I can't be the only person that wants to get married but no boyfriend/dating
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I can't be the only person that wants to get married but no boyfriend/dating
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sapphire74 highly favored 8I always tell my bff that I want a husband and family but I don't want a boyfriend or to date and she's always like you know that's not possible right?
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I'm going through it y'all! I'm still with the Sag, but a month ago I felt like he wasn't the one for me, so I started dating someone else... How coincidental that the new guy was bragging about me to his friends and one of them is my dude? My dude went crazy on me... Asking how dare I give my number to this random dude and go out with him.. Like he wasn't a random dude last year... I never even kissed the new guy, but we have amazing chemistry.... Like we can talk for hours and not get bored with each other... We like the same things and everything.. It's like fireworks. My dude told me that I need to stop talking to him, so I did (out of loyalty since I've know him longer)... He called me a few days later saying that he doesn't want to stop talking to me and if he has to not be his friend anymore, he's willing. I told him that I couldn't do that to my dude and we would have to be done (my dude said not even friends ).
My dude and I are on good terms, but I miss the other guy. I can't even like his photos on Instagram without feeling like my dude is going to say something. We didn't even know each other long, but I feel like I lost my best friend.. . He texts me everyday and calls, but I just ignore him. I'm so tempted to call him on a blocked number, so I can hear his voice and tell him what's up, but I don't want anymore drama to happen.
It's all bad y'all.
I'm going through it y'all! I'm still with the Sag, but a month ago I felt like he wasn't the one for me, so I started dating someone else... How coincidental that the new guy was bragging about me to his friends and one of them is my dude? My dude went crazy on me... Asking how dare I give my number to this random dude and go out with him.. Like he wasn't a random dude last year... I never even kissed the new guy, but we have amazing chemistry.... Like we can talk for hours and not get bored with each other... We like the same things and everything.. It's like fireworks. My dude told me that I need to stop talking to him, so I did (out of loyalty since I've know him longer)... He called me a few days later saying that he doesn't want to stop talking to me and if he has to not be his friend anymore, he's willing. I told him that I couldn't do that to my dude and we would have to be done (my dude said not even friends ).
My dude and I are on good terms, but I miss the other guy. I can't even like his photos on Instagram without feeling like my dude is going to say something. We didn't even know each other long, but I feel like I lost my best friend.. . He texts me everyday and calls, but I just ignore him. I'm so tempted to call him on a blocked number, so I can hear his voice and tell him what's up, but I don't want anymore drama to happen.
It's all bad y'all.
If you are certain that your dude (Are you two in a committed relationship?) is not the one for you, why not explore other options?
As far as I was concerned, we were not in a committed relationship, when I started talking to the other guy. According to my dude he thought it was an unspoken thing and that we weren't talking to other people. He knows that's not what he was thinking.. He was like oh she's not dating anyone else, but he probably was.. I didn't care enough to ask though, since I was halfway checked out.
Now it's official (he practically forced me to agree not to see other people), but I'm really sad about not being able to talk to the other guy. I really don't know what's going on... Dude started throwing out the love word and he even had tears in his eyes. I honestly feel like that's that Sag guilt trip. The only reason I talked to somebody else was because he wasn't giving me the amount of attention that I needed, but since someone else was its a problem.
As far as I was concerned, we were not in a committed relationship, when I started talking to the other guy. According to my dude he thought it was an unspoken thing and that we weren't talking to other people. He knows that's not what he was thinking.. He was like oh she's not dating anyone else, but he probably was.. I didn't care enough to ask though, since I was halfway checked out.
Now it's official (he practically forced me to agree not to see other people), but I'm really sad about not being able to talk to the other guy. I really don't know what's going on... Dude started throwing out the love word and he even had tears in his eyes. I honestly feel like that's that Sag guilt trip. The only reason I talked to somebody else was because he wasn't giving me the amount of attention that I needed, but since someone else was its a problem.
Sigh....we don't spend enough time together. I have to admit I'm being tested in this area. I have totally dumped guys for exactly this reason. We both are under a lot of stress and so much is going on. This is building my patience. I love him so much and I surely don't want to lose him. I'm between the proverbial rock and hard place....
I can definitely understand. From what what you have posted about him he seems like a great guy. I think this is one of those times where patience matters. I have been tested in my current relationship bc not only are we long distance but he is an entrepreneur. I don't know how many times someone told me that it takes a certain type of woman to be with an entrepreneur who is building their company. Despite that this is the best relationship I ever had.
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*gets caught lurking How to Attract a Rich Man thread *
I may have to end my relationship...
I love him, but the fact that he has a child has really started to weigh on me. I know that I will never come first in this relationship, that was a given from the beginning. If the tables were turned and I had a child, he or she would come first. I just don't feel important at all, like I don't belong hereI feel awful because I think that I'm being selfish, after all she is just a little girl. I really am trying hard to understand, but this feeling of loneliness and feeling not important sucks.
I don't know what to do
sylver2 said:other then him having a child...how does he treat you?
He treats me well, I wish I was able to get more time with him...but his job is demanding and it stresses him out a lot
ETA: the child and I get along well, my problem isn't with her, just the fact that I don't feel important to my SO her father
He treats me well, I wish I was able to get more time with him...but his job is demanding and it stresses him out a lot
ETA: the child and I get along well, my problem isn't with her, just the fact that I don't feel important to my SO her father
Has he done anything to make you feel unimportant?
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Was having a child previously a deal breaker for you?
LOL.. Hope you were able to give a good explanation!
I just told him last night that I'm going to San Diego this weekend....He wasn't too happy about it, therefore I decided not to tell him about Vegas. I'll wait til the date nears then i'll tell him......