2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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What a day! He missed his flight :lol: So I have a car full of groceries and he's going to be 3 hours late. I went shopping then picked him up. I spoiled the surprise sort of but oh well! Apple pie is in the oven.
 
called him at 7pm. He posts on fb about the great night he had around 10pm, then he texts me "hey" a few mins later.

he has officially been back "burnered" :yep:
 
My love is back on Georgia's soil. That makes me so happy. I can tell he missed me. He called me as soon as he made it in the house and I could tell that he had not even put his bags down before he called me....lol. I missed him so much. Then his best friend that drove back to Georgia with him says, "damn, boy! Are you gonna put your bags down?" lol... I love me some him!
 
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rafikichick92 said:
Oasis, tinkat

I have a degree in biology too, and honestly, these questions you don't learn the answer to as just a plain biology major, unless you major in like human anatomy or physiology or some kind of specialized human health-related biology degree. They just teach you about the cycle of the hormones and how they fluctuate to make the menstrual lining slough off. That's pretty much it.

I could see how he would ask these questions even the butt and pregnancy ones. I mean, he could reason it out based on his biology degree knowledge (the uterus and butt aren't connected, duh) but he probably has never thought too deeply about it, lol. Either way, your post was mad funny!
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I have mine to but I would have thought he would have used reasoned out some of those things. As a man I wouldn't expect him to know anything but he appeared to know nothing.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
Sooo we have an upcoming road trip to SoCal. Tell me why am I letting him plan everything?? Oh I also like how he casually threw in how one of his friends "might" be riding with us. That's fine cause I plan on dropping a bomb; we're stopping in Oceanside to see a friend of mines.....he doesn't know it yet. :look:
 
He took his kids to Disney World today. I miss him SO much already. I remember my cousin last year writing a FB status about her DH going to NY (they live in Montreal) for 3 weeks and that she would miss him terribly. I rolled my eyes thinking, "Gosh, it's ONLY 3 weeks! Geez!" Now, I am going nuts in the first few hours. I feel so hypocritical now for thinking that of her now, LOL!

He comes back next Monday but it feels like a year. Next week we go to Miami, so I am looking forward to that. Speaking of that lemme hop to the fashion forum and get some advice on what outfits to pack for my trip.
 
khadicurls said:
menina I still haven't had the conversation with him yet.

I hope your guy proves himself to be what you want and need. I think that is great that he wants to be worthy of you. I wish you the best.
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aw thanks khadicurls yea it sounds all romantic when you put it that way, lol. i hope so too.

hopefully one of you can start the conversation so things are clear, don't wanna be stuck in the akward yet comfortable blurry place. i wish the best for you two as well.
 
My poor SO stopped by last night unexpectedly and rang my doorbell for 30 mns. He was maaaaad suspect when I finally picked up. Had him sweating bullets lol! He must have been so shook that he just stood in the doorway. I kept asking him if he was coming up but he seemed like he needed to. At h his breath or something. He thought I didn't answer the texts, doorbell or calls because I had company lolol
 
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Me and SO have to separate for the hurricane. I'm going to my mom's house and he's going to his parent's house. I'm gonna miss him. :sad:
 
I was going to have to go back to sign some paperwork but I don't have to do that until Friday. His bday is Thursday. I'm a loser who doesn't have Facebook so I have to e-mail all his friends. Or maybe I'll finally start an account.

Still don't know what to get him.
 
i'm reading the blog of a girl who recently ended her relationship with her first love. i'm almost in tears b/c it is so naive/first love/self reflection-y (19 years old, will i ever love again??? type thing). but it is also SO ME. :lol: that was me when i went through my first serious break up. and she's realizing all the things i did. and she's trying to speed up the grieving process, hindsight is always 20/20, etc.

it's almost fascinating to read.

and it made me realize that i'm never going to have that type of heart break again-- that first big one. (not that i want to ever experience it again :lachen:). but i think about if i ever do (i imagine i will at some point) fully commit myself to a man, let him love me and let myself love him, and invest emotionally in a life together, if it does end, where will i be?

