Hrm.
I think that of course, you should use a basic filter - clean, intelligent, etc, etc - to avoid getting into situations with no possible future hope - either one on one, or via networking. However, once all that is out of the way - why not? I'm all about expanding the range of your in's/connections/network/phonebook.
Yeah, he might turn out to be not your type, but his coworker/brother/linebrother/cousin/sisters boyfriends brother might be very much your type.
thats true....and thats another reason I follow my feeling.....
Met a guy on myspace a few years ago....I very rarely pay attention to all the guys online who are asking to get to know me, but this one particular guy seemed to catch my attention...i went to his page nothing remotely about how he looked, wrote about or anything was of interest to me...yet I still communicated with him....gave him my number...he came to LA and we hung out for the weekend and I was really like....I;m not feeling this dude on any levels and you would think communication would cease...but it didn't...when he would call I would talk to him, brief friendly convos....one day he calls me and tells me he is in Vegas and I should drive out there to see him....I'm in the mall with my best friend and I'm like to her...no..why in the world would I drop everything I'm doing and drive out to vegas to hang out with a guy I'm not really interested in, why would he think I even want to come see him yada yada ya.....but i get a sudden urge to do just that.....its about 5 pm and I say to my best friend...
Lets drive to Vegas
she's like what..are you serious..I'm like yea....so we go home pack a few things and hit the road...on the way there I call and tell him I changed my mind and that I will come out there with my girl..and he says...thats cool...I'm out here with a couple friends so your girl can meet one of them...he is with that friend and the friend asks to speak to me but I give the phone to my homegirl and they briefly talk and we make plans to meet up with them later....
long story short...we get out there really late...lolligag at my aunts house for awhile and I finally go meet up with the guy around midnite or later at one of the casinos....he had a friend with him but it wasn't the guy we talked to earlier and at this point I'm like what am I doing here..they asking us if we want to hang out or go eat or something and she's not feeling his friend...im not feeling him...this encounter lasts no more than about 30 mins before we leave and go back to my aunts house and then we get up and leave the next morning...
now...I'm really confused about why I made that 4 hour drive out there, only stayed a few hours, only went to a certain place for about 30 mins to meet up with a guy who since I met him I had no real interest in but I just kept goin with gut feelings...
that same day I start getting calls from a number I don't know so i don't answer it but the person keeps callin all day so finally i answer it and it turns out to be the original friend my girl was supposed to meet but who was talking to some other girl the night we came because we were taking too long to come up to the casino, but he had seen us even though we didnt see him and he instantly felt an attraction to me and found a way to get my number from the other dude...
we talked on the phone everyday for about a week...he flew me out to chicago the next week originally for three days, turned into a week...went home a few days and went back and spent the rest of the summer with him....started a relationship
one of my greatest love experiences