The candid questions regarding relationships thread (for grown folks)

Oasis said:
but who cares tho? everyone here has a super strong unwavering opinion on everything.:lol: i was a very late bloomer and even though i was physically dying to try sex in college (i dont remember being interested in high school) i had it when i was ready. if i could go back i might change the person:lachen: but i definitely wouldn't change the timing.
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I was over 30
 
There is a YouTube link but I can't seem to post it. Your man 'strokes' you for 15 mins at a time. You can do it for men as well but the goal is not to
 
TayMac said:
No it's not a circle. It's more like a scoop and thrust/long stroke.
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probably just talking about two different things. you sound like youre talking about a kind of digging motion, i think the rest of us are talking about a literal wack swirling hip motion :lol:
 
SheenaVee said:
I think you can tell when someone is a virgin. It's weird but women are actually more innocent and not as wordly when they're virgins. And perhaps also more naive.
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I agree. I know someone who is a 40 year old virgin and she is the same way. the funny thing is she tries to portray herself as more worldly than what she is.
 
I have never been able to make a man go to heaven using my :lick:

I have not done it a lot but when I do my mouth gets tired:look:

What's the secret?
 
Ganjababy said:
I have never been able to make a man go to heaven using my :lick:

I have not done it a lot but when I do my mouth gets tired:look:

What's the secret?
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Use your hands, be enthusiastic (sounds, dirty talk,etc), look them in the eye, touch and caress them, move not only your mouth but your head, swivel side to side, be relentless in your pursuit! Dont switch up what you are doing too quickly before it has an effect. If you get tired, use ur hand or hands (the two hand technique is a favorite ) during the break so that you arent back to square one when you go back to using your mouth. Oh and don't watch porn for tips, they give the worst BJs :nono: just lots of practice is the best teacher.

I'm a swallower... but if your aren't, just move your head out of the way at the last minute but keep using your hand and the uh male juices to finish him completely off, he will usually be asleep within minutes after this so make sure you got yours first :lol:
 
MuziqizLyfe said:
Use your hands, be enthusiastic (sounds, dirty talk,etc), look them in the eye, touch and caress them, move not only your mouth but your head, swivel side to side, be relentless in your pursuit! Dont switch up what you are doing too quickly before it has an effect. If you get tired, use ur hand or hands (the two hand technique is a favorite ) during the break so that you arent back to square one when you go back to using your mouth. Oh and don't watch porn for tips, they give the worst BJs :nono: just lots of practice is the best teacher.

I'm a swallower... but if your aren't, just move your head out of the way at the last minute but keep using your hand and the uh male juices to finish him completely off, he will usually be asleep within minutes after this so make sure you got yours first :lol:
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I have been lurking in this thread but decided to chime in. All of this but also while your mouth is on his member use your tongue here and there. There is a real sensitive part under the head where the shaft connects that feels real good if you run your tongue there while sucking. You can also use your tongue on the pee hole and the head, those areas are also very sensitive but while your mouth is on him. When your mouth gets tired, give it a rest and use your hands to stroke him and gently lick or suck his balls. You have to sell that you are enjoying it that it is not a chore. Lots of sounds, dirty talk, smiles while looking at him, deep throat with no hands.

Make sure you establish where you would like him to finish before it gets to that point because it may be too late. If you don't like male juices when it gets nice and hard hop on it!! :lachen:
 
i 100% would NOT recommend playing with his pee hole/urethra. its actually uncomfortable for them AFAIK.

this is generally my routine: the basic idea is the start slow. you start with the head, say first you might lick, then put just the head in your mouth, then start going down the shaft. you get a nice slow rhythm with that and eventually you use one hand to go up and down. i cant think off the top of my head without actually doing it, but you want it to go in tandem so that your mouth and your hand are in sync. (i cant describe it but it's like riding a bike, when you try it will go naturally). if he is uncircumcised, you always want to make sure you are pulling the hood down.

