crlsweetie912
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Uhm... I was reluctant to make him wait so long, but I'm glad that I did. He was amazing y'all!! I'm going to be walking sideways for weeks, but it was worth it!
Sideways....go on girl!!!!!!
Uhm... I was reluctant to make him wait so long, but I'm glad that I did. He was amazing y'all!! I'm going to be walking sideways for weeks, but it was worth it!
I was feeling a little about not having a boo to share my graduation and upcoming excitement with but the closer I get to graduation (next Saturday) the more I'm like what the heck ever I'm nearly over the moon with excitement.
I really could have written this post myself, wow. It's a bittersweet feeling.
I was with my ex for just about all 4 years of undergrad and expected to have at my grad meeting all my fam, but meh i guess not.
*goes back to selecting nail polish colors for my grad mani*
Mine is next sat too!!
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My poor cousin. Not even married one whole month and her husband is already staying with his parents.
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so how do I get him to understand that THAT cannot happen again!
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Pondering how do we really affect change. Maybe it's simply thy have to want to on their own.
This situation got me thinking....
If men respond to action is what I'm doing enough? (I tend to be black and white anyway)
I ask because clearly he knows I'm upset and do not want to speak to him (been calling all day). But the bottom line is, I'm not going to leave him over this (although I can make leaps and say would I want a husband doing this to me?) and so if he knows this, why should he feel the need to change? He knows I'm going to come back at some point so....he can do this again and ill be upset again etc etc and starts the cycle over....
so how do I get him to understand that THAT cannot happen again!
@hopeful
@Vanthie
@Lucie
@deltadreamland
@sylver2
And anyone else who wants to give feedback!
Pondering how do we really affect change. Maybe it's simply thy have to want to on their own.
This situation got me thinking....
If men respond to action is what I'm doing enough? (I tend to be black and white anyway)
I ask because clearly he knows I'm upset and do not want to speak to him (been calling all day). But the bottom line is, I'm not going to leave him over this (although I can make leaps and say would I want a husband doing this to me?) and so if he knows this, why should he feel the need to change? He knows I'm going to come back at some point so....he can do this again and ill be upset again etc etc and starts the cycle over....
so how do I get him to understand that THAT cannot happen again!
hopeful
Vanthie
Lucie
deltadreamland
sylver2
And anyone else who wants to give feedback!
Pondering how do we really affect change. Maybe it's simply thy have to want to on their own.
To add to my other post upstream:
And see, I'm hard on men. I admit that. But I truly believe that people communicate with whom they wish to communicate with...make time for whom they want to make time for....etc., however long or short that communication is. It only takes a second to send a text or make a quick phone call. Such things can be done while you are in the car, walking up to the house, taking your clothes off,etc.
My SO knows that I will walk in a HEART. BEAT. And he goes out of this way to make sure that I don't walk. I will know instantly that he no longer wants to be with me when he starts dropping the ball in areas that the works so hard to keep me. And I will walk away.
yup, im very hard on my men. i took bs/crap from 1 man in my life and never again. i rather walk away then be disrespected, taken for granted or u acting like u nonchalant about me
What in the hayle....? erplexed
He moved into her apartment after the honeymoon and he said he didn't like her bed. So SHE bought a new one. Then he said he just wasn't comfortable living there, so moved in with his parents.
This situation got me thinking....
If men respond to action is what I'm doing enough? (I tend to be black and white anyway)
I ask because clearly he knows I'm upset and do not want to speak to him (been calling all day). But the bottom line is, I'm not going to leave him over this (although I can make leaps and say would I want a husband doing this to me?) and so if he knows this, why should he feel the need to change? He knows I'm going to come back at some point so....he can do this again and ill be upset again etc etc and starts the cycle over....
so how do I get him to understand that THAT cannot happen again!
hopeful
Vanthie
Lucie
deltadreamland
sylver2
And anyone else who wants to give feedback!
Pondering how do we really affect change. Maybe it's simply thy have to want to on their own.
It is 9:30 at night and we are in the kitchen cooking together. Tilapia and homemade fries. I wanted to do him on the counter when I saw him making tartar sauce from scratch. We are going to get so huge eating this late in the evening.
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I went to SOs office today and today at about five he tells me there was a huge argument at work. Apparently what set it off was the girl who is always cheering awkwardly hard in my face tried to talk about me--one of the things she said is that I "need a trim"-- and her little feelings were hurt that SO wasn't in her amen corner and told her off. My informant tells me she cried I'm not about mess, but
Gotta go he's coming!
He's so not a romantic. He's a practical no surprise take care of you kind of man and I don't see surprise gifts in my future...he just asks me what I want and gets it SMH. I wish he would just listen to my hints and be more thoughtful...put some effort into it like I do when I get him things he likes. WIP we are.
This mutual admiration is so new to me. Sad to say I'm used to kangs......yesterday he was leaving out and walking away. I was about to close the door and he ran back up and said "I need one more kiss to get me through the night".......
crlsweetie912
Awwwwwww! I hate you for posting stuff like this......but, I forgive you.
But seriously though, on some days I gotta skip over you posts so I won't get too depressed over here. You're making me wanna run out there and find a man pronto! If only it were that easy....
I'm happy for you though.....warms my heart.