2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III
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CarLiTa
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Why don't you want to commit?
tinkat
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firecracker
Your so sounds like a keeper
. If you do the nair he will smell like relaxer for a whole day 
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Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
Your so sounds like a keeper
. If you do the nair he will smell like relaxer for a whole day .Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
InchHighPrivateEye
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I have to cancel my hair appt for tomorrow because of work (wait. Does that sound ratchet 
) and I may not be able to go to the art show because I'll probably still be at work. I'm not here for this.
) and I may not be able to go to the art show because I'll probably still be at work. I'm not here for this.
deltadreamland
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Most. Amazing. Man. I. Have. Ever. Dated.
That's what he is. I can't even get into the amazing things he's done in just the past 4 days...well maybe later because I'm exhausted. I love me some him.
That's what he is. I can't even get into the amazing things he's done in just the past 4 days...well maybe later because I'm exhausted. I love me some him.
InchHighPrivateEye
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I dated one for years. I knew from the start that if we ended up together, I would have failed at the game of life, but he made me feel good...sometimes. Please! Don't be like me. Be better than me
khadicurls
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It's late and I'm watching Love Addiction. Galyn hurts my heart. I hope she sees her value because Sheldon ain't sh!t.
ETA: If she was my friend I would have to be real blunt and honest. How can you date someone that is dependable? Sheldon doesn't care about Galyn at all and he needs to stop saying he does. Galyn needs to really pay attention to Sheldon's actions because she has settled.
ETA: If she was my friend I would have to be real blunt and honest. How can you date someone that is dependable? Sheldon doesn't care about Galyn at all and he needs to stop saying he does. Galyn needs to really pay attention to Sheldon's actions because she has settled.
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khadicurls
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khadicurls said:
Glad she realized her worth. Ladies please don't settle for a piece of a man just so that you can say you have someone. That is just doing yourself a disservice. Just know that you deserve the best and know your worth.
Katherina
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CarLiTa
He's not long term material in my book. Addictive tendencies... And not smart enough for me to respect as a long term partner. I don't trust his decision making skills.
InchHighPrivateEye
I'm sorry to hear that. This is what my intuition says... Do not commit...
I'm picky, i dont see any boyfriend material around here
And I like having attractive male company. am i settling? Or just doing what's right for me right now... Hmm
He's not long term material in my book. Addictive tendencies... And not smart enough for me to respect as a long term partner. I don't trust his decision making skills.
InchHighPrivateEye
I'm sorry to hear that. This is what my intuition says... Do not commit... I'm picky, i dont see any boyfriend material around here
And I like having attractive male company. am i settling? Or just doing what's right for me right now... Hmm
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ElizaBlue
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Still feeling a little hurt, but everyday the pain lessens thanks to this thread by @hopeful http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=348709 and the last post to me from @ElizaBlue. I don't know what the convo is going to be like when/if we talk after he comes back from vacation on Sunday, but he's going to find a very different woman than the one he left a week ago.
I'm heading to Foxwoods tomorrow night, I hope I manage to have a good time and maybe win some money. That would ease my pain a bit.
MzLady78 And that different woman will be sooo intriguing to him. Become an observer of your own movie...watch how he tries to show you that you got it all wrong and that this new and different woman is not really who YOU (ie HIM) need to be.
At some point becoming a better you then seeing how folks hate that will be pure entertainment. While he's been gone you've been busy cutting strings, do not let him reconnect those. Have fun in your new life...it is going to be beautiful!!!
ElizaBlue
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So, I couldn't meet up today after all... I procrastinated (I'm just so tired!) and still have a lot to do... Most of which I am just starting now. I can tell he's disappointed... But I have to get things together before I go. My BFF is getting married this wknd! It's been stressful bc it has blown several holes through my walletRight now I'm thinking abt the short term. I'm pooped and can't wait till after the wedding to come home, sleep soundly, clean my room, pick up some projects, get a gym membership, and start my yoga practice.
