This thread is worth 6.50
It IS FREAKING AWESOME! I cant explain it. Its like explaining an O.
I need to get married again
I said no. It was terrible. In those words. Snatched up my clothes and rolled out.
He called me BEGGING for a second chance. Sent flowers to my house. Cried, y'all. Cried into the phone apologizing.
I am in this thread taking notes! lol. I keep thinking that I may have had an O before but didn't know what it was or I haven't had it before :scratchch:
I read upthread about the holding in pee thing, that I know about, everything else well... I like this thread
I don't lie, but I believe in second chances. I think there is a margin for awkwardness error the first time with someone. Barring ED or unforgiveable wackiness, if I liked the dude enough he'll get a round 2 to see if round 1 was a fluke. But I had to have REALLY liked him.
Again with the super aggressive types, it's been my experience that you cannot tell them anything. And my personal pet peeve are the Scorpios who believe the hype around their sign. No boo boo.
have we talked about what orgasms feel like? they are hard to explain and i imagine would vary person to person. clitoris orgasms vs intercourse orgasms feel different for me. clitoris orgasms feel like really intense goosebumps or shivers. intercourse orgasms have the goosebump element but i feel that sensation come from the depth of my vagina (lol). it builds and builds and then radiates all over my body. i seriously feel like i am out of my mind for about 5 secs then im sleepy and feel pretty lifeless. the french use the phrase "la petite mort" to describe the post orgasmic state. its translation means "little death". that is pretty accurate for me.
oh **** shots fireddd--aint saying nothing but the truth!!!!
if your a male scorp and can't bust it down good and proper--just move far far away into a cave--where sex is not required..no other use for you...
Someone asked upthread about introducing sexual toys... Just break em out. Or leave em out on the dresser. You definitely have to have a man with that's secure though.
With my SO, early on when we started dating, I just whipped out the vibe and he was like I wanna watch you use it and I did
Now I either use them solo... sometimes he's watching or I let him use it on me as an appetizer before the crayon. For me, the coloring experience is so much more intense after a few O's with the vibe.[\B]
have we talked about what orgasms feel like? they are hard to explain and i imagine would vary person to person.
clitoris orgasms vs intercourse orgasms feel different for me.
clitoris orgasms feel like really intense goosebumps or shivers.
intercourse orgasms have the goosebump element but i feel that sensation come from the depth of my vagina (lol). it builds and builds and then radiates all over my body. i seriously feel like i am out of my mind for about 5 secs then im sleepy and feel pretty lifeless.
the french use the phrase "la petite mort" to describe the post orgasmic state. its translation means "little death". that is pretty accurate for me.
So I cannot tell anyone this IRL. The reason for the question in the OP was due to the fact that I fell for someone. Hard.
I was like freaking out at first. DH and I recently went through a crisis in our marriage and I wanted out. During this time I fell for the only person whose support I had. I told no one. I know he felt the same but we did not act on it. I mourned what could not be and decided to try and make my marriage work. In and outside the bedroom.
I dont know how but the poop has it the fan this week. I was browsing through DH facebook and saw the guy come up as a friend suggestion. So i said to DH why are you not friends with him on FB? (They are/were friends IRL) Do you want me to add him? He said "no, I hate him! We have been married 14 years. Do you not know that I know that you have caught feelings for him?!"
Confession time:
Someone asked upthread about introducing sexual toys... Just break em out. Or leave em out on the dresser. You definitely have to have a man with that's secure though.
With my SO, early on when we started dating, I just whipped out the vibe and he was like I wanna watch you use it and I did
Now I either use them solo... sometimes he's watching or I let him use it on me as an appetizer before the crayon. For me, the coloring experience is so much more intense after a few O's with the vibe.
So erm what happens now that your DH knows?
@sunshinebeautiful you must be in love with this one.
We are trying to figure it out as he goes through his myriad of crazy emotions. If yall stop seeing me post it means he has done something to me...
Joking.
But in all seriousness. I dont know what will happen. He is butthurt. Talking about divorce.
We are trying to figure it out as he goes through his myriad of crazy emotions. If yall stop seeing me post it means he has done something to me... Joking. But in all seriousness. I dont know what will happen. He is butthurt. Talking about divorce.
Did you actually confess that you fell for the other guy though? Or is he just assuming? I think that would've had to go to the grave with me. Especially if Dh and I didn't have any major issues.
i will probably have a provision in my marriage to have an occasional other partner, depending. ideally that wouldnt be my preferred circumstances, but if it were necessary i would be ok with it.
Obviously can't feel the emissions with a condom but I can feel each spasm with a condom and the buildup before. Like the lady said, just before the monent it gets rock hard, then the pulsating.
Oh oh oh darkjoy you said you've felt emission. What's it feel like? Is it awesome? Lol
How do I introduce toys?