getmoore
Active Member
OK here goes. My husband and I have been together for 20 years. He received word that he may have a child by a woman he had sex with twice almost a year before we met each other. This "woman" and I use this word loosely kept this little secret of hers for 20 YEARS!!!
I don't how to feel about this situation at all. We both got on the phone with her and she explained that its a possibility that her oldest son is his. We get her son's address and go over to see this young man for ourselves. Well. My stomach has been in knots since this happened (Wednesday) because when I saw him it was like I was looking at a younger version of my husband!
My husband introduced himself and told him that he may be his father. At that point I lost it and started pacing up and down the street trying to wrap my mind around this whole situation. By the end everyone was blubbering and crying all over the place! The young man agreed to a DNA test and we all went down there together in one car. The young man's mother didn't join us. Probably because my Hubby is livid beyond belief with her.
We get the DNA test results on Thursday but I'm almost positive just by looking at him that he is my husband's son. Please advise me on ANYTHING you want to advise me on. We have not been able to sleep thinking about how to introduce him to my Children etc.
I know this child was conceived before we met ( He was born Aug '89 I met my hubby in Aug '89 too) But I feel so .... I don't even know the words to describe how I feel.
I don't how to feel about this situation at all. We both got on the phone with her and she explained that its a possibility that her oldest son is his. We get her son's address and go over to see this young man for ourselves. Well. My stomach has been in knots since this happened (Wednesday) because when I saw him it was like I was looking at a younger version of my husband!
My husband introduced himself and told him that he may be his father. At that point I lost it and started pacing up and down the street trying to wrap my mind around this whole situation. By the end everyone was blubbering and crying all over the place! The young man agreed to a DNA test and we all went down there together in one car. The young man's mother didn't join us. Probably because my Hubby is livid beyond belief with her.
We get the DNA test results on Thursday but I'm almost positive just by looking at him that he is my husband's son. Please advise me on ANYTHING you want to advise me on. We have not been able to sleep thinking about how to introduce him to my Children etc.
I know this child was conceived before we met ( He was born Aug '89 I met my hubby in Aug '89 too) But I feel so .... I don't even know the words to describe how I feel.