The candid questions regarding relationships thread (for grown folks)

MuziqizLyfe said:
I didn't state it in the thread but up until last week, I had never experienced either. I was just letting others know even if it had never happened before, it is indeed possible cuz I'm living proof :lol:

Position was a variation of from the back, not sure if that did it or what but I plan on doing more research to find out :look:
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:lol::lol: Good for you.
 
Crackers Phinn said:
I was coming back to post those very words. BW's ain't no joke and they never get easier despite what the lying white women on SATC said. I got it all lasered off. I've actually done laser hair removal every place except my scalp. Best money I ever spent.
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crackersPhinn - how did the laser feel down there? I would love to be hair-free forever down there.
 
^^I would like to know this too. I got a Brazilian last week for the second time in my life an I really like being hairless. It's just so painful though. I don't know if I can endure that every month for the rest of my life.
 
I get waxed bc I'm lazy.

Underarms and bikini. My legs are practically hairless with fine sparse hairs that are practically invisible so I've never had to the hassle of shaving them.

Even still, i find hair removal inconvenient and annoying. One of these days I'm going to get electrolysis and be done with it.

I'd rather have some qualified to be all up in my vagina that I'll likely never see again than have to deal with hair removal for the next 50 years.
 
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I've had laser hair removal on my legs, underarms and chin. I don't know if I can do the Brazilian laser. I had a BW once and I wanted to get up and walk out half way through. However, I will say the butt area was the least painful. Actually that area wasn't bad at all.
 
I wouldn't mind getting a wax but I don't want to be totally hairless. I'd want to wax just the lips and butt crevice.
 
ok ok I no this is a judgement free thread, and I'm not judging anybody lol

but who cares about hair on your butt? your butt crack? :lol: are you ladies talking about a lot of hair there? how much hair are we talking?

maybe im just too dark and too hairless to appreciate this conversation. what i look like caring about some dark hairs on my dark butt crack? :lachen:
 
qchelle said:
ok ok I no this is a judgement free thread, and I'm not judging anybody lol but who cares about hair on your butt? your butt crack? :lol: are you ladies talking about a lot of hair there? how much hair are we talking? maybe im just too dark and too hairless to appreciate this conversation. what i look like caring about some dark hairs on my dark butt crack? :lachen:
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dark butts. i think were all dark butts no matter how light skinnededed we are :lol: so it is a little more noticeable for me.

i am just hoping my butt checks are big enough that you have to do some work to see the crack :lol: ion know tho :lol:

was once joking with my ex about him licking my butthole :rofl: i should find the journal post i wrote about that it was hilarious :rofl: anyway, he said sometimes he looked at my butthole when he was :lick: and could tell me what it looked like if i wanted to know :lol: i declined.
 
qchelle said:
ok ok I no this is a judgement free thread, and I'm not judging anybody lol

but who cares about hair on your butt? your butt crack? :lol: are you ladies talking about a lot of hair there? how much hair are we talking?

maybe im just too dark and too hairless to appreciate this conversation. what i look like caring about some dark hairs on my dark butt crack? :lachen:
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IDK. I prefer to be hairless down there. If I don't get the butt I feel like the process is incomplete.
 
Nyssa28 said:
crackersPhinn - how did the laser feel down there? I would love to be hair-free forever down there.
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they gave me a numbing cream to put on. Didn't put kitty to sleep, just drowsy lol. There is ice cold air blowing on the area as the laser goes over it. It's nowhere near the pain of waxing, but I did feel an occasional uncomfortable zap.
 
qchelle said:
ok ok I no this is a judgement free thread, and I'm not judging anybody lol but who cares about hair on your butt? your butt crack? :lol: are you ladies talking about a lot of hair there? how much hair are we talking? maybe im just too dark and too hairless to appreciate this conversation. what i look like caring about some dark hairs on my dark butt crack? :lachen:
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I put it on the same level as fighting against black elbows. It doesn't matter, there is no health risk and nobody cares, but I want my elbows the same color as the rest of my arm.
 
^^^interesting *tries to look at elbows* yup, they're darker than the rest of my arm alright lol.

so can anyone actually feel the hair in their butt crack? No, right? lol
 
so like they actually wax between your butt crack???????? :rofl: that has got to be the most weird looking scene ever! :lol: I would like to see this done to somebody :lachen:
 
qchelle said:
^^^interesting *tries to look at elbows* yup, they're darker than the rest of my arm alright lol.

so can anyone actually feel the hair in their butt crack? No, right? lol
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I can but I'm hairier than most not like hirsutism level though.
 
qchelle said:
^^^interesting *tries to look at elbows* yup, they're darker than the rest of my arm alright lol. so can anyone actually feel the hair in their butt crack? No, right? lol
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Now see, now you're making me share my a-- hair paranoia lol

Unless you are diligent about following the Terrence Howard wiping regimen, it's possible for bits of dry toilet paper along with 'residue' to catch on bootyhole hair. That's what I saw in an amateur porn scene that had me clutching my pearls.

Now I know that all the ladies in unicorn land are immaculate with their hygiene and always freshly showered before they get it in, but some of us mere mortals try to do better when we know better.
 
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tmi but dh lovessss lovessss face sitting...anyhooooo

we've been married for yrssss and i still am uber about my hygiene in that area...:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

but the wet wipes and we also have a kohler bidet toilet so it keeps me good...lmaoooo

its just one of those areas you wanna make sure is great especially if your partner loves spending time in that area...:lol::look:

because one bad experience in that area can change everythanggggggggg:blush::lol:



Crackers Phinn said:
Now see, now you're making me share my a-- hair paranoia lol

Unless you are diligent about following the Terrence Howard wiping regimen, it's possible for bits of dry toilet paper along with 'residue' to catch on bootyhole hair. That's what I saw in an amateur porn scene that had me clutching my pearls.

Now I know that all the ladies in unicorn land are immaculate with their hygiene and always freshly showered before they get it in, but some of us mere mortals try to do better when we know better.
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qchelle said:
so like they actually wax between your butt crack???????? :rofl: that has got to be the most weird looking scene ever! :lol: I would like to see this done to somebody :lachen:
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I get brazilians pretty regularly and prefer the "face down, a** up" method of butt hair removal. But some people prefer to lay on their side and pull the top cheek up and away while bending the knee of the top leg (if that makes sense) or to lay on their stomach and reach back to pull the cheeks apart.
 
Crackers Phinn said:
Now see, now you're making me share my a-- hair paranoia lol

Unless you are diligent about following the Terrence Howard wiping regimen, it's possible for bits of dry toilet paper along with 'residue' to catch on bootyhole hair. That's what I saw in an amateur porn scene that had me clutching my pearls.

Now I know that all the ladies in unicorn land are immaculate with their hygiene and always freshly showered before they get it in, but some of us mere mortals try to do better when we know better.
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once you go baby wipes you never go back.

everyone switch to baby wipes right now. a 2$ pack of huggies'll last you a month or so.
 
BTW - I'm not salty about the questions.

I come from women who swore up and down that men loved women with moustache's cuz it meant they have that good good. Some of them had staches that could give Lamont from Sanford and Son a run for his money.
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So needless to say, I had to look to outside sources to figure out girly type grooming. Some stuff I know I go overboard on, but like the laser hair removal, if I find a way to just not have the problem again, I'll opt for that. Hair removal creams and waxing for life wasn't going to be an option for me.
 
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What about men shaving? Yea or nay?

I thought it was a Culture thing at first as a few of my former SO's were West or East Africans and they all shaved it clean. My DH is not African but he shaves it clean too and sometimes acts as if I'm growing a forest if it gets too abundant...
 
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