CaraWalker
Well-Known Member
i have those sometimes.
Nope, he's begging to do it even more. Says it's even better now that it officially has his last name, lol.Since we're being candid... ... Married ladies, does your DH less as a husband than he did as an SO?
I used to read dcmoms or dccafe moms? or something like that..cant remember the name and i was suprised by the # of women(Im assuming white) that have an 'oral buddy". Supposedly their husbands stop going down time after pregnancy. i guess seeing a baby leave there now hunts their thoughts or something stupid like that so they have a side piece strictly for that.
This is us... Both of us enjoy giving and receiving so neither of us would think to skip it.We had no sexual activity before marriage so I can't compare but during my marriage, oral was just a reg part of sex. Oral was like the main part of foreplay... Giving, receiving and/or 69 were only left out for quickies.
I used to read dcmoms or dccafe moms? or something like that..cant remember the name and i was suprised by the # of women(Im assuming white) that have an 'oral buddy". Supposedly their husbands stop going down time after pregnancy. i guess seeing a baby leave there now hunts their thoughts or something stupid like that so they have a side piece strictly for that.
I used to read dcmoms or dccafe moms? or something like that..cant remember the name and i was suprised by the # of women(Im assuming white) that have an 'oral buddy". Supposedly their husbands stop going down time after pregnancy. i guess seeing a baby leave there now hunts their thoughts or something stupid like that so they have a side piece strictly for that.
im with you. i dont like when they have a nice, steady, rhythmic stroke then they throw that swirl circular movement in there. throws everything off.
does anyone not like oral? yes, i've had it done right and i still could do without i feel so left it when other women rave about it because if i never received again i would be just fine.
does anyone not like oral? yes, i've had it done right and i still could do without i feel so left it when other women rave about it because if i never received again i would be just fine.
I don't dislike it but i don't love either. I don't see the big deal either
does anyone not like oral? yes, i've had it done right and i still could do without i feel so left it when other women rave about it because if i never received again i would be just fine.
really, i sort of think oral is only good when it results in a quick orgasm. oral is kind of awkward and stupid when it goes on forever and you’re no closer to getting off. and i don’t know what the hell guys are thinking or how they manage to complicate this, but all you really need to do is flick your tongue over the clit. all the extra bells and whistles are just, like, completely unneeded. there doesn’t need to be any sucking, any straying from the clitoris (WHY are you licking my urethra?!?!?! please stop!) and definitely no tongue ****ing. so the extent to which oral is my favorite part depends on skill level. also, it is only very sexy in certain circumstances, i think, and pre-sex isn’t really one of them… examples include unexpected oral, oral with panties or shorts still on but pushed to the side, and oral without the expectation of sex.
really, i sort of think oral is only good when it results in a quick orgasm. oral is kind of awkward and stupid when it goes on forever and you’re no closer to getting off. and i don’t know what the hell guys are thinking or how they manage to complicate this, but all you really need to do is flick your tongue over the clit. all the extra bells and whistles are just, like, completely unneeded. there doesn’t need to be any sucking, any straying from the clitoris (WHY are you licking my urethra?!?!?! please stop!) and definitely no tongue ****ing. so the extent to which oral is my favorite part depends on skill level. also, it is only very sexy in certain circumstances, i think, and pre-sex isn’t really one of them… examples include unexpected oral, oral with panties or shorts still on but pushed to the side, and oral without the expectation of sex.
does anyone not like oral? yes, i've had it done right and i still could do without i feel so left it when other women rave about it because if i never received again i would be just fine.
Do you ladies not "go to heaven" from that?
Do you ladies not "go to heaven" from that?
does anyone not like oral? yes, i've had it done right and i still could do without i feel so left it when other women rave about it because if i never received again i would be just fine.
lol what do you mean by "in the hood"?i cant believe this. i can finish from oral in like two minutes. is this an issue "in the hood"? whats going on here?
I've known a few who dont like receiving. Not saying it is the same for any here but for most I know irl it appears to be some deep issue of shame or disgust with their girlie bits. I dont mean general sensitivity issues but from what they say like its gross, etc
Well Idk what to say about this oral situation. I need to process this some more