2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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I think I'm starting to like the new guy. Our date the other day was really nice. I asked him some questions and I reeeaaallly liked his answers... Even though I made sure not to convey that I was really happy to hear that he felt the same way about those ideas lol.
Turns out that he had asked my roommate for advice for our date, and when she asked him how things went, he said they went "awesomely" lol. I might see him again this week before I go out of town for the wknd. And I actually don't mind and am making time for it. Lawd. This is epic.
 
Got a surprise for him this weekend!! I want to tell him, but it'll ruin everything.
His mom has been out of state for a few months and she's coming back on Friday. He thinks that she isn't coming until next week.

So when I/we go to his place on Saturday, I'll walk in with a lovely surprise!
 
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Ex surprised me with a huge, and I mean party size, tray of jollof rice 2 nights ago. :lachen: Who does that? :rofl: Thank God my bro is here to help me eat alladat, because seriously, did he think I was going to eat it morning noon and night? :lachen:

I appreciate the thought though. :yep:
 
Getting ready to go to my bffs wedding this weekend. It is funny cause I swore I would be taking someone with me when she asked me to be her bridesmaid this time last year. Yeah, apparently, some things never change :lol: Ah well...
 
Yesterday was hell. So, as I'm caught offguard by a surprise meeting at 5 45, I get a text from him that says "I miss you." Aw. That made me wipe the scowl off that I would have had during the meeting. Then when he called me last night he said "what's wrong? You sound annoyed." I thought I was hiding it. He's so good! And so I told him about my day and he said "I'm sorry, babe. That's a lot. But it's almost over." (He was referring to my busy season at work. We had been planning to each take about 3 days off next month when it's over and go to the beach. I can't wait!) I just loooooooooooooooooooove the way he said "I'm sorry, babe." No talking back :look: or stupid, inapplicable arse advice, just "I'm sorry, babe. That's a lot." Yassssss, boy, yess.

Friday we're going to an art show that one of his friends is having. I like art shows! I like that he has friends that have art shows! I like that I'm gonna meet 'em! I need to calm down and get my life :look: But I'm not! lol
 
So, last night I got a friend request from a guy I met a year ago while on a wknd trip with some mutual friends. I added him, and he wrote on my wall asking if I remember him from the trip. I thought that was a little weird cause, well, it was almost a year ago. I wrote back saying that I do and asking how he's doing. When he wrote back, again on my wall, he said that he and his friend were talking abt the trip and my name came up, so yada yada.

Blinks incessantly. Why would my name come up?:perplexed

Now I'm worried. Thing is, on that trip I connected with a boy, and our little exchange was kinda romantic, I think:sad: there was some innocent flirting for a few hours while we were all in a group, and then later that night, he and I ended up staying up to talk to each other, even though people were giving us the side eye right before they went to bed. I stayed up super late talking to him, and we fell asleep cuddled up on a couch.
The next morning was awkward, I guess with some people assuming that things happened. But I can swear on anything that absolutely nothing did. In fact, this guy and I didn't even kiss until mid-morning, and even then they were just pecks.

So, anyway, I'm always very concerned about my reputation, and as romantic as I thought that night was, that might have been a bad move. Whatever. But really, now I'm just wondering why the heck my name came up in their conversation, and I'm wondering if I should even ask. I didn't spend more than 10mins talking to this guy one-on-one.
I dunno. What should I do?
 
I'm so glad he was referred to a neurologist today. I have two days of Me time.
He cannot adjust any projects after looking at his calendar and obligations. Hopefully one of my friends will get airline ticket and come along since it was initially a girlfriend trip.
 
I'm happy you came by to my surprise today. I guess I needed to see where I'm weak in regards to folks. You care for me as it shows a bit and I care for you. Maybe one day we can be but right now I must get me whole and you must do what you feel you need to do. Hopefully you don't take too long before I move in a yr.
 
Hate that all guys want is sex...why can't I meet somebody who wants something more.

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I really don't like it when people, especially men, try to get too familiarly with me. We are NOT cool like that.
 
