Would you...

Would you date a drug dealer?

  • yes

    Votes: 2 2.8%

  • no

    Votes: 70 97.2%
  • Total voters
    72
  • Poll closed .
naturaltobe said:
Hmmm. Having my life in danger from other drug dealers or drug addicts with no money. Being watched by the police on a regular and probably being searched and having my house raided. Prison. Embarrasing my entire family & all of my friends. Losing my license to practice law. Being someone's bed buddy. No thanks. I'd rather be single than to date a drug dealer.

As for recreational drugs, when I was still dating I avoided cig smokers so I could not deal with a recreational drug user.
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Read that good and well, Ashes. I should smack you for even asking that question:hardslap:
 
ashessehsa said:
When I met him back in '06 he was a dealer..we lost contact until late '08, and he'd stopped selling/smoking and went to college. I was proud of him, and now he's saying he had to start again to pay for school...It's just like being a stripper (except you can go to jail for a LONG time lmao). It makes me wonder if he ever stopped in the first place.
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Maybe someone has already stated this (didn't read everyone's responses) BUT, being a pharmaceutical pusher is not the only way to pay for college-it's just the illegal way to pay for college. :look:

It's just like being a stripper? How? Is it illegal to strip now if you're an adult? I didn't know that. :look:
 
deltadreamland said:
Maybe someone has already stated this (didn't read everyone's responses) BUT, being a pharmaceutical pusher is not the only way to pay for college-it's just the illegal way to pay for college. :look:

It's just like being a stripper? How? Is it illegal to strip now if you're an adult? I didn't know that. :look:
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Same with the ole' excuse of selling drugs to feed your family.

Miss me with that...
 
I would not date a seller. I dabble in recreational use, so I don't have an issue with it. Just as long as it's not all the dang time.

ETA: I'm talking strictly herbs of course.
 
But to answer the question...before my son and my degrees, no and no. Now that I'm a mother and a professional...NO and NO.:nono:
 
Black Ambrosia said:
One of my clients did 14 months in prison because she was dating a drug dealer. She is still on probation. Its the same story... He had a car in her name (for insurance purposes or something like that). They found drugs in the car and wanted her to say that the drugs were his. He let other people drive the car so she really didn't know who they belonged to but she knew what he was doing... Anyway, just say NO. Its not worth it.
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And thats exactly why I wouldn't. I'm not risking my life and willing to be put in jail over some dude.

I just cant deal with that.
 
brownelovely said:
I have dated some in the past but I'm long gone from that phase in my life. It's definitely not worth it.
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In the past I did. I didn't know that's what was up intially. Once I found out I was not comfortable with his decision at all:nono:. That was one of the reasons we did not stay together:ohwell:. We were much younger then. He does not do anything like that now. At this point in life there is no way I would be involved in that for all of the reasons the ladies have listed here plus as a born again believer... I have no business romantically or platonically involved with a drug dealer. I know some (from the hood). I speak and KIM.
 
Never dated a dealer. Why? Because I like my stuff, as in, all the gifts, clothes, jewelry that my man buys for me. I want it. When you date a hustler, you can be raided at any time, and, like I said, I like my stuff. I work hard for the gifts I receive ;), and I'll be damned if I'ma go into it knowing full well that I won't get to keep my parting gifts.
 
As a teenager I toyed with the idea. As an adult...I know better...Hell no. Aside from all the legal risks...I need someone with stability. And I think the mentality most dealers have is whack! In most cases, we have very little in common.
 
ashessehsa said:
When I met him back in '06 he was a dealer..we lost contact until late '08, and he'd stopped selling/smoking and went to college. I was proud of him, and now he's saying he had to start again to pay for school...It's just like being a stripper (except you can go to jail for a LONG time lmao). It makes me wonder if he ever stopped in the first place.
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IMFOCSD said:
I have dated someone who sold drugs. People make mistakes & when people are down on their luck as far as finding a job...they do what they gotta do 2 survive (strippers, drug dealers, etc). He relocated 2 another State once he was tired & realized that the job markets are better in other places. He has 2 jobs now, 1 making $11 hrly & the other $14 hrly salary pay (80 hrs a week). He is a good person who had 2 do what he had 2 do 2 feed his fam. I dont condone selling drugs but im not gonna judge a person because of it either. When a person realizes there is more to life & wants more out of life they will get things together for the good.
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i realize we all gotta do what we gotta do.. but we need to do it within the legal means.. I need someone who already knows that there is more to life than the " dope game"..

we all can say stripping is dirty, filthy, what have you; but it is still a step up from dealing cuz its legal.. and i refuse to deal with men who flirt with the law..
 
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Using is fine, as long as they aren't an addict. Dealing? No way, because if they go down it's likely I'll go down with them.
 
hmmm... street pharmacist and corner hustlers were for the round the way girls... I dated chemists/major suppliers :perplexed... a long... long... long.. time ago!

Again.. did I mention that it was a long time ago.


I wouldn't do it again tho....

I also have an inlaw who dated one to.. was caught in the wrong place at the wrong time.... their car was shot up... he died.. she's disabled!:nono:
 
Definitely not selling. No,no,no. Recreational use, I would love to say no,no,no as well, but I have given passes to those who dabble in marijuana. I don't support it or like it, but depending upon other circumstances, maybe. Coke or anything else, haylz no.
 
when i was younger all i wanted was a dope boy! they had all the $$$ & the hottest cars & best clothes so of course young dumb me was attracted 2 it:rolleyes: i wouldn't even date someone who wasnt a "thug". yes i know its silly & stupid forgive me.

i stopped when this guy i was dating showed up @ my doorstep one day & told me he was goin away for 8 months:look::blush::ohwell: for a drug/gun-related crime. i was so hurt/shocked/depressed about this that i decided i didnt wanna date nebody who could be taken away from me any minute like that:nono:
 
ashessehsa said:
Hypothetically speaking, of course...Would you date someone if you knew the person was involved in selling street pharmaceuticals? Or would you date someone who dabbled in recreational drug use?
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Neither! I'm not putting my children or my life in harms way period.
 
:censored: NO! I've always valued my life and my family too much to deal with anyone who's in the drug world like that.
 
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