"Love in 90 Days"
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HauteHippie
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How awful! Took me a minute to realize what you meant.
Yeah, I was like
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But it's all good now.Sent from my T-Mobile G2 using T-Mobile G2
Come on ladies, let's post our experiences!
I'm surprised to say I have somewhat of a positive story...from the DC metro. (I think it was because I was in Virginia, and not the ghetto parts of the metro.) But either way, I was with a friend I just met, waiting for her to get her metro card. I guess I was just smiling automatically because I'm usually smiley when I'm with people I know. But I caught the eye of this cute tall Chinese guy (who I actually saw on the metro the day before also) unintentionally (I was just looking in that direction) while I was already smiling. And he told me a silly comment to make me laugh before he walked away. I feel like this happened because I was already smiling and present.
So I'm going to work on this challenge: smiling, being present, and positive, even when I'm in not so nice areas, until I can learn how to turn it on and off genuinely.
I'm surprised to say I have somewhat of a positive story...from the DC metro. (I think it was because I was in Virginia, and not the ghetto parts of the metro.) But either way, I was with a friend I just met, waiting for her to get her metro card. I guess I was just smiling automatically because I'm usually smiley when I'm with people I know. But I caught the eye of this cute tall Chinese guy (who I actually saw on the metro the day before also) unintentionally (I was just looking in that direction) while I was already smiling. And he told me a silly comment to make me laugh before he walked away. I feel like this happened because I was already smiling and present.
So I'm going to work on this challenge: smiling, being present, and positive, even when I'm in not so nice areas, until I can learn how to turn it on and off genuinely.
Glib Gurl
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How great!
Today I was not in a good mood. Just with the blah weather and other issues, I was not feelin' it. However, I was more *aware* of the number of men I encountered during the day . . . on my way to the office, in the Starbucks, etc., etc. I didn't smile (because I wasn't feelin it
) but just having the awareness that "Hey, there ARE men around here." That was comforting 
rafikichick92
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vevster: Thanks for the link! I read the ebook and I have actually know someone who used this technique for another issue. I didn't know it could be used in relationship-type issues. How are you using the energy techniques? Are you doing them yourself or you working with a professional? How is it going for you so far? Sorry for all the questions, but this has really peaked my interested, especially since I know someone who has used this in the past. Thanks!
vevster
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I have used EFT in the past w/ great success. I just started this and am a little behind. I plan on catching up this weekend. I need a man like YESTERDAY. I'm extremely overdue.
bluediamond0829
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Is this book by Shay the Date Diva?
I just ordered a book that has a i think 30 day challenge in it with assignments etc in it.
Okay nevermind i read the thread and see that its not by her.
I just ordered a book that has a i think 30 day challenge in it with assignments etc in it.
Okay nevermind i read the thread and see that its not by her.
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I'm am embarrassed to say I don't get it. Was the guy a woman?
vevster
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Do_Si_Dos
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So I purchased this book. It really opened my eyes to a few of my issues and why my dates have not turned into relationships. I fear the thing I want most, and that's a healthy balanced relationship. So this book made me be honest with myself about somethings..... Thanks Glib Gurl for posting about this book. I really need to get myself together!!!!
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caribeandiva
Human being
Bump. I’m currently reading this book and it’s making me realize that I’m a commitment phobe. It’s one of my deadly dating patterns. That explains a lot.
awhyley
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Anyone know what happened to @Glib Gurl? Has she left the board? This thread reminded me that I haven't seen a post from her in ages.
