2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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Fine 4s said:
Was told my grandma panties ain't cutting it. I buy the Hanes panties in a pack lol dontjudgeme.
I need some boy shorts ladies! Where to find?
Is this a fashion question? Lol
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Victoria secret has the cutest ones. You can get some at Walmart even, just pick a pack with cute patterns. Ross too...you can get them anywhere tbh...

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
Gilly Hicks, if they are in your area. It has a hm... What's that store called... Abercrombie & Fitch look to it, but in there they only sell night wear, loungewear and cute undies. They sometimes have sales where panties are $1.97!! Lace and 100% cotton. Love them. I rack up whenever I go. You can check out the selection online.
 
Went to EFT therapy session today to cure my moderate fear of big dogs.

Haven't told him about this -_- Hopefully when I finally meet his big, ugly dog in a few weeks all will go fine and I can start staying at his as long as the allergies dont kick in. She seems quite sweet, if I make an effort he'll love me for it.

I feel like I'm meeting his daughter, or something. :confused:
 
Once upon a time I would have let it go down like that. I would have made it convenient for you to grab and go. Nope. I put care into making you something from scratch, you are going to do it right. Period.
 
Sprint online picture mail is ending today..had to go in and save all my pics to my pc..i have been dreading this day for awhile now...coming across countless pics of me and the ex-SO..hard to believe its been 2 years since we were together..*deep sigh*

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I really really like this man. He came over last night when I got back from running my marathon. Brought wine, rubbed my feet and wasn't fazed at all when I fell asleep and farted on his leg! I think he's a keeper! :lol:
 
There was very loud coloring going on in my apartment tonight, at this early hour, and it annoys the heck out of me. I don't wanna hear none of that!!! Not because I am celibate either:look: Dammit.
 
SO and I had a heart to heart for hours over the weekend and I really think it enlivened the relationship. Having someone so into you and desiring you so much can make you feel great.
 
CarLiTa said:
There was very loud coloring going on in my apartment tonight, at this early hour, and it annoys the heck out of me. I don't wanna hear none of that!!! Not because I am celibate either:look: Dammit.
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:lachen::lachen: Where dem earplugs at girly? :lachen:

He did a split today. He had to be back at work in 8 hours. He called me from work to say thanks for a really tasty lunch. I made crockpot ribs, steamed green beans, black eyed peas, rice and biscuits.

We have plans to do lunch with my cousins tomorrow/Tuesday. They live 45 minutes away so I hope he is still up to it because I am looking forward to that meal.:lick:

He keeps bringing up his friends comments from the visit. I told him your friend is missing the newest after 20 years:spinning:. He needs to shut up or tell his wife what he needs and/or missing. :lachen:
 
ChasingBliss said:
Fh and I have been such a team so far, I love how we do. I see that we are going to get very far with our goals and desires, individually and together.

As for me, I have finally learned to just let a man, be a man. I dont have to control everything. Part of that control was a lack of trust... My mother raised me to be independent and basically expect everyone (men in particular) to fail you. I know that she didnt intend to make me distrustful, she was just trying to teach me to depend on myself and protect myself. My father was no help. Put it like this, his famous saying was straight out of the Bible, "...the arm of flesh will fail you" I could go on and on about these two and their protective measures.
Now that I am getting married, I had to work hard to undo all that programming. It's going well. Thank God.
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ChasingBliss All of this! Yes...we are in agreement mam.
 
LaBelleLL said:
I'm confused. And nervous. We are so different. I wonder if this will be a problem later. Since we are just dating and it's not serious yet, I figure it's ok to go along with things. I don't think I'm wasting time. Le sigh. @Theo, your post spoke to me dear.

I know this is very forward thinking since its the early stages but I think it's important to think about what is possible.

I don't know why I feel like I must, 100% be with someone who is haitian or someone from a cultural background very similar to mine. I feel like it will be easier and that my future family will be better off. I think. Why am I open to limiting myself like this??? I had no idea I had these sort of reservations.
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LaBelleLL Never apologize for knowing who you are and what you need in your life. When it fits it fits...and won't have to feel forced. Haitian it is the Haitian it will be. :yep:

I tried dating outside my known preference...and only succeeded in realizing it was a recipe for settling. It works for some (maybe then again maybe not) but it definitely did not work for me.
 
I don't know you. I don't know where you are or what you are doing. But I stand convicted that you are out there. That God is working on you and me so that when the time comes for us to cross paths we will be ready for each other. I was made to compliment and honor you. To be your support and you best friend. Someone to keep your secrets and share you pain.

I don't know you. But I have loved you my entire life. I am madly in love with you and one day you will be my husband and I will be your wife.

God is crazy faithful... and there is nothing anybody can do about it!
 
I am about to get my grown woman on, put my big girl panties on and apologize for my role in all of this.

