FelaShrine
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People can control squirting?like you make a conscious choice whether to or not?
(I'm sorry. Can we say squirting? Lol)
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SheenaVee
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I've squirted only twice in my life. Once during sex and the other during orgasm from masturbating with a vibrator. I couldn't control it either time. In fact, I didn't really know it was gonna happen either time. I thought I was just gonna orgasm as normal and then this stream squirted out. And I agree with Cara. It was a clear liquid with no smell. Like water.
moneychaser
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I can control it and it's definitely not pee lol. I control it by "holding" it in and letting the sensation build up so the O is more intense.
I never had the need for kj jelly or the sorts like some of my girlfriends that's one benefit I guess. One major issue I have is it makes me very dehydrated.
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aviddiva77
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if I don't want to do it I wont "bear down" so to speak in self coloring sessions. And it's not pee though it comes out of the urethra (trust I've gone pee before sessions and when that "i gotta go pee" feeling comes I've gone to the bathroom only for nothing to happen not even when I push). It's made by a gland some scientists have said is the female prostate that empties into the urethra when agitated/stimulated. One way to agitate it is through g-spot stimuation. I guess my kegals are able to agitate it since it only happens with clitoral stimulation.
aviddiva77
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YES! Have to be hydrared before doing so.
I once self colored high and I thought I had lost half my body weight. I was dizzy as hell afterwards.
BEAUTYU2U
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Taleah2009
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Im late, but well damn... Color me jealous. I am 30 and still waiting for for the V climax.
Oasis
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for some reason or another we havent colored for almost 2 weeks.
last night it hurt like crazy and this isn't the only time it's happened. if i go for more than a week without sex it becomes painful when i finally have it. does this happen to anyone else?
it's different from virginity pain. it's almost like my V forgets it has the ability to stretch and self lubricate.
last night it hurt like crazy and this isn't the only time it's happened. if i go for more than a week without sex it becomes painful when i finally have it. does this happen to anyone else?it's different from virginity pain. it's almost like my V forgets it has the ability to stretch and self lubricate.
faithVA
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[USER=36777 said:Oasis[/USER];20857697]for some reason or another we havent colored for almost 2 weeks.
it's different from virginity pain. it's almost like my V forgets it has the ability to stretch and self lubricate.
You may want to speak to your gyn about it. You may be having spasms or have dyspareunia. It may be as simple as using dilators to stretch and help relax the muscle. Be careful just pushing through the pain and making it worse.
gabulldawg
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Squirting just randomly happened one day for me and I've done it ever since. After that I did some research.
I remember my ex getting really excited about it and telling me that he had only seen it in porn. I was never a big porn watcher so I looked it up and was intrigued. I think either you are a squirter or you're not. I know from my experience that it's definitely not urine, although I'm sure some women do perpetrate. I think a big telltale hint is how strong the stream is. 
Squirting is very forceful while urine is usually more calm (if that makes sense 
). I usually empty my bladder before sex and can also empty after. Also I've learned that if I do have to pee right after squirting it's hard for it to come out. It's like my bladder gets closed off or something. It's hard to explain unless you've felt it. It's also not yellow and doesn't have an odor. It definitely gets messy, but I don't mind it and DH loves it. 
I have never met a man who didn't love it or had a complaint about it. I am a proud squirter 
giggle and definitely think it's brag worthy. I get why someone would want to "learn" although I'm not sure it's something that can be learned. The thing that made it happen for me was to relax. I remember at first I would feel the buildup but was scared to relax because I thought that it was pee and would stop myself from letting go (if that makes sense). That's the only thing I can control about the process.
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for some reason or another we havent colored for almost 2 weeks.
it's different from virginity pain. it's almost like my V forgets it has the ability to stretch and self lubricate.
Yes.
Although Its more like 3 weeks for me ( which has only happened a few times thankfully lol). I tend to feel a bit apprehensive and then I am tense even without realising.
If my brain aint relaxed then my V aint either lol.
Y'all making me feel like a prude.
I decided to throw caution to the wind and be more adventurous
I mowed my garden clean. No grass. I then showed DH every nook and cranny. It was the first time he saw it and we have been married 14 years
He was overcome with emotions and said it was one of the most beautiful thing he had ever seen. I asked him if he had knocked his head and sustained a concussion prior to coming home
I decided to throw caution to the wind and be more adventurous
I mowed my garden clean. No grass. I then showed DH every nook and cranny. It was the first time he saw it and we have been married 14 years
He was overcome with emotions and said it was one of the most beautiful thing he had ever seen. I asked him if he had knocked his head and sustained a concussion prior to coming home
Y'all making me feel like a prude.
