All my life. I'm 28. My friends would count a loser I went out with when I was 25 for about 4 months, but I don't count him because I had 0% attraction to him felt like gagging when he would kiss me. I was in a desperate phase. I've calmed down a little now trying to be patient waiting on God but the suspense is killing me. I haven't even been on a date since May 2011. I feel like I'm left on the shelf and getting dusty.