I am not looking for a apology back nor do I care if you still love me but what I will do is apology and leave a line of communication open so (if you choose) you can have access to your children.

Our divorce was brutal but I am ready to forgive and forget. Can't believe I just type that, can't believe I feel this way (thought I would never forgive you).

The irony of all this. I started reading "Write It Down Make It Happen" and wrote all the traits I want in a man and my ex-husband pops back up.:lol:
 
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damn i like this dude alot but damn who waits a whole year before making it official.....i'm giving him 6mths then i'm moving on...I can compromise but I will not settle

Told my extended family about you and thats something I dont do often but we look good together so I want you even more in my life:lick:

::starts singing:: I may be young but i'm ready to give you all my loooove:look:
 
I wish I could let you all the way in the door but I can't. I like you so much but it has been so long since I have dated. Taking it slow to guard my ever battered heart. Hope you understand.
 
:grouphug: ElizaBlue.

Dang I want fried chicken and some greens now. I don't think they serve that where we are suppose to be going for lunch. I don't fry in house that often due to the after smell. I cannot wait to see how my new and improved life will be. tick tick tock goes the clock......
 
stephluv said:
damn i like this dude alot but damn who waits a whole year before making it official.....i'm giving him 6mths then i'm moving on...I can compromise but I will not settle

Told my extended family about you and thats something I dont do often but we look good together so I want you even more in my life:lick:

::starts singing:: I may be young but i'm ready to give you all my loooove:look:
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Someone who doesn't want to make it official. Unless the ride is enjoyable he may waste the next 6 months.
 
firecracker said:
:lachen::lachen: Where dem earplugs at girly? :lachen:
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No, seriously... we could hear the sounds from down the hallway. This is the renegade roommate that I'm sure I've talked about on this forum before.
Me and another roommate were in the kitchen chatting, and we both went like:eek:, WTH?! we even turned up some music. :nono: I don't know what got into her and that boy. I better not see him on my commute. I'll be giving him the ill side-eye:lol:
 
CarLiTa said:
No, seriously... we could hear the sounds from down the hallway. This is the renegade roommate that I'm sure I've talked about on this forum before.
Me and another roommate were in the kitchen chatting, and we both went like:eek:, WTH?! we even turned up some music. :nono: I don't know what got into her and that boy. I better not see him on my commute. I'll be giving him the ill side-eye:lol:
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I remember in undergrad when I had a roommate that was always loud. She sounded like porn...I got do tired of them I knocked on their door and said be quiet. I left a note also saying how loud they were bc of course they got louder. Had no problems after that incident.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
On another note, the Inventor seems to think so highly of me, and I'm really flattered :) Granted, I'm like eh, don't think he has enough information to make such a positive conclusion, but it warms my heart regardless lol.
Turns out he'd been trying to find ways to be around me for a while before he asked me out. Like, he'd asked my (good) roommate's ex if the two of them could drive to my apartment. When the roommate's ex asked why, he said so he could see me:blush: He didn't even have my phone number at the time.

Anyway, I told him that it is too early to travel together. He says he would have been driving there with other people, so we are sorting that out. If it IS a group activity, I'd be down to go and invite a friend.

ETA: Okay, no trip. He kept stressing that I should only do what I feel comfortable doing-- and I appreciate that. Not that I would do otherwise, daggone it.
Might go on a little trip with colleagues that weekend, actually. That was my initial plan for the wknd. Hope it happens.
 
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tinkat said:
I remember in undergrad when I had a roommate that was always loud. She sounded like porn...I got do tired of them I knocked on their door and said be quiet. I left a note also saying how loud they were bc of course they got louder. Had no problems after that incident.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
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Hm, I don't know what we will do about last night. I think in general, everyone tends to be discreet, so I don't know what the heck was going on yesterday. This is the first time in the year and a half that I've lived here that I've heard anything at all. Maybe we'll let it go... Ugh. I don't wanna have to have that conversation with anyone.
 
CarLiTa said:
No, seriously... we could hear the sounds from down the hallway. This is the renegade roommate that I'm sure I've talked about on this forum before.
Me and another roommate were in the kitchen chatting, and we both went like:eek:, WTH?! we even turned up some music. :nono: I don't know what got into her and that boy. I better not see him on my commute. I'll be giving him the ill side-eye:lol:
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werent you going out with that guy for awhile? was that the same guy who suddenly started acting all sullen and lovesick when you told him you thought you should just be friends?
 
meesch said:
werent you going out with that guy for awhile? was that the same guy who suddenly started acting all sullen and lovesick when you told him you thought you should just be friends?
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:lachen: what? nooo... you must have meant to quote my other post, meesch.

And no, I've managed not to run into that individual in almost a year now.
 
meesch said:
i must be thinking of someone else bc it was definitely much more recent than that lol
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Ohhh, the Togolese. He still chats me up sometimes. But no, not dating him. This is someone new.
 
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