CarLiTa When you say start your yoga practice do you mean open your own spot? If not, I'm in the same boat you're in. My gym closed so I need to find another one.
ElizaBlue
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The thing is I've been doing the online thing recently, so they are bringing up the sex stuff on the phone beforehand. It's when we are getting to know each other is when they hit me with "well what positions do you like" or as in the words of the last guy "can you tell me what makes your p*ssy wet". After that, they get blocked. It's good since I didn't waste too much time but yet this is seeming to be the norm.
kbnax Those would be major turn offs for me. I like sex probably more than most but coming at me straight off the cuff when we are not even in a friendship let alone a relationship would be a complete fail.
BobbieDoll
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He told me I'm a "gamechanger", not exactly sure what that means but I'll take it as a compliment.
Smiley79
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I can't take it anymore. I keep feeling so sad. I think I need a hiatus or a fast from talking about or thinking about anything "relationships". This includes me staying out of the relationship forum for a bit. I would say a good 30 days. Hopefully this will shift my mind off things and I can gradually get out of this depressing hole. See y'all in T+30 unless something new comes along and then I would have to share with y'all asap. (The way things have been going, I think I will chat with y'all in 30 dys)
MzLady78
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Had a brief breakdown earlier. 
Today is one of those days where the pep talks about how much I deserve better, how I'm better off without him, blah, blah, blah, simply aren't helping. This is the longest we haven't had any contact in the year and a half that we've known each other and I miss him like crazy. I would much rather be miserable everyday then finally be over it than be on this rollercoaster where I'm alright one minute and in tears the next. That ish is making me nuts.
I see it's gonna take a significantly long time to heal from this one. I didn't think it was possible to get hurt more than I did when me and my last bf broke up but this might be worse. And we weren't even in a relationship.
Today is one of those days where the pep talks about how much I deserve better, how I'm better off without him, blah, blah, blah, simply aren't helping. This is the longest we haven't had any contact in the year and a half that we've known each other and I miss him like crazy. I would much rather be miserable everyday then finally be over it than be on this rollercoaster where I'm alright one minute and in tears the next. That ish is making me nuts.
I see it's gonna take a significantly long time to heal from this one. I didn't think it was possible to get hurt more than I did when me and my last bf broke up but this might be worse. And we weren't even in a relationship.
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hopeful
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CarLiTa
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ElizaBlue said:
I'm just attempting to use yogi words
Not opening my own spot, just going. This will be my first time doing yoga regularly and in a group. I'm really excited. I'm feeling so sluggish these days, and I'm losing touch with my body. I am also looking to add more structure in my life... particularly during the week. I do better with that
Anyway, that's not what you asked
just felt like rambling So excited for next week!! I'm going to get my life RIGHT.
SUPER SWEET
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Why? Why? Why? DO I MEET STRANGE people! I don't know how to respond....
So we start talkin about getting in the mood play lists. He rattles off The Whispers,Isley Brothers,ect.... The he said ain't nothing like screwin to MLK I have dream speech.
erplexed
I just told him I'd call him after 5.
I don't know how to respond....So we start talkin about getting in the mood play lists. He rattles off The Whispers,Isley Brothers,ect.... The he said ain't nothing like screwin to MLK I have dream speech.
erplexed I just told him I'd call him after 5.
ElizaBlue
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I'm just attempting to use yogi words
This will be my first time doing yoga regularly and in a group. I'm really excited. I'm feeling so sluggish these days, and I'm losing touch with my body. I am also looking to add more structure in my life... particularly during the week. I do better with that
Anyway, that's not what you asked
CarLiTa I see...well still...very good. I've decided to get back into Pilates and Yoga...I stopped when I was dealing with all the health issues with my mom. Yesterday ...against my doctor's orders...I did one whole mile. It felt soooo good to run again. I don't feel any pain today whatsoever...which makes me think maybe docs don't know everything...
