2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

[firecracker]

tinkat I'm so happy you found someone that you connect with and truly enjoy. Being closer now will make things grow and flow effortlessly.


deltadreamland not to worry he will be right back and you guys can rekindle the fiyah. I'm sure his daughter is going to be a little sad to return from her Summer vacation. I used to spend part of the Summer with my Grandparents down South so I know being with her Dad and your family was full of fun times. I hope you guys took lots of pictures for memories. )

I feel you guys on missing the fellas when they are not around. We get use to funny daily routine etc.

I'm still laughing out loud about last night. I wish I would have taken a video or picture because it was totally hilarious. He is corny as heck.

My guy called from work to ask if I still really wanted to go to June's Bday/Taco Party at 5pm because he wanted us to go over his cousins to watch the Saint's game. I told him I prefer to stay home, lay on the couch and watch the Jerseylicious Marathon. LOL I told him go enjoy the game with his cousin and his son. The day is moving along too fast and my body could still use some rest. We can just go to church in the morning instead.

 

[ElizaBlue]

My energy level has been way too high ever since the surgery. Those fibroids and enlarged uterus were draining the life outta me. Yesterday I grilled my butt off. We have food for the rest of the week. We've been chillin catching up on ratchet tv.

My on duty male nurse aka man has been handling his duties well. I just sent him to the store for some bandages. I was very specific they have to be Dora the Explorer, Strawberry Shortcake or Hello Kitty. Don't come back with no Spiderman mister! LOL

firecracker Welcome back....lol...Hello Kitty huh? I'll say....lol

 

[ElizaBlue]

I wish I could make my period leave faster. This is messing up my weekend. But I guess it would be even more messed up if my period never came, LOL!

Lucie *cough* alum *cough* ice water *cough* little pink pouch

 

[firecracker]

firecracker Welcome back....lol...Hello Kitty huh? I'll say....lol

Thanks chica. Well hell my coworker got me sprung on cartoon bandaid's. She is trying to make up for all the Hello Kitty her mom couldn't afford when she was growing up. Her desk is full of Hello Kitty stuff.

Dang snap I ain't tryin to get all up in your bizness Lucie but please use protection because a baby is the least that could happen. You'd make some cuties I'm sure but nonetheless......

 

[deltadreamland]

@tinkat I'm so happy you found someone that you connect with and truly enjoy. Being closer now will make things grow and flow effortlessly.


@deltadreamland not to worry he will be right back and you guys can rekindle the fiyah. I'm sure his daughter is going to be a little sad to return from her Summer vacation. I used to spend part of the Summer with my Grandparents down South so I know being with her Dad and your family was full of fun times. I hope you guys took lots of pictures for memories. )

I feel you guys on missing the fellas when they are not around. We get use to funny daily routine etc.

I'm still laughing out loud about last night. I wish I would have taken a video or picture because it was totally hilarious. He is corny as heck.

My guy called from work to ask if I still really wanted to go to June's Bday/Taco Party at 5pm because he wanted us to go over his cousins to watch the Saint's game. I told him I prefer to stay home, lay on the couch and watch the Jerseylicious Marathon. LOL I told him go enjoy the game with his cousin and his son. The day is moving along too fast and my body could still use some rest. We can just go to church in the morning instead.

You're right. He will be back tomorrow. And you're also correct about Ladybug (that's what I call her). She had a blast during her month here with us. She and my son bonded like brother and sister. And we took them different places and had lots of quality family time with just the four of us.

The week leading up to her leaving, she kept saying "I wish you were my mommy." I didn't respond; just gave her a hug and a kiss. But she even told her dad. Anyway, she cried Thursday night when we got them together one last time. And so did I. Unfortunately, he only gets her during the summer. Her mom won't let Dad have her for any other extended periods of time. She's in Maryland and we're in Georgia.

 

[VeryBecoming]

Una dia! He called me from Frankfurt today but I was asleep. Oops.

I'm going to make a cute welcome home sign and pick him up from the airport. All that cooking business...ehhh! My resolve is wavering

 

[tinkat]

tinkat I'm so happy you found someone that you connect with and truly enjoy. Being closer now will make things grow and flow effortlessly.


deltadreamland not to worry he will be right back and you guys can rekindle the fiyah. I'm sure his daughter is going to be a little sad to return from her Summer vacation. I used to spend part of the Summer with my Grandparents down South so I know being with her Dad and your family was full of fun times. I hope you guys took lots of pictures for memories. )

I feel you guys on missing the fellas when they are not around. We get use to funny daily routine etc.

