2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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I'm a bit freaked out. I'm about to turn 35, still no prospects. Today, mom came to visit to asked me if I had anyone...Well its dry...I know i need to hurry up and pack up and leave... I hope god is hearing my prayers and plans to help me out.
 
Sometimes I just don't feel like being bothered. I am doing my best not to feel guilty about it either.
 
I'm surprised I'm not sad that a step cousin is getting married soon. I always competed with her in my head bc she had the ideal life to me but I really don't care. I'm happy for her but I'm happy in the space I'm in. Yes I would love more but I'm content right now.
 
The gospel concert was off the chain. He had a holy ghost party. He really enjoyed the guess speaker and praise dancers. We ate leftovers at home before going. The fight party at my cousins was fun. They had loads of people, drinks and the bomb.com chili w/cornbread. I'm so tired. He fell asleep the minute we got in the house. :lachen: He worka hard before the concert and fight. Po thang still has a major plumbing project for a high rise to complete.
 
cinco de mayo with his family was... an experience. i kind of dont actually think so and id never say this outloud or to anyone i know irl, but. i kinda feel like his brother was flirting with me.
 
meesch said:
cinco de mayo with his family was... an experience. i kind of dont actually think so and id never say this outloud or to anyone i know irl, but. i kinda feel like his brother was flirting with me.
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OMG meesch! Guess the brothers have similar taste:giggle:.
 
hopeful said:
OMG meesch! Guess the brothers have similar taste:giggle:.
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:lol: you know how when you are on a first date you work in a lot of ways to sneak in little "innocuous" touches... and making cutesy little smart alecky comments... idk maybe hes just a flirty person though. nobody else seemed concerned.
 
i had REALLY fun date last night. he is so easy to talk to. and he's so carefree and animated.

he's said he was going to come by school to study with me today after church. at first i didn't know how to feel about that, it felt a little invasive, but i think he just wants to be around me. he's a cancer. the crazy doctor was a cancer too now that i think about it. hmm....

i can tell this dude is a little emotionally labile. i asked him if he was really sensitive and he was like... Yeah. i dunno how to feel about it. i don't let horoscopes inform my dating choices, but my college boyfriend was a cancer and he cried more than any man i've ever dated in my life. most guys i've dated long term have cried in front of me, but my ex would cry like multiple times per year.... :perplexed

i just hope this new dude isn't a crier. as long as he's not a crier i can deal
 
LaBelleLL said:
I. am. terrified. So his parents are coming to town for his graduation. The other night, he invited me out to their dinner dates during graduation. I said i'd think about it and changed the subject. Ha. He mentioned it again today and gave me their exact schedule. His parents want me to come and his mom said I'm welcome to join in all of their dinner dates. I am SO scared.
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LaBelleLL
whoa. that's fast. :lol:

don't be scared! just go to one dinner date, i wouldn't go to all of them. :lol:
 
Ha, a shoe salesman started flirting yesterday. So corny, but some of the ladies here might like him:

"Do you live in the LI?" (I was like what????) he meant Long Island. Never heard it called "the LI "

Then let me know

He was up for a promotion
Went to church
His brother was a pastor
Was ready to buy a condo for about 300k
His pastor brother was going to give him some hook up in buying the condo.
Made sure to repeat his FULL NAME in a sentence or me.

LAME!
 
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Theo

Those water males are criers for sure. I had a Scorpio and he cried more than me, but it was at vulnerable times.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
Theo said:
@LaBelleLL
whoa. that's fast. :lol:

don't be scared! just go to one dinner date, i wouldn't go to all of them. :lol:
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:lol: theo , it is fast right? but he kept on saying it was no big deal. maybe i'm projecting but if a man i'm dating meets both of my parents, that would be a huge deal. i'm signed up for three of their rendez-vous' :spinning: part of me thinks i should try to get out of them (and go to one bc what does it look like when i go to practically all of them). But another part of me is like what the heck since i won't be doing anything during this time, they're at restaurants i could not afford & his mother did expressly invite me. and i already said no to his graduation and feel kinda bad about that. aye.
 
Had fun on my date last night :D I was missing him. Can't wait to go home next weekend so I can see him during the week. We have lotsssssssss planned :D
 
tinkat said:
@Theo

Those water males are criers for sure. I had a Scorpio and he cried more than me, but it was at vulnerable times.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
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Oh gosh. I'm a Scorpio so I generally do pretty well with other water signs. But they can be so much work emotionally. :drunk:

LaBelleLL said:
:lol: theo , it is fast right? but he kept on saying it was no big deal. maybe i'm projecting but if a man i'm dating meets both of my parents, that would be a huge deal. i'm signed up for three of their rendez-vous' :spinning: part of me thinks i should try to get out of them (and go to one bc what does it look like when i go to practically all of them). But another part of me is like what the heck since i won't be doing anything during this time, they're at restaurants i could not afford & his mother did expressly invite me. and i already said no to his graduation and feel kinda bad about that. aye.
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Hmmm.... then I would go to the first one and see how it goes. If y'all hit off great, go to a second one! If not, I'm sure you can come up with a valid excuse.

I wouldn't go to more than two tho. Three dinner dates with the parents in the span of a wk (I'm assuming?) seems like a lot. :lol:

That is so nice he invited you though :)
 
Oasis said:
why on earth did i invite this ***** to come out with me tomorrow?:perplexed out of all the guys i've dated, he is definitely my least favorite. as soon as he was like "yeah, sure, i'll come'' i wanted to blow my brains out.:lol: i invited another guy and he said he'd come but knowing him, he probably won't and he's the one i'd rather have there. now i have to deal with this other clown all night.:sad:
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turned out exactly how i thought it would.:sad: i think he was wanting to get back together (never) but when he found out i've been out with 4 guys since we've broken up:look: that idea was shot to hell.:lachen:

he told me it was a turn off that i go on so many dates. said he was old fashioned and that's just not his ideal girl.:lol: i told him it's not like i sleep with these guys and he said it doesn't matter; claims it makes me untrustworthy.:ohwell::lol:

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i really want to cuddle.:sad: i need some affection.
 
okay yall quick Question

I chatted with a guy online for about two weeks was supposed to meet up with him today and but didn't hear from him until just now apologizing asking if we could go to dinner tomorrow. should i go?
 
mallysmommy said:
okay yall quick Question

I chatted with a guy online for about two weeks was supposed to meet up with him today and but didn't hear from him until just now apologizing asking if we could go to dinner tomorrow. should i go?
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:look: My mean arse would be unavailable, BUT he MIGHT be the one so follow your gut.
 
I want to tell him I had been looking forward to hanging out and was sad he ended up having to work, but I don't know

Sent from my HTC EVO 3D
 
mallysmommy said:
okay yall quick Question

I chatted with a guy online for about two weeks was supposed to meet up with him today and but didn't hear from him until just now apologizing asking if we could go to dinner tomorrow. should i go?
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I'd go, but definitely not tomorrow... A few days notice would be needed... with an enthusiastic request, I hope.
 
So I tell a male friend of mine that I plan on leaving NYC soon and he goes and says "it would be selfish for me to tell you to stay" :ohwell:

*scratching my head*
 
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