You know he's not that into you when....
-It feels like pulling teeth just to get a conversation going with him---SOME men are "shy", but usually they open up once you start talking with them----If a guy NEVER opens up much to you, then he's not "shy", he's not "socially retarted", he can talk alright...he's just not that interested in talking to YOU. Smh...I had to learn this the hard way...
-He NEVER initiates any calls to you....
-You find that you are doing most of the calling and texting
-You have to wonder whether or not he's into you
-He feels free talking about other women in your presence
-He starts to act funny, become a little distant, or outright IGNORES you when you're out and another girl in your group of "friends" is in your midst (chances are...he's really interested in HER more, and therefore he doesn't know how to act when you both are in the same vicinity
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-He blatantly flirts with another girl in front of you
-You're always asking HIM questions and he never asks you questions to try to get to know you (had to learn this the hard way!
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-He doesn't make it a point to be around you
-He has a hard time keeping his word
-He cancels out on dates with you, and doesn't offer to reschedule for another time
-He doesn't introduce you to his family, close friends, or other important people in his life
-He doesn't seem all that worried about putting his best foot forward or making a good "impression" on you
-He doesn't go out of his way to treat you nicely or take you out to nice places
-If you two have an argument, YOU'RE usually the first one to reach out to him and apologize or try to make up. He could give you the "silent treatment" forever, and doesn't seem too eager to "make up" or apologize
-He's always taking taking taking...and hardly ever giving
-He puts you down.....sometimes subtly....other times, not-so subtly.
-You never quite feel "safe" and secure in your relationship w/him. You're always wondering where you stand
-He doesn't ask for your number
-He's never there when you need him
-You twist yourself into a pretzel trying to figure out if he's "just shy" or needs some "encouragement" in order to come up to talk to you or ask you out.
-You catch him staring at you, but he never makes a move and comes up to actually TALK to you
I could go on and on for days...lol...