The candid questions regarding relationships thread (for grown folks)

Crackers Phinn said:
I'm not sure which tour it was, but she used to bring dudes on stage and give them lap dances. I'm positive that every single one of them was a plant.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tyuf4GnJwao
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I'm pretty sure it was her Velvet Rope tour. I wore that tape OUT. I still to this day don't know why my mom let me listen to that album but I couldn't listen to gangsta rap. And the concert on HBO?! Chile. But I couldn't watch sex scenes in movies. My mom needed to make up her mind what I could and couldn't watch/hear :lol:

And yeah watching it again, that was a plant. Dude was way too into it. Looks fake. But as a 7 year old, it was O___O

ETA: It was her All For You tour? Really? Hmmm.

You know with all her sexual songs/acts on tour and in vids she couldn't keep a man to save her life.
 
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tru4reele said:
I would have waited until older for sure. I made some dumb decisions because I was young and stupid. I didn't even know what was going on with my body.
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I wouldn't have waited till I was older but I would have chosen a better guy.
 
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sj10460 said:
How do I introduce toys?
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Talk about it, maybe show him something you are interested in online.

Everyone is different but I would start with something small like the silver bullet or a small vibe like the pocket rocket.

OR if you have something already, you could just tell him to reach into the drawer and grab xyz and see what he says.
 
TayMac said:
Talk about it, maybe show him something you are interested in online. Everyone is different but I would start with something small like the silver bullet or a small vibe like the pocket rocket. OR if you have something already, you could just tell him to reach into the drawer and grab xyz and see what he says.
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You just gotta do it in the moment don't ask him before hand.
 
I had a g spot thing that was larger than my partner at the time and it hurt his feelings when he saw it.
 
TayMac said:
I had a g spot thing that was larger than my partner at the time and it hurt his feelings when he saw it.
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And that's what would cross my mind. If I pick out something bigger, fatter than him and it becoming an issue. Maybe have him select something, if he's with it.
 
I haven't felt the need yet for toys with a partner, to me toys are for solo play. We had a discussion about toys at work and many said they use toys so that they get off right away and then the actual sex is quick, like 5-10 min which makes them happy, :perplexed:
 
lilsweets163 said:
Hi everyone moving out of lurk mode. So my question is coloring with a curved crayon.What are the best positions?
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The guy I wrote about in the other thread had a gonzo curved one. It wasn't about positions as much as it was about positioning when it went in. For me, at least.
 
when coloring with a curved crayon a big one at that:yep::lick:--i think its best to let him

lay down on his back...and you will be on top of him (as if your sitting on his lap)..it allows you to manage how his crayon goes in and out---you can control your lotus garden and slowly loosen her muscles up as it feels more comfortable and pleasurable ( granted your going up and down at this point)

i find that accepting a big curved crayon while your laying on your back can be a bit much and not as pleasurable...but when your on top you can control how and where the curve hits your spots....:look:



lilsweets163 said:
Hi everyone moving out of lurk mode. So my question is coloring with a curved crayon.What are the best positions?
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TayMac said:
It was just a vibrator made specifically for g spot stimulation. Curved end. I don't why I said "thing" lol.
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I don't like toys generally. I just love skin, lips, hands, tongues ... But your "thing" sounds quite interesting.
 
i can kinda sympathize with a guy who is offended by vibrators. toys are only for when im single. i dont even like to watch porn with a woman rubbing her clit or using toys.
 
idk how vibrators would be incorporated, really (mutual play im assuming ie he does it for you), but i used clit stims with my last two bfs, they didnt care. one of them wasnt even mine it was his.
 
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