My dude........my son spilled hot grease all over his thigh.....he's like "where are you I'm on my way".........never experienced someone ready to jump in at the drop of a hat.....it feels so good to have someone truly in your corner
Oh no, I hope he's ok.
That's so sweet.
Hey chica, thanks for asking.
I mainly post in the single ladies thread. Not much going on, trying to move on from the last dude I was dealing with. That saga is well documented in that thread.
Where/how have you been?
I don't really do relationships so if he doesn't get it together then I'm okay. If he does I will still be okay He felt it was absurd that I thought he wasn't interested. He did tell me he wasn't much of a communicator and its proving to be true. In person he will talk your head clear off though I'm fine with either outcome of this really As I type this out it really just sounds like a communication issue. I will let time tell. Thank you ladies
SuchaLady Just my two cents worth. I did this a lot when I was younger, I would be so excited about the "sign". And them contacting you was always a good sign. Getting back together based on a sign was ok till the next weekend when he did the same thing and the cycle was off again. Those relationships were not working for a reason.
I've realized that behavior is the biggest sign I need, show me who you are I believe you
I really try not to give relationship advice here, except when I see someone repeating a mistake I have 100% made.
Sophistiratchet. So "Bands a Make her Dance" comes on Pandora and he's about think I'm uncomfortable and change it but I say "I like this song " and so it plays. Um..............I had never heard the unedited version Anyway, we've been acting silly all day and so at a red light when one part of the song comes on he rapped along with the music and did the claps. You know like the hood guys do. In the video. With the face. IDK why thats so fuuuuuuuunnnny to me. I always think he's so uptight that's why. Not uptight in a bad way, but he's all "I watch PBS. Jim Lehrer? That's my boy! History Channel? Oh 
" and I'm all "ey! So on this blog today, Beyonce was like " lol So I went to his office today and he's all SUCH A NERD (like he's supposed to be ) and I just wanted to fall out laughing. *clap* *clap* *clap*"" I love that he has picked up on how much I love my mom (and dad. But I don't really see him just texting my dad...) and wants to include her. But this texting...whenever I stop laughing and think about it I'm like hmm...IDK about all that, now
This dude is really SO sweet. He knows I am collecting Snapple bottle tops (errrr don't ask) and he bought me a ton of Snapple to help me along. He also got me a Nook! We both had such a nice dinner. We were watching some baseball game, DR vs. PR in the restaurant and we rooted for DR as it is right next door to Haiti, LOL! He finds it endearing that I cannot parallel park with him in the car but do fine with everyone else. Gosh, just typing this I am having flashbacks of our night and am grinning like a Cheshire cat. He loved my skinny jeans, crop top, blazer outfit.
He said he does not like that fact that I don't have a last name on FB and that his last name would be nice next to my name. I acted all cool and giggly but on the inside I was like
He said he is so blessed to have me and thanks God for me ..sigh. Next week we are going to see Motown w/ his parents. I'm so use to crying or being frustrated in relationships..it almost doesn't seem right that everything is wonderful with this one and Im so happy lol.
. We aren't on the same page spiritually and I have to be obedient to where Christ is leading me.
