2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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Kindheart said:
@kandake how do you know? Lol
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I really don't have any concrete evidence. It's just my suspicion based on some things that have happened.

First incident: We're having coffee. My back is to the rest of the crowd. I notice he's looking at something. I assume he's people watching. I turn to see what caught his attention. Before I can turn my head he says "Why is this dude staring at me" I thought it was weird.

Second incident: We're sitting at the outside patio of a restaurant. I notice that he's looking at someone behind me. When the person finally walks past I notice it was a man.

Third incident: We're standing on the street looking at this dude get arrested. A man walks by and looks at us. I wasn't really paying attention to the man. But, I turn to dude to say something about the guy being arrested and I noticed that he was smiling at the passerby. He seem startled that I noticed him smiling.

I may very well be overacting. But all of these instances were unsettling to me. I feel like he's checking out men.
 
kandake said:
I really don't have any concrete evidence. It's just my suspicion based on some things that have happened.

First incident: We're having coffee. My back is to the rest of the crowd. I notice he's looking at something. I assume he's people watching. I turn to see what caught his attention. Before I can turn my head he says "Why is this dude staring at me" I thought it was weird.

Second incident: We're sitting at the outside patio of a restaurant. I notice that he's looking at someone behind me. When the person finally walks past I notice it was a man.

Third incident: We're standing on the street looking at this dude get arrested. A man walks by and looks at us. I wasn't really paying attention to the man. But, I turn to dude to say something about the guy being arrested and I noticed that he was smiling at the passerby. He seem startled that I noticed him smiling.

I may very well be overacting. But all of these instances were unsettling to me. I feel like he's checking out men.
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Yup i d be definetley concerned too ,alot of women would probably not notice his odd behavior ,you dodged a bullet girl !
 
I dates a guy who showed too many signs of being 'open.'
I flat out asked him, which didn't go down LOL
Honestly, I think if he was approached and coached he could def. swing the other way.
 
He is constantly on my mind and I hate being away from him. Usually I get bored like 2 weeks in but he's managed to keep my interest. Having the foundation of a lifelong friendship is definitely what's up :-)
 
Fine 4s said:
Do u know how many times I've promised SO a yummy dish and then when the time comes I'm like einh....I wanna sleep. Lol
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When I try to cook, he comes in and take over. I hate that....kinda.:look:

VeryBecoming said:
That's basically me....with everything :look: I really should follow through more...or at least stop saying I'll do stuff :lol:

I promise to actually do this!
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This is what drives him the craziest, yea I said I was gonna do something. Sorry it was fast enough for you. I have to do better, because he's good at keeping his word.


Great night last night. We went to the outdoor hot tubs to relax. We both enjoyed it!! But I think the jets were too powerful, my back is a little sore today. But it sure felt good being in the water. Can't wait to go back!
 
kandake said:
I really don't have any concrete evidence. It's just my suspicion based on some things that have happened.

First incident: We're having coffee. My back is to the rest of the crowd. I notice he's looking at something. I assume he's people watching. I turn to see what caught his attention. Before I can turn my head he says "Why is this dude staring at me" I thought it was weird.

Second incident: We're sitting at the outside patio of a restaurant. I notice that he's looking at someone behind me. When the person finally walks past I notice it was a man.

Third incident: We're standing on the street looking at this dude get arrested. A man walks by and looks at us. I wasn't really paying attention to the man. But, I turn to dude to say something about the guy being arrested and I noticed that he was smiling at the passerby. He seem startled that I noticed him smiling.

