2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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Vanthie said:
Someone who doesn't want to make it official. Unless the ride is enjoyable he may waste the next 6 months.
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Vanthie- :sad: I KNOOOOOW I'm keeping hope alive and staying guarded I think he is testing me to see where my mind is at We're a few states away from each other so this is all new for him and more importantly i'm not in a rush I just hate not knowing what the future holds:look:
 
tinkat said:
Victoria secret has the cutest ones. You can get some at Walmart even, just pick a pack with cute patterns. Ross too...you can get them anywhere tbh...

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
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We're in the same city...

CarLiTa
Can I get boy shorts in packs too?!!!! wooooohooooo!!!!!!!
I just hate spending more than $5 on ONE pantY unless it's a super duper sexy lacy number....for a SPECIAL occasion that often goes un-noticed ANYWAYZZZZZZZZZZ......
 
I really don't want to keep having "talks" but there's just ooooone more thing I want to talk about.

ETA: Ok, it must be hormones or something because I literally just forgot what I wanted to talk to him about. Ah well.
 
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The best part of meeting him was he inspired me to revisit my love of poetry. I thought I would never have the interest to write again, but he help me believe in myself again. So much so, I'm going to start doing open mics. Even if things don't work out for us in the end, just the footprint he left was powerful enough to never forget him.
 
A856 said:
I know I drive this man crazy... God knows I know I do.
I like the way he show's his love, when I'm driving him crazy...I need to stop playing with him, before I run him off.
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I know you love me and keep me in your BEST interest at heart.....but it's not that serious for you to get upset because I didn't eat breakfast. :look:
Yes we've had the conversation before as to how breakfast is the most important meal of the day, but I just didn't have the time yesterday....geesh! :drunk:

This is what I'm talking about when I said before that I know I drive him crazy....this particular subject wasn't that serious. But ok....
 
stephluv said:
Vanthie- :sad: I KNOOOOOW I'm keeping hope alive and staying guarded I think he is testing me to see where my mind is at We're a few states away from each other so this is all new for him and more importantly i'm not in a rush I just hate not knowing what the future holds:look:
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Good luck with it. You sound like patient woman lol.
 
went out and got drinks last night with my . . . first. he was as funny and charming and adorable as ever. i didn't think it would be a good idea, thought it might stir some things up inside of me :look: but it was nice.:) i've definitely moved on.

he wants to do it again but i don't see the point of keeping around men i'm not smanging.:look: though it has been a while since i've talked with a guy i didn't want to punch in the face.
 
hahha some guy blocked me in the parking lot....told me he had to make an impression. But he wasnt my type; i dont do braids and gold teeth LOL. It was funny anyway
 
smwrigh3 said:
I don't know you. I don't know where you are or what you are doing. But I stand convicted that you are out there. That God is working on you and me so that when the time comes for us to cross paths we will be ready for each other. I was made to compliment and honor you. To be your support and you best friend. Someone to keep your secrets and share you pain.

I don't know you. But I have loved you my entire life. I am madly in love with you and one day you will be my husband and I will be your wife.

God is crazy faithful... and there is nothing anybody can do about it!
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THIS spoke to me!!!
 
Fine 4s said:
We're in the same city...

CarLiTa
Can I get boy shorts in packs too?!!!! wooooohooooo!!!!!!!
I just hate spending more than $5 on ONE pantY unless it's a super duper sexy lacy number....for a SPECIAL occasion that often goes un-noticed ANYWAYZZZZZZZZZZ......
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I think there are boyshorts. Not in packs, lol, but you will find plenty cute ones. Natick Collection has a store.
 
Talked but didn't "talk." Tomorrow, tomorrow!

Or not. I feel like I come across as insecure soo I'm just going to let it go. I need to stop thinking and just enjoy myself, yeesh!
 
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Booked my flight for Florida, the plan is to kiss some men, have some fun and relax. I'm Finally taking responsibility for my own happiness.

Packing dresses, and bathing suits....
 
Softerlove said:
Booked my flight for Florida, the plan is to kiss some men, have some fun and relax. I'm Finally taking responsibility for my own happiness.

Packing dresses, and bathing suits....
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Softerlove- Enjoy!! I have done that almost every single time i'm in Miami and have made some lasting friendships with a few guys (some kissed some not lol):yep:
 
*We talked about weddings & honeymoons last night :drunk:
*I stated when i'm engaged I would like to abstain from intercourse atleast 3mths-1yr prior to the wedding date:look:
*You asked why and I answered I want my wedding night to be as special as it can be :blush:
*You liked the idea and ACTUALLY AGREED TO THIS :lick:
 
Anyone with advice on how to plan for divorce and a new baby at the same time, please PM me! Google isn't much help at all, ugh!
 
Something is changing with us. I can see he's getting deeper. Could it be because of my new 'balanced' life? Or time elapsing? I haven't heard those magical words yet but if THIS is a prelude, I will wait...patiently.
 
I don't know if it's just me but I get irritated when a guy constantly asks i miss him. Ugh!

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
bahamababe242 said:
Anyone with advice on how to plan for divorce and a new baby at the same time, please PM me! Google isn't much help at all, ugh!
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Hopefully, you have the support of family members (his in laws included if they are willing) and close friends; rely on them if at all possible. Their support will go far since you will have a new baby. And as someone else stated...prayer. I'm not sure if you're a Believer, but prayer is powerful.
 
tinkat said:
I don't know if it's just me but I get irritated when a guy constantly asks i miss him. Ugh!

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
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Not you. That's just weird.
 
tinkat said:
I don't know if it's just me but I get irritated when a guy constantly asks i miss him. Ugh!

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
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it's not just you. it's very annoying. my insecure ex used to ask me that almost every day.:perplexed
 
Oasis said:
it's not just you. it's very annoying. my insecure ex used to ask me that almost every day.:perplexed
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Yep that's what it makes me feel like. Insecurity to the max.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
I hate this so much. I'm on the verge of tears every minute that my mind isn't occupied with other things. I'm starting to realize just how pitiful my life really is. No man, no prospects, no children, no friends and a job I hate and put just enough energy into to not get fired. I spent Saturday-Monday in my bed. Came home from work yesterday and was in my bed at 7:00. Nothing is going right and I feel so powerless and so alone.

I've been down before, but never like this. :nono:
 
MzLady78 said:
I hate this so much. I'm on the verge of tears every minute that my mind isn't occupied with other things. I'm starting to realize just how pitiful my life really is. No man, no prospects, no children, no friends and a job I hate and put just enough energy into to not get fired. I spent Saturday-Monday in my bed. Came home from work yesterday and was in my bed at 7:00. Nothing is going right and I feel so powerless and so alone.

I've been down before, but never like this. :nono:
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You have friends MzLady, come talk to us anytime :kiss: I understand how you feel, but you have the power to make changes and get on the track you want to be on. You have a full life ahead of you.
 
OT: I found the engagement/wedding band my Gma gave to me to give to my future spouse. Now I'm determined to use it :look:
 
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