Texting this *****.
Do any of you ladies have a general timespan after which you stop dating a guy who you get along with but don't really want to commit to?
Texting this *****.
Do any of you ladies have a general timespan after which you stop dating a guy who you get along with but don't really want to commit to?
khadicurls said:It's late and I'm watching Love Addiction. Galyn hurts my heart. I hope she sees her value because Sheldon ain't sh!t.
ETA: If she was my friend I would have to be real blunt and honest. How can you date someone that is dependable? Sheldon doesn't care about Galyn at all and he needs to stop saying he does. Galyn needs to really pay attention to Sheldon's actions because she has settled.
Still feeling a little hurt, but everyday the pain lessens thanks to this thread by @hopeful http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=348709 and the last post to me from @ElizaBlue. I don't know what the convo is going to be like when/if we talk after he comes back from vacation on Sunday, but he's going to find a very different woman than the one he left a week ago.
I'm heading to Foxwoods tomorrow night, I hope I manage to have a good time and maybe win some money. That would ease my pain a bit.
So, I couldn't meet up today after all... I procrastinated (I'm just so tired!) and still have a lot to do... Most of which I am just starting now. I can tell he's disappointed... But I have to get things together before I go. My BFF is getting married this wknd! It's been stressful bc it has blown several holes through my wallet and I don't think I've fully processed what this means, either Right now I'm thinking abt the short term. I'm pooped and can't wait till after the wedding to come home, sleep soundly, clean my room, pick up some projects, get a gym membership, and start my yoga practice.
The thing is I've been doing the online thing recently, so they are bringing up the sex stuff on the phone beforehand. It's when we are getting to know each other is when they hit me with "well what positions do you like" or as in the words of the last guy "can you tell me what makes your p*ssy wet". After that, they get blocked. It's good since I didn't waste too much time but yet this is seeming to be the norm.
ElizaBlue said:CarLiTa When you say start your yoga practice do you mean open your own spot? If not, I'm in the same boat you're in. My gym closed so I need to find another one.
I'm just attempting to use yogi words Not opening my own spot, just going.
This will be my first time doing yoga regularly and in a group. I'm really excited. I'm feeling so sluggish these days, and I'm losing touch with my body. I am also looking to add more structure in my life... particularly during the week. I do better with that
Anyway, that's not what you asked just felt like rambling So excited for next week!! I'm going to get my life RIGHT.
Had a brief breakdown earlier.
I see it's gonna take a significantly long time to heal from this one. I didn't think it was possible to get hurt more than I did when me and my last bf broke up but this might be worse. And we weren't even in a relationship.
MzLady78 said:Had a brief breakdown earlier.
Today is one of those days where the pep talks about how much I deserve better, how I'm better off without him, blah, blah, blah, simply aren't helping. This is the longest we haven't had any contact in the year and a half that we've known each other and I miss him like crazy. I would much rather be miserable everyday then finally be over it than be on this rollercoaster where I'm alright one minute and in tears the next. That ish is making me nuts.
I see it's gonna take a significantly long time to heal from this one. I didn't think it was possible to get hurt more than I did when me and my last bf broke up but this might be worse. And we weren't even in a relationship.
@MzLady78
It may not take as long as you think to heal. Once you start working with a good therapist I think you will be pleasantly surprised at your progress. You need someone to help you gain perspective and figure other ish out. You just need a little help, t'is all.
@MzLady78 I was in a situation like this once upon a time. I thought this guy was my gravity...he had me floating...but when I fell he let me crash for real. It took finding out something really bad about him and then fixating on it. That finally broke the spell. For me it was other women and me going behind them unbeknownst to me. That did it, the rose colored glasses cracked in both lenses pronto!
If you don't know something bad about this guy, make up something not to spread just in your mind. And just associate the bad thought with him. Try it, after a while it just might do the trick.
I so feel you! I understand everything you are saying. Especially the part where you are hurting more from this than when you were in a relationship. It will get better. A year from now you will look at this situation and see the beauty in it. It has not even been a year and I see how I have grown and become wiser because of it.
Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
i'm so starved for male company that any ol dood will do.
i hate that its gotten to this point.