usually when my mouth gets tired from that, i go back to just the head again and make sure with my hand my thumb is on that big vein on the bottom side. i would also spend some time attempting to put the entire thing in my mouth. i generally cant do that, but guys seem to get a kick out of it if you gag. if i were too tired i would just go up and down with my hand and only play with the head. also when it comes to balls, i would say kind of "rub" them - like lightly rolling your hand over them without really putting a lot of pressure on it, like say if you were rubbing your leg. another thing that seems to work is pulling your lips in so that they are blunt and its going in against your mouth instead of there being an opportunity for him to get scraped by your teeth. from what ive discussed with men, the penis really isn't that sensitive to touch, (although i suppose it would vary by person) so you have to put pressure if you're using your mouth, like the tongue by itself isn't a lot of pressure... although i do use my tongue when its in my mouth, but i think that mainly works because if i'm doing that theres usually a lot of spit to play with.

i think if he's not done, or close to being done, within about 10 minutes, the approach isn't working and you either need to ask him what he wants you to do, or stop. also, i generally think a slower, steadier pace works better than any quick movements.
 
I messed around and found somebody that doesn't "go to heaven" from :lick: He's near 40 and said its only happened a hand full of times. Its the most frustrating thing ever. My best stuff doesn't work. I get close, but no heaven.
 
hairqueenny said:
I have been lurking in this thread but decided to chime in. All of this but also while your mouth is on his member use your tongue here and there. There is a real sensitive part under the head where the shaft connects that feels real good if you run your tongue there while sucking. You can also use your tongue on the pee hole and the head, those areas are also very sensitive but while your mouth is on him. When your mouth gets tired, give it a rest and use your hands to stroke him and gently lick or suck his balls. You have to sell that you are enjoying it that it is not a chore. Lots of sounds, dirty talk, smiles while looking at him, deep throat with no hands.http://www.longhaircareforum.com/newreply.php?do=newreply&p=20892449

Make sure you establish where you would like him to finish before it gets to that point because it may be too late. If you don't like male juices when it gets nice and hard hop on it!! :lachen:
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The roof of your mouth can be used to provide stimulation, no need to focus all the action on your jaws and tongue; relax them :grin: and let it glide along the roof....
 
DarkJoy said:
Uhhh... my exh thpught it was like an ice cream cone after the ring. An ice cream am with crack in it :lachen:

(Pun intended :nono: )
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Ganjababy said:
That would be some women's dream come through lol
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I know, right? :look:

The question comes from a candid conversation I had with a few ladies a while back. Long story short, we were having a general relationship discussion that turned to talk of how sex changes after marriage. Most people felt sex quickly becomes routine with foreplay becoming the first casualty (a few people specifically referenced :lick:). For my part, while there are things that have changed (for the worse) after we got married, that wasn't one of them.
 
MD_Lady said:
Since we're being candid... :look: ... Married ladies, does your DH :lick: less as a husband than he did as an SO?
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Yes much less! He used to live down there and I was always in heaven. It's not as often anymore but when he does get to work it's always worth the wait :yep:
 
I used to read dcmoms or dccafe moms? or something like that..cant remember the name and i was suprised by the # of women(Im assuming white) that have an 'oral buddy". Supposedly their husbands stop going down time after pregnancy. i guess seeing a baby leave there now hunts their thoughts or something stupid like that so they have a side piece strictly for that.
 
Whaaaaaaat?
FelaShrine said:
I used to read dcmoms or dccafe moms? or something like that..cant remember the name and i was suprised by the # of women(Im assuming white) that have an 'oral buddy". Supposedly their husbands stop going down time after pregnancy. i guess seeing a baby leave there now hunts their thoughts or something stupid like that so they have a side piece strictly for that.
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FelaShrine said:
I used to read dcmoms or dccafe moms? or something like that..cant remember the name and i was suprised by the # of women(Im assuming white) that have an 'oral buddy". Supposedly their husbands stop going down time after pregnancy. i guess seeing a baby leave there now hunts their thoughts or something stupid like that so they have a side piece strictly for that.
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*gasp!*

I am sincerely shocked!
 
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