Yea, I need to get out of that way of thinking. It's just whenever I take little peaks at the bills, I think "I'd really love to offer, but no way!" lol He's also added me to his membership to this downtown club that he frequents because he's appointed himself as my tennis coach. lol I'm not sure of the additional cost, but it's like $210 monthly. 
erplexed I have this need to feel like I'm contributing too, and I would hate to come off as being selfish.
Thanks for coming out of lurkdom to comment!
I can't wait for our little trip. lol I already told him to block off the time, and he keeps asking me what I have planned. lol This will be it for a while though.
700 bucks isn't that much money, plus, I'm sure he will insist on paying for some the excursions you guys do while you're away. He just sounds like that type of guy. Maybe plan the trip in few weeks, just to hit your 3 month mark for peach of mind. 
@ the bolded. I'm honestly in a good place now though, and I'll admit that although I've never participated in casual sex, I also don't partaking in extra curricular activity with someone that I'm committed to and that I have an emotional connectio with. Shoot, I waited with my last serious relationship, and we had to break up -- even after I met his mom and things were perfect -- because he couldn't keep an erection. 
but congrats Ediese! Just by process of elimination i kinda figured out your SO was Luke. I'm happy for you and I hope your relationship continues to flourish.
could you possibly post them again or pm a sista?
he's white, they're used to overspending
I'm late as hell
I'm so sad I missed his pics
lol Thanks for being even more optimistic than me!
That gives me a lot to consider when posting in the future. He's smart and funny. Please don't mention this thread, or me at all. I think I felt more of a connection with Luke out of all the guys, so I didn't feel like prolonging the inevitable with Dee.
Lmao yep, it's the SAME person! It's a small world after all. Now I'm starting to think that I probably shouldn't have posted too much information about these guys. I would have never imagined someone else knowing them.
I'll say this. Dee is a real sweetheart.
Cons: I didn't feel any chemistry, no tingling loins, etc and I'm more attracted to alpha males. His voice, mannerisms, eye to fashion, etc didn't help matters.
Like I said though, he's a really sweet guy. His schedule is pretty open when he's not on call, so he'll request dates pretty often and sometimes back to back. I think that's a good thing because it shows that he's truly interested, and really wanting to be in a relationship.
You gave an 'interesting' description of him LOL. I don't even know the man but I got an image in my head.. I do hope he finds the right person tho'.
