carolinetwin
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I’m just curious as I’ve been surprised by some members saying they don’t find black men attractive. To me, it’s like saying you don’t find yourself attractive.
I’m just curious as I’ve been surprised by some members saying they don’t find black men attractive. To me, it’s like saying you don’t find yourself attractive.
I have not dated any black men, my husband is white. Now that doesn't mean I don't drool over certain men, but I just never pictured myself with a black man.
I personally believe that in the end we are all human beings. Perhaps our preferences will be a little bit skewed toward who you have grown up with/your inherent traits. But at the end of the day, I think most people find other human beings attractive regardless of ethnicity.
Why can't people just find certain individuals attractive without commenting on a whole race?
Oh my god nappychick that lil man in your siggie is too cute. i don't know how i missed that precious lil face before. he's ADORABLE!!!!I'll bring beer
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I’m just curious as I’ve been surprised by some members saying they don’t find black men attractive. To me, it’s like saying you don’t find yourself attractive
IMHO
With all due respect I really don't understand how you came to that conclusion. I do not find black men attractive so I do not find myself attractive?? But I am not a black man.![]()
Now I'm just curious here because a lot of black people say that because I am not with nor have ever dated a black man then that means I am self hating. Does it mean the same thing when I say that my husband has never dated a white woman, doesn't find them attractive at all, then he's self hating too? It really is just a question not trying to get all snippety!
I have only dated black men, however I am thinking about opening myself up to other races due to the successful black woman to male ratio that basically makes me feel like there's no hope.
I have to disagree with the bold.. I'm attracted to dark skin black men and I'm no where near dark skin..
I know white women that aren't attracted to white men and vice versa.
I don't think not liking someone of your own race has anything to with projection
I agree with this statement. I immediately thought the samething.
Ignore those people. You are not self-hating for having a preference. I prefer white men over black men...and I give any black dudes that try to speak to me....the poo poo face.
There are black men who prefer white women over black women. Are they self-hating? NOPE!!! So why shouldn't a black woman have her pick.
People need to stop over analyzing the whole interracial relationship thing. Date who you prefer!!!!
Agreed!