ppp422
New Member
@VAG
I am trying to gather my thoughts.....LOL
OP, if someone were to be truly objective about this guy he would have to be in a position to want to change his thinking about black women. It wouldn't be right or healthy for him to enter a relationship (let alone a marriage) with a black woman and possibly produce children if his current beliefs are absolute and unwavering. He says that you are different; could it be that he has not been exposed to enough black women (sorry but I don't think his momma is worth much
) so therefore he makes these sweeping generalizations? What about your female friends and family? Are they all "gold diggers" too? I think that a serious talk about his beliefs is needed before you could consider if you wanted to go any further with him.
Him having a biracial daughter makes this whole thing even more complicated for my liking but that is your call. Could he ever see your children as equal to her? I would seriously ask him that question. You and your children don't deserve to be fighting a losing battle for his love, attention, and genuine affection especially if he told you it was going to be like that from the get go.
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OP, if someone were to be truly objective about this guy he would have to be in a position to want to change his thinking about black women. It wouldn't be right or healthy for him to enter a relationship (let alone a marriage) with a black woman and possibly produce children if his current beliefs are absolute and unwavering. He says that you are different; could it be that he has not been exposed to enough black women (sorry but I don't think his momma is worth much
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Him having a biracial daughter makes this whole thing even more complicated for my liking but that is your call. Could he ever see your children as equal to her? I would seriously ask him that question. You and your children don't deserve to be fighting a losing battle for his love, attention, and genuine affection especially if he told you it was going to be like that from the get go.