Keep it up...moving your body makes you feel good no matter what!
ElizaBlue
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Had a brief breakdown earlier.
I see it's gonna take a significantly long time to heal from this one. I didn't think it was possible to get hurt more than I did when me and my last bf broke up but this might be worse. And we weren't even in a relationship.
MzLady78 I was in a situation like this once upon a time. I thought this guy was my gravity...he had me floating...but when I fell he let me crash for real. It took finding out something really bad about him and then fixating on it. That finally broke the spell. For me it was other women and me going behind them unbeknownst to me.
That did it, the rose colored glasses cracked in both lenses pronto!If you don't know something bad about this guy, make up something not to spread just in your mind. And just associate the bad thought with him. Try it, after a while it just might do the trick.
tinkat
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MzLady78 said:Had a brief breakdown earlier.
Today is one of those days where the pep talks about how much I deserve better, how I'm better off without him, blah, blah, blah, simply aren't helping. This is the longest we haven't had any contact in the year and a half that we've known each other and I miss him like crazy. I would much rather be miserable everyday then finally be over it than be on this rollercoaster where I'm alright one minute and in tears the next. That ish is making me nuts.
I see it's gonna take a significantly long time to heal from this one. I didn't think it was possible to get hurt more than I did when me and my last bf broke up but this might be worse. And we weren't even in a relationship.
I so feel you! I understand everything you are saying. Especially the part where you are hurting more from this than when you were in a relationship. It will get better. A year from now you will look at this situation and see the beauty in it. It has not even been a year and I see how I have grown and become wiser because of it.
Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
MzLady78
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I'm still working on that, but I really hope so. I'm waking up all hours of the night thinking about everything, haven't had a good night's sleep in forever....I hate this so much.
MzLady78
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@MzLady78 I was in a situation like this once upon a time. I thought this guy was my gravity...he had me floating...but when I fell he let me crash for real. It took finding out something really bad about him and then fixating on it. That finally broke the spell. For me it was other women and me going behind them unbeknownst to me.
If you don't know something bad about this guy, make up something not to spread just in your mind. And just associate the bad thought with him. Try it, after a while it just might do the trick.
The other day when I had my little epiphany I was so excited about, this is what I had done. I even wrote out a list of all the ways he was wrong for me and why it wasn't meant to be. It's just not working today. I think I'm anxious too because we weren't able to have a conversation about everything before he left, so I'm waiting for him to come back and see what happens. Even though I told myself there isn't anything to discuss because this thing he did really said it all.
You'd think I'd be pro at getting through this disappointments by now, I've had plenty of practice.
I KNOW what it's like to feel like I'm never gonna get over it, never gonna find someone like him, never gonna love again, etc., and I KNOW it's not true. But that period in the meantime is so hard.Whatever...in two hours I'll be on my way to Foxwoods and I'm not gonna let this ish ruin my night. I packed a cute little dress, I'm gonna play my slots, take advantage of the free drinks, maybe hit the club. Then this weekend I'll be with my fam for Mother's Day, which I'm really looking forward to. We haven't all been together since Christmas.
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i'm so starved for male company that any ol dood will do.
i hate that its gotten to this point.
this is so me aswell.
qchelle
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I can't wait to see him tomorrow! I am going to ravish him as soon as I sit down in his car OMG I hope I can keep my panties on! Suuuuupper glad that he has a truck, so we can stretch out 
Is it bad that I just wanna have sex with him??!! 
omg I'm such a hornball!
I mean...I don't just wanna have sex with him lol. I miss him and I wanna see his face. He's a super awesome guy (so far)!
OMG I hope I can keep my panties on! Suuuuupper glad that he has a truck, so we can stretch out Is it bad that I just wanna have sex with him??!! omg I'm such a hornball! I mean...I don't just wanna have sex with him lol. I miss him and I wanna see his face. He's a super awesome guy (so far)!
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