MissJ
Well-Known Member
Okay, long story short. This guy chose to become exclusive with another girl, while we were in the "getting-to-know-you-stage." I don't know the girl, but I don't see how she's so much better than me. Maybe it's the fact that she's Latina, you know the type with the too-tight clothes, not-so-nice body, and a bunch of kids following behind.
Anyway, the guy has been asking me to do stuff with him for the past few weeks and keeps mentioning to me that he's "newly single." I just stay silent at that point, with rage building. I hadn't taken him up on his offers to do anything. Then one day, I stayed at the library extra late, didn't drive, so I had to take the bus home. I went to the empty bus terminal and waited. It was raining hard outside. I didn't think the bus would be there for a long while. Some black guy came in and started playing music on his phone. I opened up my laptop and started reading. Then I noticed someone had sat down right beside me, when the whole place was empty. It was the guy. He started talking, of course, happy to see me.
He said that if I'd wait until he printed something off in the computer lab that he'd take me home. I thought about it: the pitch black dark, the rain, and me walking in the street to get home from the bus. I said okay. Then he started asking to take me to dinner. I kept saying no. Then while we were in the car, he thought of an angle. It was Cinco de Mayo. He was like, please let me take you to a Mexican restaurant to celebrate Cinco de Mayo. Not, thinking I agreed, because I'd never done anything for Cinco de Mayo before.
While we were there, I was thinking, "What am I doing? I have no intentions of dating him again. I'm not even interested." I tried to pay for my own stuff, but he insisted that he pay. Anyway, I was on facebook lastnight, and he was on. He started chatting with me, and he asked me out again. Then I just had to ask him about what he told me a few months ago about his being an a-hole, unreliable, my being too good for him, and his being crazier than my ex. You know the kind of speech the guy gives when he doesn't want a relationship with YOU.
This was his response:
I was heated. My arms got a little numb, and my head started to hurt a little. I'm nobody's good-for-now girl, never have been, never will be. Anyway, I'm tempted to just give the money back that he spent on me on Cinco de Mayo. What do y'all think?
Anyway, the guy has been asking me to do stuff with him for the past few weeks and keeps mentioning to me that he's "newly single." I just stay silent at that point, with rage building. I hadn't taken him up on his offers to do anything. Then one day, I stayed at the library extra late, didn't drive, so I had to take the bus home. I went to the empty bus terminal and waited. It was raining hard outside. I didn't think the bus would be there for a long while. Some black guy came in and started playing music on his phone. I opened up my laptop and started reading. Then I noticed someone had sat down right beside me, when the whole place was empty. It was the guy. He started talking, of course, happy to see me.
He said that if I'd wait until he printed something off in the computer lab that he'd take me home. I thought about it: the pitch black dark, the rain, and me walking in the street to get home from the bus. I said okay. Then he started asking to take me to dinner. I kept saying no. Then while we were in the car, he thought of an angle. It was Cinco de Mayo. He was like, please let me take you to a Mexican restaurant to celebrate Cinco de Mayo. Not, thinking I agreed, because I'd never done anything for Cinco de Mayo before.
While we were there, I was thinking, "What am I doing? I have no intentions of dating him again. I'm not even interested." I tried to pay for my own stuff, but he insisted that he pay. Anyway, I was on facebook lastnight, and he was on. He started chatting with me, and he asked me out again. Then I just had to ask him about what he told me a few months ago about his being an a-hole, unreliable, my being too good for him, and his being crazier than my ex. You know the kind of speech the guy gives when he doesn't want a relationship with YOU.
This was his response:
Do you wear a tape recorder? I can't argue with myself but I don't really think that I am an a$$hole. I actually think I am a good person. I enjoy spending time with you and I find you very attractive. I have for a long time. I'm not all that crazy either but yeah I guess I gave you too good of advice about myself.
I am anti-relationship at this point. But I enjoy spending time with you.
Maybe go out to eat or a movie one day.
I was heated. My arms got a little numb, and my head started to hurt a little. I'm nobody's good-for-now girl, never have been, never will be. Anyway, I'm tempted to just give the money back that he spent on me on Cinco de Mayo. What do y'all think?
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