This is an idiotic problem. I wanna delete a (former?) love interest from facebook and twitter. But I want us to stay cool enough until my puppy turns 8 weeks old and I can get her :look: They will notice and say something. Ugh
 
Mortons said:
This is an idiotic problem. I wanna delete a (former?) love interest from facebook and twitter. But I want us to stay cool enough until my puppy turns 8 weeks old and I can get her :look: They will notice and say something. Ugh
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You can change your privacy settings, so she never sees any of your posts or pictures.. She will be virtually looking at your page with nothing on it. :lol: After the 8 weeks are up, delete her..
 
I'm mad that we've been on the phone for 21:37 minutes and I've only got a few words in. Since when did men talk this much? :barf:
 
Hmm...listening to these other long time dating and long time married couples at bible study really shed a bright light on our relationship. Some of these folks are together for ALL the wrong reasons and just need to part. A commitment is one thing but a relationship let alone a marriage should not be that hard.

I would be mortified if my husband of 7 years stated to a crowd of people that everyday is a struggle and many times he wants to just walk out but God brought them together and their kids need both parents.

This one guy just would not stop talking about how many times prayer keeps him from leaving. And the wife is just looking like "the hayle with that I wish you'd stop praying and just go."

FH and I just looked at each other because truly they are together for the wrong reasons. If I was that unhappy with my SO and the only reason I could come up with to stay was vows and kids...I'd be so gone.

Being happy is a choice and I refuse to be with someone just because I said I do or the condom broke. No mama.

Another couple said that you have to keep excitement in your marriage. I was following until she said they have some type of entertainment at least 4 times a week. Whether it's going out or inviting others over. I guess that would be over too if they had to just stay home and play chess or watch TV together. She made it sound like they were too boring to be together.

Thank the Lord FH and I are both introverts. We can sit for hours reading, listening to a book on tape, playing chess or coloring of course:lachen:. To us this is exciting.

There are other stories I could tell but this was just a minor vent. At any rate no relationship is perfect, but I can see what we have is way ahead of what we've seen thus far.
 
I've been friends (NOTHING more, no sex or intimate talk) with this guy for almost a year. Yesterday, his girlfriend CALLS ME to tell me that she doesn't want us talking anymore via text or phone. :ohwell: I was at work, so I couldn't curse her out like I wanted to. I simply said, that's fine, but you need to work on your insecurities because we have NEVER had any inappropriate conversations. She said, that she knows, but isn't comfortable with us talking. :lol:

Well, today he called me to apologize. There is nothing to apologize for, but I don't want you to lose your woman on my behalf. I do hope that he finds a less ratchet bytch though. She's lucky that I'm not as hood as I use to be. I would have told her to meet me in the hood, if she needs that. :rolleyes:

She might call the wrong one, next time.


I wonder, if he's been comparing my laid back self with her overbearing hoodrat arse.... :yawn:
 
Ok first time posting in here but I needed to vent.

I'm so sick of every guy I meet wanting to have sex right off the bat. It's either them trying to hook up or they ask me a million questions about what I like sexually, smh. I mean damn! Is that really how dating is now?!
 
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#mensuck :grin:


kbnax said:
Ok first time posting in here but I needed to vent.

I'm so sick of every guy I meet wanting to have sex right off the bat. It's either them trying to hook up or they ask me a million questions about what I like sexually, smh. I mean damn! Is that really how dating is now?![/QUOTE]
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Lol! Yes they do suck,lol. I've been divorced for a couple of years now, so I'm still kinda new to the dating scene. I got married right after hs in '98, so what these dudes call dating now, is not what I'm used to. Some just seem to have no damn respect.
 
kbnax I always had a remedy for men that want to talk about sex prematurely and sexuality. I start talking about money, spending his and what he likes to buy his woman because of course for many men that is a equal turn off. Then I say wasn't that odd for me to randomly bring up your money? Did that offend you? LOL
 
Yeah SEX can take yo mind of some sh!t! :look: Don't go ta hell fa bad dangalang if you must go....... Death to smoochy!!!!!!!!:lachen:
 
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