CarLiTa
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I had a picnic with the new guy, the Inventor. It was nice. Again we broached the topic of relationships. He listed some of what he is looking for in his future lady, and he asked me to do the same. I was tickled when he said that he is looking for someone who loves sex and is great at it
he said it so matter-of-factly that I was a little taken aback. But, roommate had already told me that she's overheard him say that a few times with his male buddies before, so I was more or less prepared... Just didn't expect for him to actually SAY that.
He and I haven't kissed yet... And I'm not rushing it. Personally, we have not kissed bc he hasn't made enough effort to kiss me yet, and I won't do it first... Which I suspect is what he's hoping... OR (and more likely) that he's waiting for a wide open invitation. My body language, I'm sure, hasn't been conducive to that. I haven't had a drop of alcohol when hanging out with him, which helps me avoid being super relaxed and open and flirtatious, and looking bedroomy
(I have low alcohol tolerance and my eyes get really droopy after just one drink... And guys have told me it sends a certain message
) Also, new guy and I have only hung out in the daytime or in very public places. I dunno, overall I think it is a body language thing... I'm just not giving an open vibe.
Also, I'm still looking for a spark... Which I've yet to feel. I started feeling like I was starting to like him emotionally, but like, today, I massaged his hand (it was part of a joke), and I had no tingle whatsoever...
Not even when he did the same to me.
So, that's worrisome. I want both types of attractions. I kinda wish he would just kiss me soon so that I know... Even though, as interested as he's becoming, it might complicate things more if there is still no spark.
He is interested in a relationship... And he stated that again. But the summer is a problem, I guess. As of now, he is scheduled to be in 3 different continents this summer... And I'm super hesitant about tying myself to someone long distance so early on, if the vibe isn't spectacular.
Anyway, he also thinks I'm snappy (I admit, I was pretty snappy today), and he says that while it's cool, he wishes we were just more relaxed with one another. It's just that I get a little annoyed that he leaves it up to me to figure out the details and openly confesses to hating having to make decisions and is willing to go with whatever detail I choose. I dunno, I find that frustrating
Well, that's neither here nor there. Verdict is still out with him. I need a kiss to decide, I guess... But how much do I really want one?
he said it so matter-of-factly that I was a little taken aback. But, roommate had already told me that she's overheard him say that a few times with his male buddies before, so I was more or less prepared... Just didn't expect for him to actually SAY that. He and I haven't kissed yet... And I'm not rushing it. Personally, we have not kissed bc he hasn't made enough effort to kiss me yet, and I won't do it first... Which I suspect is what he's hoping... OR (and more likely) that he's waiting for a wide open invitation. My body language, I'm sure, hasn't been conducive to that. I haven't had a drop of alcohol when hanging out with him, which helps me avoid being super relaxed and open and flirtatious, and looking bedroomy
(I have low alcohol tolerance and my eyes get really droopy after just one drink... And guys have told me it sends a certain message) Also, new guy and I have only hung out in the daytime or in very public places. I dunno, overall I think it is a body language thing... I'm just not giving an open vibe.Also, I'm still looking for a spark... Which I've yet to feel. I started feeling like I was starting to like him emotionally, but like, today, I massaged his hand (it was part of a joke), and I had no tingle whatsoever...
Not even when he did the same to me. So, that's worrisome. I want both types of attractions. I kinda wish he would just kiss me soon so that I know... Even though, as interested as he's becoming, it might complicate things more if there is still no spark.
He is interested in a relationship... And he stated that again. But the summer is a problem, I guess. As of now, he is scheduled to be in 3 different continents this summer... And I'm super hesitant about tying myself to someone long distance so early on, if the vibe isn't spectacular.
Anyway, he also thinks I'm snappy (I admit, I was pretty snappy today), and he says that while it's cool, he wishes we were just more relaxed with one another. It's just that I get a little annoyed that he leaves it up to me to figure out the details and openly confesses to hating having to make decisions and is willing to go with whatever detail I choose. I dunno, I find that frustrating
Well, that's neither here nor there. Verdict is still out with him. I need a kiss to decide, I guess... But how much do I really want one?
her wedding was so beautiful. I hope someday I can find that kind of love, friendship and comfort in someone. I'm surely willing to give it.
and I need to stop. Siiiiigh.
which is ironic because i had wanted to stay home... it was one of those weeks where i didnt like him 
Was wondering if he forgot about me these least few days since we didnt talk and it turns out all those text messages/phone calls got his phone cut off due to international costs LOL Aww but he still called me off someone's phone when he got in 
...he told me I looked sexy
...and he's happy I still kept the natural look one more day before I go diva mode on him lol....cant wait to see him in 2wks!!! I'll be in a weave, lashes and all
Honeyluv will be back I know he misses her too lol!! :whipgirl:
He's taking me to this jazz club. And we're going to the Cheesecake Factory on Wednesday 