I may very well be overacting. But all of these instances were unsettling to me. I feel like he's checking out men.
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Are you in Chicago? That's happened to me once but my guy was mad obvious. I was working with Greenpeace near Loyola and I stopped him. He asked me out for dinner and I obliged. We go to dinner and he takes me to a restaurant he works at in Boystown [which isn't a BIG sign but an eyebrow raise]. THEN he wants to word association game, where he says a word and I tell him what comes to mind. Girl tell me why the first thing he says is "homosexual men" like :lol:
And the thing is I didn't care if he was bisexual, I would have still hung out with him. When I asked him about it later he got offended and he still hasn't called me. :lol:
 
My energy level has been way too high ever since the surgery. Those fibroids and enlarged uterus were draining the life outta me. Yesterday I grilled my butt off. We have food for the rest of the week. We've been chillin catching up on ratchet tv.

My on duty male nurse aka man has been handling his duties well. I just sent him to the store for some bandages. I was very specific they have to be Dora the Explorer, Strawberry Shortcake or Hello Kitty. Don't come back with no Spiderman mister! LOL
 
Soooooo, the guy I dated before SO and mentioned here before invited me & SO to his bday celebration this weekend. He obviously was not that into me last year, was rude to my SO on FB when we were just dating, told me about a couple of months ago he wanted a "do over" and now has a girl.
Had a good time last year but *shrug" things change.

NEXT!
 
Have a date with someone new tomorrow. He's good-looking and ive enjoyed our conversations so far. Short, but interesting. I am thinking that if tomorrow goes well, I will focus on just him for a while. I have my eggs in too many baskets, ready to pull them out at any second. Dating multiple people has not been successful. It just makes me lukewarm towards everyone. So, I'd like to try sharing my free time with only one guy.

If it doesn't work out, that's okay. Just tired of the juggling knowing full well that I don't want to proceed with these people, and it becomes too tasking to keep them around platonically because they want something more eventually. Like, why did the inventor send an email about how he thinks he's starting to really like me... I thought we discussed the lack of chemistry weeks ago... What do I say to this now? Again?
 
Curly Lee said:
Are you in Chicago? That's happened to me once but my guy was mad obvious. I was working with Greenpeace near Loyola and I stopped him. He asked me out for dinner and I obliged. We go to dinner and he takes me to a restaurant he works at in Boystown [which isn't a BIG sign but an eyebrow raise]. THEN he wants to word association game, where he says a word and I tell him what comes to mind. Girl tell me why the first thing he says is "homosexual men" like :lol:
And the thing is I didn't care if he was bisexual, I would have still hung out with him. When I asked him about it later he got offended and he still hasn't called me. :lol:
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Yeah, I'm in Chicago. I don't understand why your dude would take offense since he brought up the whole homosexual thing.

I wanted to ask my dude why he was smiling at men but I had to go back to work and didn't feel like prolonging the convo.

Later that night he sealed his coffin when he sent me a text talking about coming over to watch a movie. I responded with "no thank you", followed by "you may as well stop contacting me now" I got about 5 text and 3 phone calls after that. In a voicemail he claimed to not understand what was going on. I finally called him to discuss what happened. He said I was crazy, abrupt and didn't know how to take a joke. Whatever dude, just don't call me no mo.

Sorry for the tangent.
 
I wish I could make my period leave faster. This is messing up my weekend. But I guess it would be even more messed up if my period never came, LOL!
 
So final realised that you are not the one for me... About time to, especially as I knew that was the case. I didn't want to listen to what the Holy Spirt was saying and now I find out that you were hitting on a friend of mine.

Exit you....
 
^ please don't tell me folks can see when you're viewing their page?

Went on a 5 mile run with SO. Tired as heyal..

A woman on TV had a nice ring on and his daughter opened the door wide open for him by saying, I don't like that ring. He responds so eagerly like he was waiting for the opportunity to inquire about what style I like. I purposely said nothing. Then he asks me 'babe do you like that ring?" I respond that I want a ruby and not a diamond. Actually I want the main stone to be the ruby with small diamond accents.

Hopefully he asks my friends cuz they alllll know. Lol

All smiles.....
 
