Men-free Zone ~ The Non-romantic Relationship Thread

qchelle said:
Lol! Yes! I loved the book! :lol:
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Lol. I plan to see it next week.
 
I started the application process to volunteer for the Red Cross (not a donor). Now I'm just waiting to see which position I'm approved for! I'm also about to start the application process for volunteering at the public library and to babysit and pet the cats at the animal shelter!!
 
I have a "friend" yall. I literally put myself on the front line for. We met during a social gathering of black women here in Austin. I been a sympathetic ear through alot of stuff until stuff started sounding mad familiar. I mean she would bounce stuff off me before she would publicly post things, like an emotional springboard, next thing I know it's on her SM. But then stuff started to not add up. It was like line after line of victimization. I am not one to judge, because I been through alot of things she shared so some people's lives are that unfortunate. But I would share my experience, offer support, you know friend stuff. I am very resourceful. I can get you where you want to go or point you in that direction, because I know people, stuff, processes.


Every time I would post something on the networking page, she would delete it (she is the founder), and I do not post often and it is about a community/ fundraising event. And I see people self promoting all the time. But my post would automatically go into moderation then delete. I also notice another one of our good friends and co founder left the group and it is kinda unmoderated now.
So when I asked her what was up, just casually she says she will look into it then says she battling breast cancer. I tell her I am always there to support, because I went through a double mastectomy and did she need anything treatment wise. She said she was going to handle it holistically. Now she doesn't have cancer.


Okay y'all. Truthfully, I think it's bull crap. She used this angle to get into that particular circle. You know how some people like to build a sympathetic fanbase, like the breast feeding stripper mom/ Musiq Soulchild's former BM. I honestly think she is a social climber that has an extreme need to belong. First it was the activist circle, then she had to pull away, then she pivoted to making dating events then she pivoted to modeling and cancer survivor and now it is the metaphysical circle, because in Austin everyone has to be on a spiritual higher plane *eye roll*. All this things would be left unfinished as she goes to chase the next thing. Just reads disingenuous. Everytime I go out, it is draining. Some people have this need to be known.


I think the realization came when I was at an event, in this awful VIP section, like really what is the use of having premium seating if, one, you cannot see the performer, two, the stage is being blocked by monitors, three, no courtesy bottle service despite you paid 200% over ticket value and I suggested they have bottle service. In a DM!!! ****!!! That deserves a bottle for making YOU money. They served dinner plates without drinks and they were in a take out styrofoam tray. At an all white party and the only people who had tables were VIP. Girl! My dude said the jerk chicken was just baked chicken with a mango glaze. I have yet to have jerk chicken. I am beginning to think it is a rare cuisine or something. How can the rice be over cooked and under cooked at the SAME DAMN TIME?!! Y'all!!!

These Austin promoters playing games and this is why we cannot have nice things. Had the headliner tripping over equipment and weaving through stuff to get to her set up. She tripped, because of the set up! I was like "bae, what is this hoe ish?!!" I am still hot. Tiffany did not deserve that. All the artists performed covers when they had albums because the house band too lazy, dj too lazy or they did not have a sound engineer or they were not getting paid enough. One lady was like f* it. I drove all the way from Killeen, y'all are going to hear my ish. And she was, by far, the best performer of the night. House band off key. A mess!


Whoa...so...yeah, I was there. But I let people sit in my section, was very personable and approachable, I thought. The dress was bad so maybe people were intimidated, that is normal but once you talk to me, I am genuinely a cool person. I am saying all this to say. My "friend" later on the networking page was like "yeah I was there, I saw you and you looked stunning." I was like "aww thank you boo, where were you? You did not say 'hi'? I was looking for familiar faces." She was like next time I will definitely come through and give you hugs. Lip service.

So me and another associate were talking about this guy that I remember attacked the friend on SM so I went to tag her and it seems I am not her friend anymore. **** no. Was I ever? You are not about to be in my DMs as an emotional springboard. Now you are a "model" with an average of 200 likes with these long arse diatribe about the metaphysical celestial bodies in the fifth house of bull spit because that the way the Austin wind blows. I am not your fan, ****. I am going to stop letting people take my energy and my life story.

Story of my life, too nice, too accomodating. I have no circle. I have a line segment. Literally Point A to Point B. I am so disillusion about the Austin market. I been doing some reflection. Like how I see things versus how people see me. I asked the other co founder, like, honestly, what is it? Everyone tends to recuse themselves eventually. There is no real energy here. Only fascades.
 