I'm still laughing out loud about last night. I wish I would have taken a video or picture because it was totally hilarious. He is corny as heck.

My guy called from work to ask if I still really wanted to go to June's Bday/Taco Party at 5pm because he wanted us to go over his cousins to watch the Saint's game. I told him I prefer to stay home, lay on the couch and watch the Jerseylicious Marathon. LOL I told him go enjoy the game with his cousin and his son. The day is moving along too fast and my body could still use some rest. We can just go to church in the morning instead.

Thank you firecracker! I am thankful to be closer and it is easier now. Instead of 12 hours away, it is six. I am thankful for that.

 

[deltadreamland]

He defended me today. I'm under the weather with a very bad cold or sinus issues. Someone on his side of the family was disrespectful to me last night and this morning, while I was trying to rest. She tried me because he is out of town, but she should have known that i was going to tell him. Just ratchet. I filled him in on his family member's actions. He was livid and told me that he would handle it. The person I'm speaking about called about two hours ago with an apology. I didnt even answer the phone. I'm done with her.

 

[Lucie]

firecracker, LOL! No worries, I am "protected." No lil' Lucie yet........ Now if I get another horrendous period or two I may have to consider TTC. J/K! Hahahaha!

 

[Arian]

Another lonely weekend passes me by... *sigh*

 

[firecracker]

firecracker, LOL! No worries, I am "protected." No lil' Lucie yet........ Now if I get another horrendous period or two I may have to consider TTC. J/K! Hahahaha!

Oh yes I forgot about your cycle pain. Once you get to the bottom of it all don't let them mess with your reproductive system. The future lil Lucie's will be adorably cute for sure. You see I used the plural term. Have fun on your trip by the way!

 

[firecracker]

Arian sorry to hear you are feeling lonely. The weekend isn't over just yet. Keep your head up and don't give up.

Ah snap deltadreamland I'm glad your guy stood firm and spoke up. Hopefully that woman will get it together and stay in her lane.

We are up late watching Centric. They had several R Kelly live concert shows. This Sam Cooke cover concert is wonderful. The crowd is decked out in era appropriate/themed attire. I love theme parties. We will be doing another ourselves really soon. I need to get batteries for my camera.

I finally told Misterman that the demonwomanchild has already made plans for my birthday and they don't include him. teeheehee!!! Now he can attend the Panthers and Saints game with his nephew that weekend.

 

[qchelle]

He's in been in NY since Friday at Afropunk. He texted me yesterday "I wish you were here so I could lay my head in your lap" weirdo.

In other news, I'm excited for tomorrow! I start my new job and I'll be working like 3minutes from his job! We may even carpool sometimes! Which would be better for both of us, since the commute is kinda ridiculous.

 

[nappystorm]

I have two prospects. Neither are really what I want. One has most of the attitributes (hardworking, Christian, generous) I want but the physical chemistry isn't there. I'm very meh about him.

I enjoy the other one's company a great deal. He's hilarious, we have alot in common, we talk for hours and he likes to have a good time. While he's not a kang, he's not exactly a king either.

Both are really nice, easy on the eyes, attentative, and treat me the way I want to be treated though However, I'm not going to worry about it. I'm going to just enjoy the attention and let God have his way.

 

[BGT]

The other day SO put his arms around me and started slipping a finger into my pants. Before I could tell him not to go any farther because my period had started, he pulled his finger out with a little bit of blood on it. That's what he gets for putting his hands where they don't belong.

BTW, sorry if that grossed anyone out but it gave me a great laugh.

 

[Miss AJ]

I was having a nervous break down about being broke yesterday and SO told me not to trip because he's got me on whatever I need .

 

[deltadreamland]

I have two prospects. Neither are really what I want. One has most of the attitributes (hardworking, Christian, generous) I want but the physical chemistry isn't there. I'm very meh about him.

I enjoy the other one's company a great deal. He's hilarious, we have alot in common, we talk for hours and he likes to have a good time. While he's not a kang, he's not exactly a king either.

Both are really nice, easy on the eyes, attentative, and treat me the way I want to be treated though However, I'm not going to worry about it. I'm going to just enjoy the attention and let God have his way.