No, people can't see when you view their page, yet :sad:

My SO uses proper names (I use nicknames :look:) to talk about his friends and people he works with and I follow the storylines like a soap opera because we talk about them so much. Anyway, yesterday he said such and such took her weave out. I immediately. Immediately. Like, without skipping a beat said, as if I knew her, "that was a weave?" :look: :look: :look: I have never met this lady. He was like "what was a weave? How you--You looked her up? :Blush2:" :look:


:look:


:look:

Oh, nothin :look:


:sad:

Lookin like a crazy arse desperate stalker fool. I didn't even know it was possible for me to still get so embarrassed in front of him. I was shaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaame.
 
I swear a member here looks exactly like a guy i used to date ,lol ,can't tell her but geez they could be siblings ..
 
InchHighPrivateEye said:
No, people can't see when you view their page, yet :sad:

My SO uses proper names (I use nicknames :look:) to talk about his friends and people he works with and I follow the storylines like a soap opera because we talk about them so much. Anyway, yesterday he said such and such took her weave out. I immediately. Immediately. Like, without skipping a beat said, as if I knew her, "that was a weave?" :look: :look: :look: I have never met this lady. He was like "what was a weave? How you--You looked her up? :Blush2:" :look:


:look:


:look:

Oh, nothin :look:


:sad:

Lookin like a crazy arse desperate stalker fool. I didn't even know it was possible for me to still get so embarrassed in front of him. I was shaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaame.
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I'm sorry but this really made me :lachen::lachen:. Chile don't worry most folks checkout coworkers, family and friends pics on f/b. WTH are the photos on there for if not for our viewing pleasure? :lachen:

Late last nite I get up to go lay in the bed. My guy had two late games to referee yesterday so he picked up some burritos & beer on the way to my house. That fool fell asleep w/a can of beer in his hand and it spilled. I said hey mister wake up! He jumped up on his feet while still sleep saying "ok ok I'll do better" :lachen::lachen: I wondered if a burrito was under the covers:look::spinning:

I laid across the foot of the bed and went back to bed. This morning he said ok sorry lets change the sheets. I said ninja you need $800 bucks to replace my mattresses. I can hear crickets in that room now:lachen::lachen:
 
firecracker Your post made me :lachen:

InchHighPrivateEye Its ok, we all do it. But I would have been like :blush: too!


OAN: I miss my twin (that is what I call him). I look back on old journal entries and realized that I was writing him into my life. Its crazy!
 
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InchHighPrivateEye said:
No, people can't see when you view their page, yet :sad:

My SO uses proper names (I use nicknames :look:) to talk about his friends and people he works with and I follow the storylines like a soap opera because we talk about them so much. Anyway, yesterday he said such and such took her weave out. I immediately. Immediately. Like, without skipping a beat said, as if I knew her, "that was a weave?" :look: :look: :look: I have never met this lady. He was like "what was a weave? How you--You looked her up? :Blush2:" :look:


:look:


:look:

Oh, nothin :look:


:sad:

Lookin like a crazy arse desperate stalker fool. I didn't even know it was possible for me to still get so embarrassed in front of him. I was shaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaame.
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LMAO....:lachen:I know the feeling.
 
kandake said:
I really don't have any concrete evidence. It's just my suspicion based on some things that have happened.

First incident: We're having coffee. My back is to the rest of the crowd. I notice he's looking at something. I assume he's people watching. I turn to see what caught his attention. Before I can turn my head he says "Why is this dude staring at me" I thought it was weird.

Second incident: We're sitting at the outside patio of a restaurant. I notice that he's looking at someone behind me. When the person finally walks past I notice it was a man.

Third incident: We're standing on the street looking at this dude get arrested. A man walks by and looks at us. I wasn't really paying attention to the man. But, I turn to dude to say something about the guy being arrested and I noticed that he was smiling at the passerby. He seem startled that I noticed him smiling.

I may very well be overacting. But all of these instances were unsettling to me. I feel like he's checking out men.
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I think he's checking out men...too.
 
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