2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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On another note: Have you ever had a friend that you secretly fantasize about? I told my friend that I would "date the ish outta him". Seriously, I would. Ok, I'm going back to my corner...
 
Sigh...why did I give in to you...you tried and tried for 2years and i said yes finally smh...so handsome, slim&toned and hi yella...why did I let you tie me down to your bed:blush:! smh, thanks for turning me into an addict and not returning my text :look:


Woosah :lol:?






 
hes going away on a week long cruise...i'm happy and sad...we've communicated every day since Oct 20th even when one of us is mad Still not your girl yet but i feel like my bf is going away and i'm gonna miss you Hope you miss me as much as i'll miss you and maybe this will change our dating into something more
 
Just got a call from this guy friend that I went on a few dates with last year. I wasn't too interested romantically, so things didn't pan out. We've since stayed friends and have met up a couple times. He just called to say he was in my neighborhood. Turns out he's moving back up here! I dunno, this made me smile bc it's nice to stay friends with guys who don't become boyfriends. I know I'd never really done that before.
Even Togo hit me up this week. Think i'll reach out to him and suggest we catch up before he moves cross-country early summer.

SweetNic_JA, thanks for your opinion! Could you point out in what areas I am overthinking? I'd genuinely like to know, bc a lot of stuff makes sense in my head, and then I voice them to someone and hear myself and I'm like:look: Carlita, what were you thinking??? You sound crazy!!:lol: So, please explain :)

The new guy asked me to text him last night if I felt better and wanted to hang out, but I remembered that I'd promised a friend to stop by her church for an event, so I did that. And then I forgot to text... Still haven't. Eek. My Fridays are so busy. He's finally agreed to a date on Monday, after saying that he thought that was too far in advance, too much planning...::blinks incessantly::

ETA: oops. I just realized that I have a missed call from him from last night. Eh..:ohwell:
 
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I'm feeling kinda blah and down. :sad: Not sure why. Well actually that's not true...just can't really articulate it well enough to write. :ohwell:
 
CarLiTa said:
@Mortons, :huggle: what do you mean by that? What about dating is depressing your reality?
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Other peoples moods, emotions, and actions can affect mine when I'm dating. The other persons anxiety, sadness, anger, etc has a direct affect on how I feel. When its just me, I'm lonely but another persons demeanor doesn't really affect my own.
 
Mortons said:
Other peoples moods, emotions, and actions can affect mine when I'm dating. The other persons anxiety, sadness, anger, etc has a direct affect on how I feel. When its just me, I'm lonely but another persons demeanor doesn't really affect my own.
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I can sooooo relate to this feeling. Wow.
 
Supposed to go out tomorrow but I don't feel like doing my hair. It's been in a bun all week and I really just want to leave it like that

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...my baby brother (he's 21 now lol) has a girlfriend! I'm mad I found out on FB though :lol:. They had been dating for awhile, he said that she makes life less stressful for him and that he's happy. I thought that was so sweet!

On another note: This makes me the only sibling out of 4 that's single :look:
 
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HELP!

I'd hate to sound ungrateful (because I love the gesture), but WHY does everyone keep asking me out to dinner during my fast? As me to the movies or something. Dinner is something that I can't do right now. :(

How do I tell him that I can't go because I'm fasting, without sounding too crunchy?

If you don't know what crunchy is see this.
 
AHeadOfCoils said:
HELP!

I'd hate to sound ungrateful (because I love the gesture), but WHY does everyone keep asking me out to dinner during my fast? As me to the movies or something. Dinner is something that I can't do right now. :(

How do I tell him that I can't go because I'm fasting, without sounding too crunchy?

If you don't know what crunchy is see this.
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just counter offer with movies instead?
 
You are watching me waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too damn hard on twitter for someone who is not interested. Not one millisecond after I stop following you, you gonna text and ask why :rolleyes: But you be too busy to answer my text any other time :rolleyes: Go smang yourself
 
I am a little tipsy tonight. :look: BF in town, but he doesn't know its going down tonight. :yep:

He better get ready.


I wish he would hurry up and get back. I have to go to to spin class in the morning. :look:
 
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He got me to come over to his place but we are not doing the lazy Saturday thing again. My alarm is set for 8am and as soon as I wake up I'm bouncing. Busy weekend planned.

He is so sweet though, and I love how he's trying to insert himself in the rest of my wknd. I'm not going to meet up with him tomorrow night, but he can meet up with me in church on Sunday if he wants. He's so cute, he started cheesing so hard when I finally agreed to come over, even though he knows we're not gonna do anything but chitchat and cuddle. I had to make fun of him for it.

Also he saw me in glasses/school clothes for the first time today and he didn't make any creepy comments! It's a sad day when that becomes a positive lol
 
cinco de mayo at bfs parents house :drunk: but back to his place after (cqnt wait to cuddle up and sleep all night) then my place the next day. had a long day, then a long nighg at MY parents, but still made him chat with me on the phone fir a few mins just to hear his voice.

i really miss him znd cant wait to be in the same place again (ok im trying now to think about how its patislly going to suck having to be together but around his parents and prefer to just focus on thr good.
 
why on earth did i invite this ***** to come out with me tomorrow?:perplexed out of all the guys i've dated, he is definitely my least favorite. as soon as he was like "yeah, sure, i'll come'' i wanted to blow my brains out.:lol: i invited another guy and he said he'd come but knowing him, he probably won't and he's the one i'd rather have there. now i have to deal with this other clown all night.:sad:

@meesch, you're either tired, tipsy or on a phone.:lachen:
 
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why on earth did i invite this ***** to come out with me tomorrow?:perplexed out of all the guys i've dated, he is definitely my least favorite. as soon as he was like "yeah, sure, i'll come'' i wanted to blow my brains out.:lol: i invited another guy and he said he'd come but knowing him, he probably won't and he's the one i'd rather have there. now i have to deal with this other clown all night.:sad:

@meesch, you're either tired, tipsy or on a phone.:lachen:
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:rofl: all of the above :lol:
 
Glad I dont have to go to his first cricket game of this year tomorrow. Im not into sports like that and cricket has to be one of the most boring games ever.
 
The oldest saying is tru now like it was back then.....you always want what you can't have. Im not looking for friends with benefits nor a serious relationship....i jus want to date n have a good time....:-)
 
I. am. terrified. So his parents are coming to town for his graduation. The other night, he invited me out to their dinner dates during graduation. I said i'd think about it and changed the subject. Ha. He mentioned it again today and gave me their exact schedule. His parents want me to come and his mom said I'm welcome to join in all of their dinner dates. I am SO scared.
 
So some how my plans for us to have a little Mexican party for two turned into a legit Cinco de Mayo fiesta for 10. Not quite what I was planning. And this girl is here that I'm not particularly fond of...thank god for margaritas. I've locked myself in his room so I can decompress. Feeling some attitude coming on and I really don't want to be seen as his btchy girlfriend.
 
Love is full circle but it first starts from within then goes forth to others and returns even more. The more you give the more you receive. Love and lust aren't one in the same. Self-love and self-respect go hand in hand. Being free of things will allow for such a happier life full of love and joy.
 
Today my SO took me to see the Avengers (great movie) and then shopping. I had a great time and did not come home empty handed. :grin::grin:
 
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