Right now with my pregnancy hormones all over the map down there, I'm a bit self conscious about receiving at times. Also close to or right after that time of the month, I don't like to receive. I have to "feel" clean. Don't know if that makes any sense.
having to smush it into his face sounds like a sensitivity issue i could never do that, would be way too much pressure and not feel good.i don't think it's gross, im not insecure about my vagina, ive had someone extremely gifted in that area, i have no sensitivity issues etc. i simply don't like it. hard to believe but true.
Omgosh. You remind me of pregnancy sex! Lawd. And I feel you on both counts post and pre period and pregnancy. Clitoral O's around mid second trimester would set my baby to thrashing in my belly. It was bizarre feeling. She'd make me nauseous flipping against my stomach (the actual organ. Im super short so she didnt have much room). Yea. Now I remember refusing oral sometimes then because she freaked me out. Damn...sexual memory lane....
Omgosh. You remind me of pregnancy sex! Lawd. And I feel you on both counts post and pre period and pregnancy. Clitoral O's around mid second trimester would set my baby to thrashing in my belly. It was bizarre feeling. She'd make me nauseous flipping against my stomach (the actual organ. Im super short so she didnt have much room). Yea. Now I remember refusing oral sometimes then because she freaked me out. Damn...sexual memory lane....
having to smush it into his face sounds like a sensitivity issue i could never do that, would be way too much pressure and not feel good.
oh! speaking of which, i had a thought last night. i was wondering about what my sex life would be like if i hadn't like, grown it to achieve the things that i want to achieve and what would have prevented it or why it wouldn't have happened. and i was wondering, is it because for some the sex isn't "sexy"?
i was trying to figure out how someone could not like oral, or more to the point, not finish from it. and the picture i came up with was someone feeling uncomfortable or disinterested, and who didn't really want it to happen. and that's not sexy. obviously youre not going to finish from something if you think it's not sexy. general you, not trying to tell people how to conduct their sex lives.
i know i wouldnt have ever learned to get what i want out of sex if i didnt change the way i thought about it. like for example youre never going to finish if youre too busy faking and pretending like you did. both just can't happen at the same time, obviously. i was also thinking of this when the subject of buttsex came up briefly its something ive never done because a.) i dont particularly want to b.) i wouldn't do that with a random/regular/not husband c.) i can't see getting what i want out of it. it all just leaves me with the question, are women really getting what they want out of sex?
Are ya'll only getting oral on your back? Diff positions provide a diff experience IMO. No way I'm falling asleep sitting on somebody's face
@ElizaBlue, how do you remain standing?
Oh yes, standing reminds me that I love a strong man that can pick me up.
^^^^ my knees be way to weak lol. I would have done the Holy Ghost fall out lmao
Well...usually I don't, not for long anyway...lol...but during he's sitting against the mirror on my bed (my headboard is a giant mirror...don't judge me) and I stand straddling his face.
Or he's sitting on the floor at the foot of the bed leaning against it and I stand in front of him...or lol...(this is cracking me up) he lies on the bed head hanging off and I straddle his face....or...lol
Except for the last suggestion...,,I think I'm too tall for all of that....I'd have to be squatting
Except for the last suggestion...,,I think I'm too tall for all of that....I'd have to be squatting