I decided to throw caution to the wind and be more adventurous
I mowed my garden clean. No grass. I then showed DH every nook and cranny. It was the first time he saw it and we have been married 14 years
He was overcome with emotions and said it was one of the most beautiful thing he had ever seen. I asked him if he had knocked his head and sustained a concussion prior to coming home
His reaction was priceless.
I've been wanting to do the same for a while. I'm going to book myself in for a complete wax soon. Did you wax or shave?
Shave. I am not into all that pain.
ElizaBlue
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I'd been clean shaved for years...years...then my current situation said to stop that...and I did.
I'm fully "grown" now...well I still shave my legs but I had laser hair removal on my pits a while ago.
Hey he's the one who has to plow down through it all...he loves it tho...lol.
I'm fully "grown" now...well I still shave my legs but I had laser hair removal on my pits a while ago.
Hey he's the one who has to plow down through it all...he loves it tho...lol.
tru4reele
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I do. I just started to do it a little while ago after learning that I was holding back. Every time I orgasm I feel like I need to pee. Even if I just come off the toilet. So I used to always clench up and stop the person from doing what they were doing thinking I was going to pee. So one day I let it go and I soaked the bed majorly. My hubby loves it. It comes out of a different hole than pee and it does not have a urine scent. You have to put a towel down or it gets messy. I think it's making my hubby beard grow.
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idied.....
qchelle
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barbiesocialite
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Now I wish I could have more sex. But I have rules and boundaries for single sex.
I'm far from a prude. my head game is mean but unless we're getting married I'm not puttin out on a regular basis for a ninja to get used to it to the point of expectation. 2 of my exes called me an indian giver and accused me of manipulating them with pussy.
Because the way I see it, if we're f*ckin like rabbits so much that I learn to start squirting gotdammit it's time for us to get married. :lachen"
But this thread right here......this thread *almost* makes me want to get married so I can do what I really want to do. stuff I would never ever post in this thread and no none else in has mentioned it yet.
In the meantime I'm in deep reflection reading these posts......
I'm far from a prude. my head game is mean but unless we're getting married I'm not puttin out on a regular basis for a ninja to get used to it to the point of expectation. 2 of my exes called me an indian giver and accused me of manipulating them with pussy.
Because the way I see it, if we're f*ckin like rabbits so much that I learn to start squirting gotdammit it's time for us to get married. :lachen"But this thread right here......this thread *almost* makes me want to get married so I can do what I really want to do. stuff I would never ever post in this thread and no none else in has mentioned it yet.
In the meantime I'm in deep reflection reading these posts......
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But this thread right here......this thread *almost* makes me want to get married so I can do what I really want to do. stuff I would never ever post in this thread and no none else in has mentioned it yet.
I'm waiting on certain thangs to be mentioned also
barbiesocialite
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I'm waiting on certain thangs to be mentioned also
you and I....
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this thread is going to get it's own special subscription folder.
CaraWalker
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chocolate starfish?
tru4reele
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Now I wish I could have more sex. But I have rules and boundaries for single sex. I'm far from a prude. my head game is mean but unless we're getting married I'm not puttin out on a regular basis for a ninja to get used to it to the point of expectation. 2 of my exes called me an indian giver and accused me of manipulating them with pussy.
What dat mouf do? Lol
chocolate starfish?
Quit playing, what's the certain thing?
And evidently, you can do the squirting thing solo .... no ring needed.
There's more than one thing.
I love to listen to anything left field even if I'm not into it though. I can't imagine logging in LHCF and someone talking about swinging with their husband, or taboo fantasies for example. I'd love to read that though
barbiesocialite
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just enough for a ninja I'm not married to.
I will not be a stretched out mileaged vagina with a worn out arsehole worthy of a prolapse just busy handing out regular scheduled pussy like it's candy before I get married. lol. no ma'am.
Check back in about 4-6 years and my response will likely be similar to yours. Actually even I'd rather lurk because I'm more of a Nene not a Kandi or Phaedra type if you catch my drift.
I really love this thread. It took me forever to read it because I started blushing after reading the first few posts.
Sex isnt something I discuss very often even though I've been doing it since 14. lol Gotta admit, I've learned a lot and find this thread invaluable and fascinating.....not coming back to report results tho, not now, not in 4-6, not ever.
tru4reele
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just enough for a ninja I'm not married to.
What's that about prolapsed anus? Jesus be a working sphincter.
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