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caribeandiva said:
Here she is: View attachment 410105

Imma just leave this rightchea
http://moptopmaven.blogspot.com/2011/01/eat-drink-play-dinner-at-philippe-chow.html?m=1
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Nah, I was holding my breath though. That would have been mad funny, lol.
Why do people do this? People actually go through these things. She claimed she had to step back from the women empowerment network thing because she was sexually assualted. I am not minimize it or calling her a liar, but a few weeks after that she was doing a speed dating venture. We all handle and process things differently. Then she said she needed to take time and reflect and that is understandable, good, I was being emotionally drained from the protesting and marches. Then she jumped right into this another venture. Each thing she grew bored up came back with an pressing matter. Like you cannot say I tried it, didn't like it. No it had to be something to draw in sympathy.

The last was breast cancer and that catipulted her interest in modeling and taking pictures of herself being strong everyday, then seeking agency. I asked her did she receive a diagnosis and she was like I am dealing with it holistically. So she going under the guise of a survivor in everything she does. But those are people's actually stories. I have the mastectomy scars and no nipples. But she out here with her whole titties talking about she is a survivor. Eventually that went away, now she sister to the light, 8th dimension of the lying kind. It is just as well. But we all went into that group to connect with a sisterhood. It makes you feel some type of way.

ETA: I was looking through my messages and she couldn't go to a group function she hosted, because she had a rare seizure. Of course, it something to keep confidential. You see where I am getting at?
 
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PrissiSippi said:
Yall made me lookup MopTopMaven on Instagram lol I miss those threads
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Gurl... I was a huge fan of her blog from the start. I think she came on here to tell us about it like CurlyNikki did when she first launched her site. It was one of the few blogs I legit kept up with. I also followed her YouTube channel and her tutorials. She was selling merchandise and everything. I remember vividly when she made her last post announcing that she was gravely and chronically ill for a while now and will take a step back from everything. We all prayed for her and kept sending her well wishes for months and checking up on her to see if she's ok. She never updated her blog again so I stopped checking for her. I also took a break from Lhcf. Imagine my surprise when a year later I log back on here and see all the threads about her and her new business venture: Enso (or Enzo) naturals hair care line. I was floored to find out that homegirl was a scammer, and ran off with all of her customers money without ever sending them their orders. She straight up lied about being sick and has done so many times before apparently (new illness each time). I forgot who outed her. I felt like a fool for a long time cuz I really liked her and her posts.
 
TwoSnapsUp said:
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Lol. I plan to see it next week.
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I really really liked it!! I was scared it was gonna be corny and wack, cuz of the kids, but it wasn't! Full on gore, profanity, and scare tactics! It was fun, too, of course lol.

I'm glad I love going out alone, because there are lots more movies coming out soon that no one I know will want to see :lol: Jeepers Creepers 3, Cult of Chucky, and Jigsaw. I may take a trip up to PA to visit my friend from college to see one of them with.
:D
 
qchelle said:
I really really liked it!! I was scared it was gonna be corny and wack, cuz of the kids, but it wasn't! Full on gore, profanity, and scare tactics! It was fun, too, of course lol.

I'm glad I love going out alone, because there are lots more movies coming out soon that no one I know will want to see :lol: Jeepers Creepers 3, Cult of Chucky, and Jigsaw. I may take a trip up to PA to visit my friend from college to see one of them with.
:D
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This is great to hear! I was planning to go see it on Tuesday.
 
qchelle said:
I really really liked it!! I was scared it was gonna be corny and wack, cuz of the kids, but it wasn't! Full on gore, profanity, and scare tactics! It was fun, too, of course lol.

I'm glad I love going out alone, because there are lots more movies coming out soon that no one I know will want to see :lol: Jeepers Creepers 3, Cult of Chucky, and Jigsaw. I may take a trip up to PA to visit my friend from college to see one of them with.
:D
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Yeah you right. You on yo own hon. I hate horror flicks. :lol: They give me nightmares.
 
qchelle said:
I really really liked it!! I was scared it was gonna be corny and wack, cuz of the kids, but it wasn't! Full on gore, profanity, and scare tactics! It was fun, too, of course lol.

I'm glad I love going out alone, because there are lots more movies coming out soon that no one I know will want to see :lol: Jeepers Creepers 3, Cult of Chucky, and Jigsaw. I may take a trip up to PA to visit my friend from college to see one of them with.
:D
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I would see JC and CC with you, but I'm not messing with Jigsaw... lol
 
Me my mom and sis had dinner last night and then my sister came back to my house to finally take her birthday present home. But she stayed until 5am. After she left I fell asleep on the couch and then my alarm went off at 8am to remind me I had a therapy appointment. There was no way. I could barely keep my eyes open so I had to reschedule my appointment. I feel all out of sorts today staying up that late without doing anything. I'm still on the couch now eating ice cream and shopping for wigs online.
 
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