that's probably a huge part of my selfish, commitment-phobic mindset for the past couple of years. because i don't want to lose myself (or experience that deep of a hurt) and i really did. like coming up for air and being lost, not knowing where [who] you are. never again.

all of this is so interesting b/c i finally had the date with the guy i've been talking to for over a month and it was so good. like connect on every level good (the fact that we've been able to keep a conversation for a month+ w/o meeting was probably an indicator considering my attention span issues). and i see myself thinking, "maybe i'll really give him a chance" (versus w/e i've been giving romantically in the past couple of years. which really was literally half in and half out the whole time for various reasons).

idk.

time will tell. it always does.
 
side note. he taught for a year & apparently his AP was murdered by a student 2 days after school started (scissors to her throat, made national news). it was a middle school. :nono:
 
Was at a party last night. Met the most AMAZING black man. 6'2 (too tall for me, but the rest...yum!), 40s, excellent career, handsome, great smile, and let me know he thought I was attractive in a subtle way, which I prefer. He sat next to me and we chatted for a time about the folks at the party...I was gonna hint at getting the digits, when I looked down.

Ninja was wearing his a goddamn wedding ring. WTF?! UGH!!!!!!!!!! Of course, I abruptly ended the conversation.

Then dreamt about him all night... :blush: just my luck.
 
some of the shady a.s.s BS men and women fall for in dating/relationships is MINDBLOWING. that sounds sketch as hell, how did you think that was going to turn out okay???

words and actions need to align, and keep your eyes wide open.

people are bastard coated bastards with bastard fillings.
 
^Whew chile, ain't it the truth!

I feel like Sherlock Holmes half the time, trying to remember all the details in my mental rolodex to see if everything is adding up. It's so exhausting. :lol:

I still haven't cut the chord, and I know dang well it's just going to get harder as time passes. :(
 
kismettt said:
some of the shady a.s.s BS men and women fall for in dating/relationships is MINDBLOWING. that sounds sketch as hell, how did you think that was going to turn out okay???

words and actions need to align, and keep your eyes wide open.

people are bastard coated bastards with bastard fillings.
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:lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
So a mutual friend has been trying to hook me and this guy up for a while. Like really 2+ years of trying to get us to communitcate lol. Neither one of us made the first move until we met a couple of months ago. The first time we met it felt so right. Well fast forward to recently I texted him a few times after we met and nothing came from it. Come to find out he was caring for a family member and they passed away. Apparently he's been asking my friend about me and last week my friend urged to me to send my condolences. I did and we've been in communication ever since. He's been making it a point to contact me all while planning a funeral. I wasnt going to go to the wake because I dont really know him but yesterday he asked if I was going. I thought it would have been stalkerish of me to show up but since he asked if I was going to be there I think I may go. I'm still not sure.
 
I love coming to my SO's house when I get off of work. He hangs out in the basement with my son and gives me an hour of alone time upstairs. For that hour, he does not allow my son to come near me. Lol!That makes all the difference in my evening. Loving him....
 
I love that even when my twin is busy he still responds. He lets me know that he is not ignoring me or forgotten about me :). I already know that but its sweet that he lets me know.
 
So the coworker and i decided to take things slow. I didnt think i'd like him but he's really cool. Work schedules has us not seeing each other again until saturday for the weekend prep. I knew this would happen which is why i avoided getting involved.. now that school has started we really wont be able to see each other. Guess ill have to settle with phone calls which is not so bad.
 
I'm not used to him being back. I hope we didn't forget about each other. I kind of forgot our relationship was long distance. Like I was expecting him to come back and just be here. He calls and I'm like ughhhh the phone is ringing.
 
Exes coming out the woodwork all of the sudden...several encounters within a week. Got one guy offering to massage my scalp, the other bringing me dessert while im in the library studying...texts and phone calls aplenty. Not checking for any one of them.
 
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