I didn't feel the physical chemistry with my SO at first either, but we were so on point in other areas. So I pushed ahead with him and I am so glad I did. Now, the physical chemistry is off the charts.

 

[tinkat]

I was on face time with twin all day. I heart him! I also learned even more about him that made me feel closer. His grandma called and I spoke to her for a min. Before she realized that I was on the phone with him, she asked him if he put down a payment for an engagement ring. I thought it was funny. Well I guess I'll watch my hair until we have a part two tonight as he said.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF

 

[cocomochaa]

This is getting ridiculous now
I have been single for too loong.
I've learnt, I've grown, I know what I what- Send him my wayy please!!

 

[Oasis]

this guy who knows everything about everything, who is so obnoxiously intelligent i want to punch him in the face sometimes, knows absolutely nothing about periods/ovulation/pregnancy. ZERO. i'm not expecting him to be an expert but c'mon son!

how do you know when you start? are you sure you started? does it fall in the toilet? what is it? does it hurt? does it come from your butt too? can it be a sign you're pregnant? are you sure you're not pregnant? why would your stomach hurt if you're on your period? how is that related? doesn't that mean you're pregnant?

im bout to email him Menstruation for Dummies/Men.

 

[qchelle]

^^^^ wooowwwww!!!

 

[menina]

sorry but

 

[Oasis]

^^^^ wooowwwww!!!

sorry but

i know! this is one of the smartest guys i know. sports, food, politics, science, cars, technology, you name it, he knows about it. you would think with him having a couple degrees in biology he would know a little bit about, oh i dont know, biology.

he does keep better track of my periods than i do though. for his own personal reasons, i'm sure.

 

[NaeChail]

I wanna cry. What happened? 6 years. 6 FREAKING years. I'm only 24. He's my best friend. My only friend really. And this being here but not really being here crap is...so hard. The things he does and says let's me know that there is still SOOOO much there. So why can't we just FREAKING be together?!?!! I tried dating other guys in these last few months we weren't together....but it's just not there. I know what I want. And my mind...and more so my heart can't accept the fact that I'm not going to get it. Nuh uh.

 

[tinkat]

i know! this is one of the smartest guys i know. sports, food, politics, science, cars, technology, you name it, he knows about it. you would think with him having a couple degrees in biology he would know a little bit about, oh i dont know, biology.

he does keep better track of my periods than i do though. for his own personal reasons, i'm sure.

He has a couple of degrees in biology and don't know??? No excuse!

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF

 

[khadicurls]

@khadicurlsi understand you. we haven't made any declarations or anything. we know how we feel about eachother. he knows what i require from him in order to move forward. he says he want to prove himself to me so i'm like 'okay then', lol.

yall definately need to get that convo going sooner than later though. maybe hint into it with talk of the future.

menina I still haven't had the conversation with him yet.

I hope your guy proves himself to be what you want and need. I think that is great that he wants to be worthy of you. I wish you the best.

 

[Fine 4s]

Feeling like I want my space tonight, so I'm home. Thank goodness for having my own spot.

 

[Keshieshimmer]

One of the scariest things about being single is not having someone to back you. I am trying to graduate, but the job situation is tough. I am so afraid that I will have to move back home (which my mom just let someone else move in with her, leaving no room for me). I just crave security.

 

[rafikichick92]

Oasis, tinkat

I have a degree in biology too, and honestly, these questions you don't learn the answer to as just a plain biology major, unless you major in like human anatomy or physiology or some kind of specialized human health-related biology degree. They just teach you about the cycle of the hormones and how they fluctuate to make the menstrual lining slough off. That's pretty much it.

I could see how he would ask these questions even the butt and pregnancy ones. I mean, he could reason it out based on his biology degree knowledge (the uterus and butt aren't connected, duh) but he probably has never thought too deeply about it, lol. Either way, your post was mad funny!

 

[firecracker]

Oasis that was truly funny. I found it interesting and cute all mixed up in one. LOL
My silly arse would answer his question but I'd start off singing "let tell bout the birds and bees and pretty lil trees" LOL

For all the ladies going thru it right now. Stay strong and positive. Be proactive and find a happy diversion.

qchelle my daughter went to Afropunk this weekend too. She said it was great. Hopefully next year you and your boo can go together so he can lay his head on your pillow aka lap.