Well, it's been a while since I've actually went to a hair stylist, but I can remember back in the early 90's when I went to a hair stylist in my area to get my hair relaxed.
From the moment I got there, the stylist put her hands in my hair and said that I had fine hair and I should try putting my hair in a wrap style to flatter my face. I was ok with that so I went into the chair and told her I had a sensitive scalp so put the mildest relaxer on my hair...especially since my hair was fine as well. She said ok and started putting the relaxer on my hair and pulling it all the way through to the ends (I had previously done a relaxer so only the NG was supposed to get coated).
The next thing you know, my scalp was burning like crazy! I told her that I was burning and my head was starting to hurt and she told me to LEAVE IT ON FOR A FEW MORE MINUTES, that if I wanted a bone straight wrap, that it had to stay on to penetrate the hair!! I was young at the time, so I did what she told me to and finally after what seemed like hours she washed the relaxer out. My head felt better, but my scalp was already covered in sores
I stated tearing up and the hair stylist told me that they would heal up and it was natural for someone to get a few burns because a wrap requires the hair to be so straight. She continued with setting my hair with the wrapping lotion, which had protien and fillers in it to make my hair look like it had more volume and set me under the dryer for about an hour . After it dried, she brushed it out vigorously with the comb, bumped the ends and put hairspray on to finish, which burned tremendously since I now had open sores on my scalp.
After she was done, my hair looked like a wig because it was soo shiny and straight! After a couple of days when I got up the nerve to comb my hair, my worst nightmare had come true - clumps of hair was coming out when I combed and my hair was so fine that you could see my scalp! I cried probably for an entire day and from that day on, I vowed to never go back to a stylist again until I knew how to take care of my own hair and could make sure that I would never go through an experience like that again.