Re: Weight. I just moved to the DMV area and many of my coworkers are married to non black men (this is totally new to me coming from the deep south, I pretty much never see this at home, like ever). None of these women are obese but they are definitely no where near slim at all.
Random chatting: This kind of makes sense, I've had random yt men chat me up, but when they don't make the move to try to take it a step further, I just assume they were not interested and were just being friendly. Altho during the conversation, I had this feeling that they were, so it was always kind of confusing. Just this wknd, I was with a hiking group and some of the white men were chatting me up and I couldn't tell if they were flirting or just being friendly. they did always mention that they could tell I work out.
Hobbies: my family is always teasing me saying some of my interests are "white", ie. hiking, camping, boating, yoga, etc. The only thing I cannot get down with is the music, I'm funk, r&b, neo-soul, hip hop all day long.
I'm open to IR dating bc I'm open to dating whoever I have an amazing connection with and I think its silly to rule out someone bc of race. However, I do still think I will end up with a black man. Interesting thread.