five love languages book that we can read together. Twin got me some nice hand made earrings. I like them because no one else would have them
. We went to see the Butler and ate at my favorite vegan restaurant. I had a nice simple birthday. Plus I got happy birthday wishes from everyone I love and care about. On Tuesday when I got back to work my coworkers decorated my desk and had a "pot luck" for me. My coworker said I had to wear my Tiara and bday pin all day lol. They know I am vegan so they just order my food from a vegan place and ate pizza LOL. I know it is not easy to prepare a meal when you are use to eating all animal products. They also had a vegan bday cake for me. Overall I can say this was a very memorable bday full of love.
My SO is still here. He told me he was going back on Tuesday but said he will leave this Sunday. I am glad he stayed longer.
AHeadOfCoils
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AHeadOfCoils...?
I realize anytime I think of dumping him, I'm days away from my time of the month
He bought me some tech I desperately needed but had no time to get. It feels weird to have him do that nice gesture. He's a super geek so was in heaven at the store anyway
in this modern world, buying your new gf tech, is step 1.
Lol. I'm supposed to be starting in two days too, so that might be while he annoys my soul.
I love geeks! That's the quickest way to a girls heart!
misseyblue
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I started dating again...taking a break after my break-up in January truly helped my mindset.
Nothing serious at the moment...just enjoying going back out again
Nothing serious at the moment...just enjoying going back out again
mallysmommy
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I Threw a (personal) little hissy fit when i had planned to visit without telling him and he was out with his boys last night. So i made myself unavailable tonight and he has his lip poked out. Talmbout "but i havent seen my girl in two days" so he scheduled a date night tomorrow night. Lol
Lol. I'm supposed to be starting in two days too, so that might be while he annoys my soul.
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@AHeadOfCoils...?
I realize anytime I think of dumping him, I'm days away from my time of the month
Add me to the club....my girlfriend should be here any day.I know he expects to see me this evening (like every evening) but ummm not tonight....running my errands after work; going for dinner with my bff
DarkJoy
Bent. Not Broken.
We should all wait at least a week before saying anything too crazy or making any rash decisions 
Lol. I'm supposed to be starting in two days too, so that might be while he annoys my soul.
Add me to the club....my girlfriend should be here any day.
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