To stay would be foolish not insecure. A woman secure in her self would know she doesn't need to stay with a cheater.ETA: Reading that implies that he admitted to sending it, but didn't intend to act on it, so there's no misunderstanding or some trick the woman. My answer based on that information: I am, admittedly, entirely too insecure to stay after such revelations. There would be no working out for me....talk of marriage and all. I. would. shut. down. He'd never see or get wind that I shed a single tear or played a single Toni Braxton/Keyshia Cole/Adele in his honor. I'd do exactly what homegirl did, all means of communication done. But I surely envy the women strong enough or confident enough...whatever it is, to being able to withstand something like that or overlook those kinds of "mistakes."
Random thought: I never understood why a loved one would encourage someone to stay or go back to someone who betrayed them. I would be furious with anyone who encouraged me to stay with someone just because we were together for such and such a time, and spent every second of the day together. So???...he betrayed me. F him.
He is not a faithful man!
He's sexting with a woman behind her back.
I wouldn't be able to trust him.
Sounds like he pissed the other girl off.
How did she know he had a girlfriend?
I'm guessing he posted pics of he and his girlfriend on FB.
And I'm also going to guess that this other girl is one of his "friends" on FB.
That's why I'm starting to think I gave bad advice. Part of me thinks "it was just a text" that he didn't act on. But then I put myself in that position and I'm not sure I would be able to do it. I guess I'm looking at it like it like it's been 9 months, they've met each others parents, they're together everyday, went on about three vacations together. You just look at them and you see love in their eyes. My friend said she had no idea that he would of done that to her. There were no clues or anything. She actually first didn't believe the girl until she got the screenshots and he fessed up to doing it and has been blowing her work phone up and sending messages to her fb and some of our friends trying to talk to her.
I would break it off completely. There is nothing to work through. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Her SO and the other woman both said there was no sex during but he has had sex with this woman in the past..