The candid questions regarding relationships thread (for grown folks)

qchelle said:
Neither VO nor CO feels like I have to pee before nor during.

But if I actually did have to pee before, I can't pee right after. One time, I had to pee kinda bad , but I didn't go. Instead, I had fun alone time, cuz I my horniness was greater than my need to pee. Then right after, I got up to pee. And I couldn't! It was painful and scary. I had to pee so bad! I thought my bladder was going to explode with me sitting on the toilet trying my hardest to pee! Lol

That seems pretty normal.
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i was going to mention this but i wasnt sure where it fit in :lol: thats been happening to me since i was a kid. when you try to pee after and it takes a while to start, and then is all janky and going in spurts :rofl: i dont like that feeling :lol:
 
meka72 said:
Lol. I edited my post after I saw that it might be too much for anyone looking at the current/active threads. I think there's an active Christian themed thread.
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Yeah I actually posted about this earlier...but deleted...but I know there were a couple of folks around who probably saw the post...but I just felt it was a bit too not PG and deleted my post.

But ya'll go head and bring it up...lol maybe I will chime in later...if I see it's a topic that can be handled in an adult like manner...lol.
 
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julzinha said:
How can you ladies tell if a man has a large package?
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I just have to see it in the non flaccid state.

I've been wrong before trying to decide by big hands, big feet, or height.

I can tell by their walk if they can lay the pipe right though. JMO.
 
also known as, how make him...

... lose his natural mind
...forget his way back home
...call in from work
...beg for it
...willing to lay down cash for it.

I know nothing of this....
 
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BEAUTYU2U said:
Changed it? Is that a thing that can change? I swear I learn new ish on here every day.
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I once saw a video where a girl was explaining what to do and how she hadn't done it ever before until she found out the correct way through her boo. I'm upset cause I feel like that would make my package complete. I got everything else down...I think
 
frogkisses said:
Do any of yall squirt?
Was anyone not a squirt-er but then changed it and now they squirt?

If that's to much let a sista know ha
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I "taught" myself how to lol. Kegals and relaxation. I wouldn't know regarding partner coloring but self coloring? Once I got ov3r feeling bad for self coloring it flowed (pun intended).
 
aviddiva77 said:
I "taught" myself how to lol. Kegals and relaxation. I wouldn't know regarding partner coloring but self coloring? Once I got ov3r feeling bad for self coloring it flowed (pun intended).
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I don't feel bad about anything and I relax fine :ohwell::perplexed I know I can do this dang! :lachen::lachen:
 
squirting seems to happen on its own, im not sure how that could be taught when its more like a bodily function.
 
intellectualuva said:
This.

I always think some of these folks are just peeing....lol. Squirting isn't all the common...from what I've researched.
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Personally I have no desire to learn. Squirting is ick factor to me. Too messy and visually unappealing for my tastes. Plus, the whole ejaculating female thing creeps me out. Vaginas don't bust nuts. But penises do.

I'm down to try most things at least one but I think I'll pass on this one. I don't get it. What's the point? :spinning: go head do ya thang. As for me, no thanks.The only jetting stream I need is the one I pee with. So while I will always say "ewww. squirting = gross", folks will still enjoy turning their vaginas into waterfountains.--just dont tell me. Damn sure dont have to worry about me askin either. yup judging you. :lol:
 
i actually don't like it that much. it feels alright but i agree its just messy for no reason. and like i said upthread, i avoid doing it during sex if i can. i dont want to pee on a guy's face even though a.) as i said, i think it's somehow not really pee, and b.) they always give me permission to. i can't believe a guy would want me to do that. once it started to happen when i was on top, but i pulled it back and i don't think he noticed. again, since it's not really related to an O (for me) im like whatever... i dont exist sexually just to be some fantasy for the guy. idc if they would be impressed by me doing it.

the only thing i use it for is if we are sexting and sending vids. then i get it, i could see why they like it. but otherwise its not really part of my sexual routine.
 
People can control squirting? :look: like you make a conscious choice whether to or not?

(I'm sorry. Can we say squirting? Lol)
 
:yep: imo its like peeing. same mechanics involved to stop peeing.

edit - i cant control whether it starts to happen, but i can stop it if it does. im not sure what triggers it to start.
 
CaraWalker said:
:yep: imo its like peeing. same mechanics involved to stop peeing.

edit - i cant control whether it starts to happen, but i can stop it if it does. im not sure what triggers it to start.
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I agree.

The research says it can be stopped to an extent. It's definitely NOT pee, but a bit of urine can be in the fluid. I get the allure for some men, though. Even if some of the women are peeing on dudes thinking it's fluid....men don't care about that either if they think you're "squirting" cause some of them don't have a clue either.

Honestly, there are many factors that could impact the ability to differentiate the two.....volume, consistency/texture, other bodily responses and smell....with the latter being the real indicator if you just R. KELLY'D your boo. Lol. In any case, if it feels good do you....but that is a rare trait for a reason and orgasms with or without fluids feel amazing. So go get em how you get em....lol.
 
BEAUTYU2U said:
I think it's about the male ego boost that he's made you O "hard enough" to squirt, no? Other than that, I'm not sure it truly serves a purpose.
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Yeah..this is going pretty much the way I expected it would...brand new internet knowledge...:lachen:

But anyway to you BEAUTYU2U I think yes in some ways it is the man's ego, but for the same reasons a man ejaculating and you being able to see it is pleasurable for a woman...at least I know it is for me. I love love love watching him bust, whenever, wherever on whatever...whether we are together or not...yes I said it.

But for the man I think it's also proof no one is faking it. Not everyone having sex enjoys it....sometimes it's just work. Which is why I do believe on some porn flicks it's definitely being faked with urinating.

There's a big difference between an arcing stream (which face it, if you know biology it has to come from somewhere and only the bladder can assist in that much fluid being held or released) of what is more likely urine vs. gushing which is more of an expulsion of fluid when a female orgasms, and is usually a whitish color and does have some consistency. Hence the name "cream". The latter is what will have him and his taste buds mesmerized.:drunk:

So for those of you ladies who can and do, hats off to you...for those of you who can't, never have and don't want to , hats off to you...but for those who desire to, there's a good chance you can. This thread is not copacetic enough for me to go any further.

PS...I guess I did know something after all.:rolleyes:
 
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for me the difference is the "arc" is clear (not yellow like urine) and smells like sweet water somehow. idk but thats how it is :lol: a regular o has normal gushy discharge, generally clear and the consistency of lube. white discharge is from ovulation, not the o.
 
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