it was a tmi post lol. Anyway since he's been here we having the most amazing time. Been making up for 3 wks
but my grandma WILL slap me. So I sat just sat there and exercised my self control.
Ladies are Leo men usually very aggressive, possessive and jealous? I'm really not feeling it as of late and I haven't been around dude much because I'm preparing my applications and studying for an examination I need to take for admissions. But what really struck a cord with me was him deflecting blame onto his daughter for my growing distance (due to my studying) from him. The daughter (she is 16) confided in me about something and she later relayed by email that he told her she cannot be trusted...how 'things between him, her and her mother' is to be solely discussed among them. She's been confiding in me a lot lately and apparently dude is getting suspicious/jealous.
Something about all of this just doesn't feel right, ladies. The way he is trying to deflect his jealousy and insecurity onto his daughter to make her feel bad. It's quite manipulative. Any objective opinions on this? It doesn't help that he just called me at work and went A-wall (ie "you didn't see my text??? I've been trying to reach you..etc"...VERY aggressive). I didn't respond to his text asking if we were doing lunch. I was busy studying...bleh.
erplexed Weigh your options and see if its even worth your time, patience, and sanity.
. A year came by so fast. I wouldn't have thought I would have met my SO online and successfully have a long distance relationship. It is so not easy bc we spend time apart. But the FaceTime and conversations make it better. Plus we had to learn each other's personalities at a distance. That's tough when you see someone on avg every 1 to 2 months. But one thing I can say is that the distance forced us to really get to know each other more than I did with someone I was closer in distance to. We took that time to ask difficult questions. I'm am thankful for that. And what I like is that what is told me about himself matched in person although some things irritate me . You really don't know your mate if they don't irritate you sometimes. He inspires me to do better. He has taught me alot. I don't want a man who I feel smarter than. We balance each other and he is my twin.
amazing week sun-fri we were just under each other. hanging. i think we hit every happy hour in the DMV area including Bmore lol. hanging, loving, shopping, meeting w/friends, eating, deep emotional talking. whatever little insecurities i had about us are gone. i am so secure now. this is it. this is so so it.
thank u so much ladies. I wish everyone could find the one that makes the happy. When he left this morning he said he had the best time this week in a long time and he's trying to hurry up and get back down in another week & half. he's loving DMV area. ...already...cant... wait... lol.
What ninja put the hickey on your neck?" I was like 
that was months ago!!! It's a mess.. He stormed off and won't talk to me... I feel like as a single lady I can talk to whomever I please. He feels like that's not okay since we were thinking about a relationship. Uhm no.
Then he tells me that I have just about the same amount of hoes has he has and blah blah blah. Why is he mad then? He can talk to other chicks, but I'm supposed to be bored and wait only on him. That's not how I function. & the texts he's flipping out are from me and my friends joking. I told him, if he would have read all of the text, he would have saw that they were either jokes or from my homegirls.
